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    • Day 18

      Free Day, Sirubari, Lamjung

      January 28, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 13 °C

      Today started off easily enough, read my book for a bit, "showered", breakfast. I then walked to the next village to one of the teacher's homes because Beda and Bobita had other things to do. I wasn't entirely sure why I was going, and the directions I was given to get there were "follow the road until you see someone to show you his house" lol. Thankfully I did find it no problem! There was someone leaving who showed me where to go. When I arrived, I picked up what I had been sent for, mutton. I guess today was slaughter day.. Must have something to do with some party I heard is going on today. Pretty sure that I don't like mutton but I guess we'll see. Along the walk there I was able to talk breifly with Mom before the signal faded!

      When I returned home I decided I needed to do some laundry. Finding the cistern was a challenge, apparently I just don't understand directions very well.. Or I don't understand the difference between a big tree and a medium sized tree, but hey. But once I did find it I started washing my clothes. And didn't have enough laundry soap of course. So I used a bar of soap meant for the body and it worked well enough! After I figured out how the heck to wash clothes properly without a sink... Pretty sure I didn't do a very good job on some items. I also understand now why a lot of people don't bother with socks here (they all wear sandals 90% of the time) even when it's cold. Because they're impossible to clean! I will be following suit now and dealing with cold feet instead of the struggle of washing socks that just don't get clean. Thankfully, I only brought black socks so you can't really tell that they're still covered in dirt. They smell fine though :p Once the clothes dry we'll see how successful I was with washing them.. While I was doing my laundry a goat tried to eat some socks! It was kind of comical but frustrating at the same time haha.

      When I was back from washing clothing, there was no one at the house and I took the opportunity to just relax. Wishing I had some beers to drink, but not enough to walk down to town for them! So instead I read my book, did some stretching and other exercises. I can feel myself getting more flexible in some ways, like the hips even though they ache, and in some ways I feel tighter, my calves in particular. And my back aches, but pretty sure that's just muscles getting stronger..

      At some point in the afternoon Bobita came back to the house to make some tea and I went with her down to the celebration. I'm not entirely sure what this one was all about... Some girls tried to explain it and I think it's something to do with honouring women. Grandma was there and received a blessing of some sort in front of the... Blessing area? One pro of letting the girls use my phone for photos meant they took one of the area I'm talking about so I didn't have to be the offensive stranger taking pictures of everything ;) This one was more elaborate than the one at the wedding party, but the same idea. Offerings of food, money, flowers, in bowls made of banana leaves all placed under a knit cloth draped from 4 poles decorated with leaves and flowers. I'm starting to notice a clear separation between men and women in al public events. There is very little mixing of the sexes, the women all sit together and the men sit together. The children drift between the two groups but tend to stay with the women. Or, like today, with me. They're fascinated by me and honestly I'm okay with their company because it's so easy to talk to children. All they want to do is learn and have fun, if the conversation isn't all that intelligent well that's okay. There is one brother and sister in particular that just melt my heart, children of one of the teachers. The little boy always comes and sits with me and the girl is always explaining what's happening and showing me around. Makes me think of having my own one day ;) oh! And the children gave me these little fruits that were super sour and delicious and I wish that we had them at home! Called lapsi I believe.

      For dinner we had the mutton.. Definitely not a fan. But I tried!
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    • Day 34

      Last Day in Sirubari, Lamjung

      February 13, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 19 °C

      Today was my last full day here in Sirubari :(

      I started the day by having my last bucket shower and scocializng before school started. At school I showed Ganesh a few final things to do with the laptop, made sure that everything was working okay and also printed out visa application forms for him and Beda/Bobita to visit Canada. All they have to do is fill them out and submit! We'll see if anything comes out of it or not, hopefully :) I figured it's the least I could to, to navigate the confusing website and find the proper information for them. We had a final lunch and afterwards I taught one last English class and one last computer class. I think that everything should be good to go! I also left my spare headphones behind to be used with the laptop. For video calling, watching movies, whatever is needed. Offers a bit more privacy should anyone choose to make calls over wifi there.

      Instead of last period there was a small goodbye arranged for me! It was very emotional for me, I was quite honoured and very sad to leave. It was just the teachers and students present, nothing big and grand like when the Japanese group was here and for that I was thankful. It was much more personal and I had a chance to actually say my thanks and goodbyes to all the teachers and students at my leisure.

      They had me sit on a chair outside the office and started off with a little speech that was very touching. Mahadev did most of the talking and said some kind things about how I have a generous spirit, how they're very thankful that I took the time to teach them the technology that might help bring them out of the "stone age" as he called it. They really wanted to thank me for my kindness and I gather that there have been volunteers in the past that were there more for an experience than to truly help. I'm just glad that they did benefit from me being there! Even though I feel like I only scratched the surface of what I could have taught them about technology in particular. But, I suppose I've had years and years of practice, there's no way that I could impart all that knowledge in such a short time. What they really need is someone to stay longer and be able to dedicate more time. I wish it could be me, but I sadly need to move on. I told them that I'm available to help remotely though should they need it! And I hope that they take that offer seriously because I meant it as a genuine offer. Genuinely enough that I set up a shared folder on Google Drive that I can access to help with anything that might need doing.

      After Mahadev's little speech each student, starting with the lower classes, came to me and gave me a small gift of flowers and gave me tikka. The first student was my little friend, Prabes, and he started the trend of putting tikka on my cheeks as well as forehead. He's a cute little trouble maker ;) As each student came to say goodbye and give me tikka, their gifts grew more extravagant the older they got. There were necklaces made of flowers, origami flowers, a handmade Nepali flag, and even a prayer scarf. After the students had said their goodbyes the teachers came by one by one to give me tikka and each said a few kind words. One line that stood out was that this was only a temporary goodbye because my friend was sure they would see me again again in Nepal. I was offered many times a place to stay when I return and told that I should bring my boyfriend/husband or parents next time!

      During the goodbye I gave my phone to one of the students to take pictures, so I have lots to remember. Going through them now makes me smile and I definitely will not be forgetting any of these wonderful people. Beda was the last to give me tikka and he also gave me a lovely scarf as a good luck blessing. I wish that I could take all of these flowers and gifts with me but I know they won't last. And have I ever mentioned how great they all smell?? Amazing! I did take the flag that Susana made and one of the origami flowers as well. I also have a volunteer certificate to bring home as a memory.

      After all the teachers and students finished giving me tikka, my face was covered and I had so many flowers around my neck! I had the chance to say goodbye but I was at a loss for words. I almost choked up.. But I said something about how much their kindness meant to me and that they will always be in my memories.

      After leaving the school I was invited to visit Ganesh's house. He came back to "my" house briefly and we had tea with grandma, Bobita, and Beda. I then walked with him to his house where we talked for a while and I watched while he did some of the chores that I've become familiar with in this lifestyle - milking the Buffalo, watering the plants, etc. He has some very flattering perspectives on respect, quality of life, and value of women/mothers in society! Definitely reflecting the Nepali culture that I've been learning about and love. At some point he cut up a papaya fresh from the tree for us to eat and warmed up some of the fresh milk as well. His father was also there, sorting through coffee pods getting them ready to take to the mill! His father had a number of questions for me so Ganesh translated so we could talk. Some of the usual questions about cultural differences, and some more in depth questions about what I plan to do when I return to Canada. I left when it started to get dark so that I wouldn't worry Beda and Bobita and he called them shortly after I arrived home to make sure I made it safely. As I was leaving he gave me a lovely scarf as a goodbye gift. And in my favourite colour! He also gave me some vegetables to bring to Bobita.

      When I returned to the house Bobita was waiting for me and had a very touching gift waiting for me; traditional Nepali clothing! I suspected that's what the measurements were for the other day but I didn't want to assume. The clothing is beautiful and I will definitely treasure them. And they're incredibly comfortable. I will definitely be wearing them in the future! The pants in particular are the best pants I've owned, they remind me of the pair that I bought in Bratislava a few years ago and regret losing. The neighbour lady who made the clothes made them so that they would still fit if, when I return home, I get "fat" I've come to understand that the term fat is not offensive here but somewhat flattering. Something to remember for anyone who is planning on visiting Nepal in the future ;)

      For dinner we had a special, sweet red rice. The name sounds like Onitay, but I'm sure it's spelled differently, I'll have to Google it when I have an internet connection again. My data package expired today so I'm out of luck for a while. Not a problem for me!

      I tried packing after dinner but it was too difficult to leave out what I needed for the next day and I gave up so that I could spend my remaining time visiting instead. Apparently Grandma is very sad to see my go and has told them that she wants me to stay a long time! Bobita and Beda were making cheese and butter for Beda to bring to Kathmandu with us tomorrow. I guess they each have sisters who live in the city and as they don't have buffalo's in the city so can't get quality butter and cheese. I tried some of the cheese while it was still warm and it tastes... I don't even know how to describe it. It's crumbly kind of like blue cheese but the flavour is more similar to goat cheese but less tangy. At some point we went to watch TV for a bit then off to bed at a decent hour considering last night was a late one ;)
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    • Day 32

      Free Day, Sirubari, Lamjung

      February 11, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 19 °C

      Saturday today! I woke up after a fantastic sleep and caught up on some writing until breakfast. I then went to the cistern and washed some clothes, I think I'm getting the hang of it. All I can say is good thing I only brought black socks because there is so much dirt here it just gets everywhere, seeps in to clothing even through shoes. After washing clothes I spent the entire day working on the school's new laptop. The main reason it took so long is the poor singal at the house, so when the laptop was charged up and I couldn't do anymore without downloading some programs I wandered over to the school where the signal is stronger. I figured out how to change some programs into English and Nepali, made an instructions page, set the school up with an email address, configured bookmarks and shortcuts and the start screen, and just did the grunt work that comes with owning a new computer. I'm feeling better about leaving so soon now that this is done. I just need to go over a few things with the teachers about the computer and it's all on them :) And a few things left to do on the school computers and finished!

      I wandered back from the school occasionally to charge the computer - I don't have access to the rooms just sitting outside - and during those times I ate, socialized, and had measurements taken! Bobita had a neighbour come over and measure me for what I'm assuming are some traditional Nepali clothing. So honoured and excited! We'll see haha. Fingers crossed :) I made my final trip home after watching the sun set and finishing the final download. Installed the programs at home, ate, and watched TV with Bobita and Grandma before heading to bed. Sounds like Bed is staying in Bhotewodar tonight. I guess a few teachers do that?

      Anyway, I have tomorrow and the following day remaining at school :( I'll have to say my goodbyes and leave for Kathmandu the next day... Time is running short!
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    • Day 29

      Sirubari, Lamjung

      February 8, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 20 °C

      This morning was an early morning! The group, Yogendra and I left at 5:30 ish to hike to the top of the mountain to watch the sunrise! Or tried to anyway, we didn't make it in time because as a group we were slow but it was beautiful nonetheless. I may try to go on my own one time before I leave, but at the same time maybe not haha. Yogendra trusted me to lead the way and let me tell you in the dark everything looks so different! We missed one turn but it only turned into a short detour, actually I think it was faster at the end of the day really. When we finally reached the top the views were breathtaking. It was clear and you could see everything! Bhotewodar was down in the distance, the school was closer down, the Himalayas were poking through the clouds and turning pink from the rising sun. What a peaceful place! Because the top of the mountain also hosts a cell tower I had an excellent signal. I called both mom and dad and spoke to them briefly while the rest of the group took pictures and posed with a baseball bat that one of them brought. I should really ask about that... On our way down we stopped for tea at a shop by the senior school (where one of the festivals was at) before making our way back to the house. Yogendra and I went back more quickly as time was running short and I had things I needed to prepare before school started.

      We ate breakfast as a group again and afterwards Bed and I snuck off to make it to school on time. The group arrived later, about 45 minutes after classes started. All the students were called to stand in a line, similar to how they do first thing in the morning when they do a few discipline exercises, sing the national anthem, and answer a few questions. I guess I haven't actually written about that yet! First thing in the morning the students are called to the play field and stand in lines based on what class they're in. Then one of the teachers, usually Ganesh, runs them through some poses. When I first arrived the commands were all in Nepali but, for my benefit I think, they switched to English at some point. The poses range from standing at attention and at ease, moving their arms to the sides and clapping above their heads. To teach discipline and respect I believe. Some mornings too the students uniforms and fingernails are inspected to make sure that they're clean and respectable. They then sing their national anthem, which I believe that I almost have memorized, and one student from each row comes to the front to ask a question of their fellow students and await a response. The questions are different each day, I should find out more about them. The role of the teachers here is so important to these students. I was talking to my teacher friend about it and it makes my heart melt about the compassion and caring that these people have for their students. I'm sure teachers at home do too! But there is a need here to educate the children of parents that may not be educated themselves. Apparently a lot of children don't receive much attention from their parents at home because of the busy lifestyle here. So it's the school's job to teach the children about things like basic hygiene - changing socks everyday, brushing teeth, washing, etc - among other things. They're fighting very hard to break a cycle here in Nepal and I have a lot of respect for it. They want to see the children educated so that the country can be brought to a better place as a whole...

      Anyway, back to the arrival of the group at school. The students were called to stand in a line at the side of the school and each Japanese volunteer introduced themselves. Afterwards the group split up and took the older kids up the the cistern to teach them about hygiene. I stayed down at the school with the younger kids and participated with the activities the group had planned for them. There was lots of singing and dancing! At first the children weren't really into it but by the end of it they sure were. My favourite part was when they tried to get everyone signing "if you're happy and you know it" haha reminded me so much of my childhood! I loaned them my speaker to play the music and of course sang along. Some teachers watched and others participated. I did a bit of both taking some pictures as well.

      At some point I was called down to the office because the computer keyboard wasn't working. So we searched and found the keys for the computer lab finally! And were able to get a new keyboard plugged in. I made my way back to the computer lab to try and finish setting everything up. During that time a class came in and I got them playing on the 5 computers that turn on at once, we need another powerbar for the 6th one. Boy is it crazy when they all come in at once screaming asking questions, constantly saying ma'am ma'am here here help me! But eventually they settled down and managed to play nicely. No typing lessons today! But, even playing games I see their improvement in using the computers. I've been showing them a bit of what I do when I'm trying to get them working, how the keyboards plug in, proper ways to make short cuts, copy files, etc and they're starting to be more self sufficient which is great. There was this game that they all used to fight over too, a dirt biking game, that was only on one computer and now it's on all of them. Less fighting thankfully... Anyway, at some point the Japanese group came in to observe and talk with the children. That helped with the chaos! Becuase 5 computes and 15 children is difficult to manage. The Japanese and the students played and at some point they all started dancing together.

      When lunch time rolled around I forced the children to abandon the room and we went to eat. We had a very special lunch of chicken instead of lentils! An honour for the group, I wonder if they know that it was a special lunch? In any case it was delicious. It was also really funny watching each person in the group try a Chile, they all had the same reaction, utter horror and needed water immediately. They're funny! A good group of people for sure, they have good hearts :)

      After lunch the group went up to the upper room and engaged some of the children in a writing exercise. Before they left Japan, they had local Japanese children write messages to the children here. So the students were responding! It looked like they were having a ton of fun :) I stood outside with some of the other teachers and we were talking. I feel very included these days and I love it here. We were talking mostly about visiting Canada and how things work there. I didn't know that the nearest Canadian visa office is actually in Delhi, India. So it's a big deal to get out there and get a visa.. Which sucks because I was really hoping that I could help my friend a bit more in terms of coming to Canada, with the paperwork etc online but we'll see.

      At some point I was called away to help the next class with the computers. This class was actually less interested in the computers and really wanted me to get the DVD player working. I don't think we have the proper cables though.

      After school we had tea at home and the group went back to the cistern to wash up again. Sudarsan and I went to watch the sun go down again and caught the tail end of it. On our way back he picked up some dried Bamboo pieces and brought them back home. At home we turned them into a these little pinwheel fans called Firfire in Nepali and Taketonbo in Japanese. There's a picture included, but it's two strips of Bamboo crossed over one another put onto a small stick. The small stick then goes into a small tube and children run with the toy making the blades spin. Simple yet effective entertainment!

      We then had dinner and I helped Satya with the dishes. And so many dishes! It's incredible haha. But as a team we managed quite quickly. I've become pretty good at it as I've made it my job to help with that at the very least ;) After dinner the "boys" and I played cards again in our room. I really like this rummy game, I'll be sure to teach you guys at home how to play! I really feel like part of the family here. I was worried at first that I'd feel a bit left out because there would be a Japanese group and a Nepali group but I've been adopted by the Nepali's and I love it. Warm and fuzzy feelings ;)
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    • Day 24

      Sirubari, Lamjung

      February 3, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 18 °C

      Today was a half day at school and I spent the day with the computers. There are two that are stumping me! One runs but the graphics are so ridiculously off that I'm sure there's a hardware issue somewhere. I think that the proper drivers etc are all there... The second computer just sometimes decides not to turn on. But, I'll keep fiddling with them and see if I can't get them to work. But I'm afraid that time is starting to run out! I had a good chat with my teacher friend as we tried to get the computers working together. He's a very intelligent person, self taught and passed his Master's exams as he was working at the school full time and running a household. True dedication. Makes me realize that I can probably do my next level of education and work at the same time if I really want to ;) And I think that I've decided I do! While I've been here I've been missing work go figure... I definitely enjoy what I do and have decided that I do want to go back to school in September. One day get my professional registration. I've also decided I want to get back into teaching/tutoring. Guess that was what I wanted to figure out while I was travelling, if more school is something I want to do. Check one. Also been re-examining my views on religion and spirituality but no update on that topic yet.

      After school we returned home and were invited to the neighbour's for lunch. They definitely fed us well! The neighbours are becoming quite familiar to me now. Thier daughter fell and cut her foot quite badly a while ago and I gave her the Polysporin I had. The man is the same one we played cards with once before and walked home from town with. Anyway, when we went over there he gave us tikka and gave me a small amount of money as well.. Apparently you do that for daughters or sisters. Guess I've been accepted! That acceptance makes me want to leave even less. Anyway, we ate and socialized for a while before heading back home.

      I decided to take a walk to the market that's about 15 minutes away. It took me almost 3 hours to get there and back! Along the way I was 'accosted' by 3 students and spent some time with them. Their parents were out working the fields, but I did see them briefly. Their mother is a teacher at the school and is always very friendly. The little boy is my BFF at the school as I've been describing him to some friends. He's just so adorable! The cutest 5 year old you've ever seen I swear. I have lots of pictures, he's not camera shy, but for obvious reasons I'm not going to post pictures of other people's children on the internet.. You'll have to ask me to send them haha. Although I just learned I can make semi-private posts on this website so maybe I'll do that.. So there are three children in this family, two older girls and the one young boy. They were very eager to have me visit their home and we're showing off their buffalo and goats and all the fruit trees they have at their home. They invited me to stay for dinner and seemed genuinely disappointed when I told them I couldn't. Maybe another time.. Their mother also told me that when/if I come back my future husband and I are more than welcome to eat and sleep at her house! I was very warmed by her invitation. Funny how it always comes back to finding a husband regardless of who I talk to. I had another teacher ask me if I planned on finding one when I returned to Canada. My response to him was "sure, but I'm not going to be looking very hard" that made him laugh and change the subject. Back to the visit, the children insisted that I eat a papaya with them! And proceeded to knock one out of a tree. Reminded me of Dad telling us stories about throwing rocks at mangoes to get them to fall when he was living in Brazil. It was a pretty good papaya too! Not really ripe yet but delicious. I really do enjoy all this fresh, local food. I think I've been inspired to try and start growing things at home.. Small things though because I have a hard time keeping plants alive ;)

      When I finally made it to the market they didn't have what I was looking for so instead I bought some small candies for the three kids I had just left and brought them to them on my way home. They were very appreciative!

      When I returned home I learned that we wouldn't be having an official dinner which I was quite okay with. Lunch was so big and so late that I wasn't really hungry anyway! So Bobita made us some small snacks and Beda and I played cards. We were joined by the neighbour at some point and the three of us played. I like the game that we were playing, though as the night wore on I stopped paying as close attention and started to lose :p The game is similar to Rummy I think? Each player is dealt 10 cards and the first person to make either sequences or similar numbers in groups of 4, 3, and 3 won the hand. The game is played using the jokers, and before play starts the deck is cut to reveal what another wild card is. The wild card is one number higher than the card displayed at the cut. At least one of the groups has to be a sequence, and sequences are important to build first. The game is played to 100 and If someone were to get their 3 groups before you built a sequence, you would earn all the points in your entire hand. If you have a sequence when someone goes out then you don't count those cards in your score, or any other pairs or sequences you might have. Kind of fun!

      The other thing that I've noticed in addition to a different sense of personal space, is that people here can be very curious. I've now been asked my weight at least 5 times by random people... Good thing that I'm not self concious! Because it's not seen as rude to ask these sorts of questions like it is at home. Part of it probably is because I'm so tall. I've been told by two people that I look slimmer now than when I first arrived and I've also been told that I look very athletic and am very strong. Apparently I look more muscular than most women here? I dunno, but I'm okay with it! In any case, I kind of enjoy how direct people are here as I get used to it. Maybe I'll start asking my own questions that I've been avoiding in case they're considered impolite ;)
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    • Day 21

      Sirubari, Lamjung

      January 31, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 17 °C

      This morning started out somewhat differently, there were two engineers (presumably from the government) who came by the house this morning to inspect the damage from the 2015 earthquake. Apparently this is the first time that they've been up to the village, almost 2 years later! They took a number of photos and for the first time I looked closely at the house I'm staying at while walking through with them. Because, why not. There's a fair amount of shear damage at the corners of the buildings and one portion of the building separated a bit, but to my eye it doesn't look too too bad. But, of course, I'm not an expert and have zero experience with this type of construction. Have I mentioned before that the construction is a clay-concrete type for the main walls? There are some wood posts as well and the floors and food are timber as well. Corrugated metal roofs and of course no insulation, but the mass walls do a good job of regulating the temperature. It's dark now but I'll see if I've taken any photos I can post!

      At school today I felt very productive but also experienced some of the frustration I imagine the locals must feel somewhat regularly. I spent the entire day in the computer lab, getting things working smoothly. Originally there were 3 working computers and now there are 5 maybe 6! We'll test the 6th one tomorrow if the power has come back on... That's the frustrating part. The power went off before lunch and didn't come back on all day, still isn't on in fact and it's almost dinner time. Apparently sometimes the power will be out for weeks without warning.. I expected the outage when the storm came a few days ago but today has been perfectly calm and clear! No indication of what caused it. So anyway, with the help of Kevin and Jason I was able to figure out how to install programs on various computers by copying files from one computer without internet or install disks. I was also able to adjust a few settings that until previously they had just dealt with, things like resolution, incorrect drivers, etc. The two computers that we for sure fixed had corrupted memory so we swapped things around until they worked. One of them still requires a registry edit before it works perfectly and the other insists it needs a windows service pack installed, which we don't have, but otherwise success. The 6th computer which we think will work was just a matter of switching out the power supply boxes. I have to say I've learned a lot about hardware today that I didn't know before. Surprised at how well things went... I also went through and tested a number of different mice, keyboards, speakers, power cords etc, to see if they're still working. Though that became tough to do as the power was out. Still lots left to do to get things running smoothly including more software installations and finding mice and keyboards for two of the computers that are working. There are so many broken accessories here it makes me a bit sad. They definitely need all the help they can get when it comes to getting hardware. It's good that they have such a great computer teacher! He doesn't give himself enough credit, but he's quite skilled with computers and ingenious in getting things to work. I was just lucky to be raised on computers...

      As I write this the power is still out and it's getting dark. For the first time I can't see lights across the valley, and there's no radio playing from down in the village below. I have a power bank to keep my phone charged, but I haven't a clue how full it is lol. I'm perfectly content if the phone does die though! The only thing I really need it for is writing these posts, taking pictures, reading my book, calling home.... You know ;) But, there are worse things than being disconnected I'm finding. Partly thinking it might be a good thing to completely disconnect for the evening.. Might just go put it away right now :)
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    • Day 16

      Senior School Festival, Sirubari, Lamjun

      January 26, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 14 °C

      Today started as normal, breakfast, walk to school. Go to classes, sneak away for a phone chat with Kris and Anita, then as I was on the phone one of the teachers walked by me and invited me to go to a festival at the senior school. So I went, and acheived one of my goals of walking up to the top our our mountain peak! The walk was 1km in distance with 250m elevation gain. All stairs really, and hot!

      And, I cannot even begin to describe how amazing the mountains are. It's just not possible to capture them on camera either though I did try.. I thought that because we grew up with the Rockies in the background I'd be hard pressed to be awed by another mountain range, I wasn't really by the Alps when we were in Switzerland. But the Himalayan mountains are something else. In part I think it's because of how dynamic they are, there are peaks and valleys everywhere rather than a more consistent line. Or maybe it only seems that way because I'm right in the middle of them, but I don't think so, it's completely different than our mountains at home. Another thing is how the mountains have been tamed. There are settlements and farms carved into every hillside that you can see. I think that's what amazes me the most: the sheer durability and resilience of the people who have made these mountains their own.

      The senior School is much larger than the basic school I've been at. It has two levels and probably 30 classes? There were a ton of people there. There's also a couple small markets carrying the basics that people might need such as soap, notebooks, snacks, shoes, etc. The festival itself was very similar to the one our school had to celebrate it's anniversary. There were 3 different groups that danced: one traditional with two girls, one more modern with four boys, and a lovers dance with two boys and two girls. The students doing the traditional dancing were older than our students and a bit more fluid and synchronized with their movements. Both were lovely though! I really enjoyed the dance by the boys, they just had so much energy and creativity. I can't think of what to compare the dancing to, but it was like something you'd see in a music video but to Nepali music. The lovers dance was super cute, and it looked like the couples preforming it were slightly nervous which made it even better. It was a slower dance and was more similar to dancing we know at home with partners moving together as one rather than two separate people doing the same dance. The dancing is definitely a highlight of these festivals for me considering that I can't understand anything else. I am starting to differentiate between words now and can pick out words and recognize sentence structure but I don't know what any of the words mean! Which means I still haven't a clue about what they're speaking about.

      During the festival there was a man dancing in the background to all the student performances who appeared a bit... Off his rocker. He later approached me and starting talking to me about things and then said that he likes me, loves me, wants to marry me. I would have been uncomfortable had Bobita not been sitting right next to me laughing. She later explained that he's just "mad" and not to pay any attention to him. It was entertaining at least I suppose! On the walk home I received a second offer from a different gentleman (who was also joking as he's married and has grandchildren) to marry. I'm beginning to think it's a common theme because of our limited language skills; every woman I meet also asks if I am married. I didn't walk home with Bobita, but with another woman from the village and when we reached her home she offered me tea and water. Her children are students at the school so we tried to talk a bit but my Nepali sucks! From her house I somehow made it home... It was a new route for me and by some miracle, or a better sense of direction than I thought I had, I made it home first try, picking all the correct paths at forks. That was kind of fun though! Maybe I'll start exploring a bit more around here. The only worry I have is accidentally ending up in someone's yard. When I was walking with the locals we wandered through so many random people's properties, and I do see random people pass through our property too, but alone I wouldn't be comfortable doing it.

      I made it back from the festival later than normal, and Beda and Bobita followed shortly afterwards. Bobita from the festival and Beda from town. Bobita had a couple friends over for dinner and she made rice pudding again yum! Beda had gone to town and bought some chicken and some Nepalese wine. After dinner Bobita went down to the village to a friends house and Beda, one of his friends, and myself shared some of the wine. And for anyone considering trying Nepalese wine in the future, it is not wine as we know it! Oh boy that has a kick. He bought it direct from the person who makes it and it came in a big plastic bottle with no label. It was fresh so it was warm when we were first drinking it and I think I actually prefer it that way strangely.. To drink Nepalese wine you must also have some snacks that you eat along with it, "slowly slowly" so that the wine doesn't hit you as hard I presume. We had some carrots, spinach, and chicken as our snacks. And while snacking you talk. The card games came after the eating and drinking was done. Apparently, they usually play for money but because I'm learning we skipped it. Thankfully.

      Anyway, back to the wine. It's not wine as we know it, it's made from millet and the percentage is somewhere between 20 and 30 I think. The taste is different. Reminded me of a cross between Grappa and Sake. Maybe with some hints of Port in there... For those of you who know me, none of those drinks are something I enjoy the taste of, but I preservered and began to enjoy the taste after the first cup was finished ;) Thankful for those afternoons of Scotch tasting right now! Didn't enjoy that either at first and now love it soooo maybe this will be the same. But, because you have to walk over an hour one way to get the wine and then carry it up, I can't imagine that it'll be a common occurrence. But, the evening was quite nice and relaxing! Definitely much needed. Reminded me of home and hanging out at the kitchen table just having a good time..
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    • Day 14

      Sirubari, Lamjung

      January 24, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ 🌙 18 °C

      Another day at school! Special food notes: Babita made this donut type thing called "sel roti" it was a nice treat first thing in the morning with tea! Spoiled again in the afternoon after school, she made popcorn from the kernels that were a result of the work we did yesterday. (Beda took the whole kernels to the mill first thing this morning) oh, and apparently I can handle more spice than I thought! I think I impressed the staff at lunch by eating two chillies without even thinking about it. I guess they're not used to us volunteers liking hot foods!

      A highlight of today was having the chance to talk to Alanna and also to Karolina! Short as the conversations were it was nice to hear from home, I'm going to have to find a way to sneak away from school longer so I can talk more!

      I definitely am enjoying school much more these last couple days, teaching English and helping with computers is exactly what I love doing. The computer part especially ;) Word + Excel + good company? Why not. It's fun! Mom sent me some photos of home yesterday so that I could show some students who were asking to see where I lived. They all say that it's a beautiful home, which I suppose it is! Sure does look nice in photos, though I thought I left my room cleaner than I did...

      Something that bothered me today was 4 girls saying that they were ugly because of their skin colour. That they wanted whiter skin to be prettier. I can't believe that that's still a thing. Four young, beautiful girls with self esteem issues because of their colour?! It makes me angry that they think that... I made sure to tell them they were beautiful of course but if I remember being their age, what I say won't change their minds.

      I had a chance to talk to Beda today about how long I'll be here for and I think I finally have a plan sorted unless things change again of course, which I'm totally open to, flexibility is key this trip ;) I'm going to Chitwan to see Satya from February 11-15 which gives me 2 days in Kathmandu before I leave for Singapore. I need those 2 days to do some shopping I've been putting off, to find a post office to mail some things home, to do some laundry, and to maybe maybe do a flight to see Everest and maybe maybe a downhill bike tour! I know I said I wasn't going to because of my knee, but... If it's holding up okay I really can't pass up the opportunity!!! Who knows when I'll get the chance to get back to Nepal, though I can tell you already that I would love to come back. The people are so peaceful and the life so healing that I would definitely come back. I also think that I will try to visit Pokhara in the next few weeks before I leave for Chitwan. Apparently only a day is needed to visit, though it is about 5 hours away (walking + bus). It's another city in Nepal that hosts the 2nd largest lake in the country and apparently is quite beautiful. I'll try to time it over a Saturday so that I can only miss 2 days of school instead of 3. Getting there will be interesting... The bus system seems chaotic. I'll have to ask for help! The time seems to be slipping by, with one Saturday dedicated to Pokhara (hopefully) I only have one free day to fill! And that will probably be filled with doing laundry... I do hope to be able to hike up to the top of the mountain range here as well though and take in the views. Maybe I'll see if one of the teachers would be interested in showing me, if I can communicate my request of course.

      Anyway, I've already said far more than I thought I had to say! Oh but a fun fact for you Gary, no I haven't found any of your herbs, but I did hear a rumour about mushrooms growing around here...
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    • Day 7

      Sirubari, Lamjung

      January 17, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 16 °C

      Today was a good day. I woke up early about 5am when I heard others in the house get up and start their daily routine. I slept soundly through the night in my own little room, the sleeping mat that Mom bought me really does the job! Felt like I was at home on my own mattress. Could be I was also very tired :) I wrote a bit, unpacked a bit, and then joined the family. I spent the morning observing and just taking it all in. I hope that they soon I will be able to help out around the place and earn my keep ;) There are 2 adult + 2 baby goats, 2 adult buffalo + a baby, and a number of random cats and birds.

      Breakfast was served about 9am and we had a their typical meal, very similar to dinner last night: rice with vegetable curry and baht as they call it. You mix all three together well and then eat. I need to learn how to eat with my hands as they do! They make it look so easy but I feel as though I would just make a mess. Can't hurt to try thought. After the curry and baht is finished then we add buffalo milk to the remaining rice as a kind of pudding, mixing in banana if we like! For breakfast we also had a sour yogurt that I assume was also from the Buffalo?

      After breakfast we walked down to the local school which is only about 10 minutes away. The children there were very curious and spent some time looking at me, touching my hair, exclaiming over my height, one kid even commented on my muscles.. Lol. There were maybe..... 30 to 60 students? Ranging from near toddlers to teenagers. It was hard to keep track everyone was moving around. They are preparing for a festival so no formal learning was taking place, all rehearsal of songs and dances. They tried to get me to dance but... Well you know me I don't dance though maybe I'll take this opportunity to learn. The school is a series of rooms, no glass in the windows, no lights, electricity through very skeptical means (wires running from a breaker to a power bar...) There is one computer there that the teachers use and otherwise everything is by hand. But the students were very proud to show me their school and work, it was really nice to see. I made the mistake of bringing out my phone at one point and I was swarmed. At first they wanted to see pictures of my home but then it was "what games do you have" and I thought for a moment I wouldn't ever see my phone again. The students are very curious about Canada, they keep asking about my family (Mother? Sister? Brother? Father? Married? Boyfriend? How old are you? Oh too bad.) I showed them pictures of all you guys hope you don't mind ;) Overall a great day, just wish that I could remember all the names that I heard today. I think I have two down.... Horrible. Especially because some kids keep asking m if I remember their names :( It will come I'm sure!

      After school was done I walked back to my home and nearly got lost. Thankfully someone noticed and showed me the way ;) Just sitting around now wishing I could do something to help but doesn't seem to be much that I can do... We'll work on that ;)
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    • Day 8

      Sirubari, Lamjung

      January 18, 2017 in Nepal ⋅ ☁️ 17 °C

      Another good day today. Though I thought that being away from the pollution would have helped my cough, it only seems to be getting worse.. But, maybe I has to get worse before it can get better!

      At the school today was more rehearsal of dance and song for the performance. I really should find out when that is. In the afternoon all the students participated in a number of different games to keep active. Running races, soccer, volleyball, anything to get the blood moving. The cutest thing was the little kids games! The parents tied balloons to their legs and had them stomp them out, adorably. Wish I had had my phone on me to video it or take some pictures! But my phone was "dead" today. Too many students wanted to use it to play games. Looking at photos of home, okay but not games and movies and fighting over who gets to use it. So tomorrow maybe I'll forget it at home ;) After school two girls showed me a different way back that was literally a walk through the Jungle. So cool! The only problem with the place is that it's so hard to photograph, nothing looks as good in the photos as they do in real life!

      Oh, I should mention that I also learned to eat with my hand today. Actually much easier that I'd have thought! And clean. And actually somehow tastes better than using a spoon as I had been previously.. Maybe because now I'm feeling the food in addition to tasting it? Who knows! Next task to master will be the squat toilet... Or not. Maybe I'll just keep some of my western ways ;)

      I also had my first experience chasing a baby goat.. They aren't as heavy as you might expect. And it's day 3 of no coffee, no meat, no alcohol, no processed foods, only eating what is grown here. I look forward to seeing how well I feel after a few weeks of this!
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