4 kids world tour year

augusti 2022 - juli 2023
  • Ezyian
  • Flo M
With mum and dad, we visit 36 countries on a world tour in 365 days. We visit schools, homes, and hospitals to experience the lives of other children Läs mer
  • Ezyian
  • Flo M

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  • Kina Kina
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Runt om i världen, Backpacking, Camping, Kultur, Familj, Vandring, Natur, Fotgrafering, Vildmark, Vilda djur
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  • Flyg164kkilometer
  • Tåg10,1kkilometer
  • 4x43 630kilometer
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  • Buss425kilometer
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  • 271fotavtryck
  • 361dagar
  • 2,0kfoton
  • 768gilla-markeringar
  • Amritsar and the Golden Temple

    28 september 2022, Indien ⋅ ☀️ 32 °C

    The golden temple in Amritsar is something that I wanted to visit way back in the late 1980s, but I couldn’t. Way back then, it was the epicentre of a political crisis that shook India and has had consequences ever since. In the early 80s, there was a movement for a quasi-independent Punjab. I'm not fully independent, I guess because it wanted to be covered by India’s security. That said, the politics got out of control with an armed Sikh insurgency, which the Indian government clamped down on. In the end, the leaders of the insurgency sought sanctuary in the golden temple in Amritsar. The Indian government hesitated but eventually went in after the insurgents, killing its leader. That seemed to be the end of it, a bit far from it, when a few months later, two Sikh guards of the Indian Prime Minister, Indira Ghandi, killed her. That led to an eruption of violence against Sikhs across India, with a huge number of deaths. I haven’t followed what has happened in the intervening period, but in our visit today, that violence and those tensions appear to be part of a distant past.

    We had briefly visited the temple the night before, but today, we wanted to understand more of the history and the religion, so I asked the hotel for a guide. The front desk guy seemed baffled. Unusual , as a white guy asking for a guide, is a great business opportunity. However Sikhs are different. He tells me to go to the main entrance and get a guide who works for the temple for free! So we walk around to the front gate, Flo and I go into the information office, and we are greeted warmly by a big guy in a yellow turban. How many are you, he asks? Go deposit all your shoes and bring them in. So we do, and return. He then gets someone to bring us each a bottle of water, and each a tea. He then asks if we have any questions. So we go through a long list of questions. (I thought this was for him to win time to find a guide ), but in fact, our guide was sitting next to us the whole time. So it remains unclear why we spent 30 mins in the office before setting off, but it was informative, and in the temple it’s a bit loud, so maybe that was a good move on his part.
    Once in the guide, explain the 5 sins that Sikhs seek to counter. Ego, lust, anger, avarice, greed. He also explained the 5 duties they have; to come your hair twice a day, which is symbolic for cleansing your mind. Never to cut your hair so that you remain natural. To cover your head as a sign of respect of god, your parents, your grand parents and your wife’s parents, to wear long trousers, I missed exactly why, and to carry a dagger to protect yourself should all your good efforts fail due to another. Self-defence only!
    We then visit the perimeter of the temple. It is not a place for religious study. The colleges are elsewhere in the city. It is a place of worship and cleansing. It is also a place of charity since it offers free meals 24 x 7 to anyone. There are 10 Sikh masters in the initial phase of the religion that started around 1400 as a counter to the Hindi region’s caste system. The golden temple was conceived by the 4th master, largely built by the 5th and opened by the 6th. Each day is the same, one of the gurus opens the sacred text in the golden temple, and a group of singers chant prayers all day, whilst believers file by, and then drink holy water and consume some food.
    Anyone can join in, the temple is open to everyone, and we feel very warmly welcomed. Oh, I almost forgot to say that we are continually asked by local people if they can take our picture, alone and with them. There are young people, old people, babies, and whole families. I asked the guide what was behind it, but he didn’t have a real answer. It was, however, pleasant. I was even interviewed on TV, and I had no idea what station, but I had nice things to say.
    One highlight of the visit was to go to the kitchen and the restaurant. “100,000 are fed each weekday, double at the weekend”. The food is prepared, cooked, and served by volunteers. The pots are truly enormous, the halls for eating likewise, and there is a huge joint effort too in the washing up area. Incredible. All voluntary and all free, and always open for anyone.
    We did not eat there today because Lola felt unwell, but let's see tomorrow.
    Last but not least, we visited the Golden Temple itself. “How long is the queue?” “Oh usually 1.5 hours, longer at weekends”, but if you have a guide, it's only about 30 minutes, and if you have a baby, you don’t wait at all. There is a long wide queue for men, but we are put in the women’s queue, where maybe one in 50, like me, is actually male. There are far fewer in this queue, and it's far more orderly. On the other sides there are guards to ensure order and hold the men back.
    Once in the temple, there are really three aspects. First in the main hall, there are musicians and singers, who chant all day without pause. The music and signing seem to fit well with the surroundings. Separately, there are a couple of rooms where gurus sit,and look over the sacred texts, and lastly, there is a 2nd, and even a 3rd floor where very few seem to venture. I have no idea why they wait so long, but do not explore the upper part of the building. The temple is impressive, but it's small, and the gold is not as impressive as I would have thought (probably because it’s a gold and copper alloy). Nevertheless, visiting the whole complex is a unique experience, and the people are incredibly nice. It's also great to see a religion that practices as it preaches and looks after the poor. “Nobody should be hungry in Amritsar, and indeed in all our temples worldwide we offer food to anyone in need”
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  • Post office, Golden Temple, Dishes

    29 september 2022, Indien ⋅ ☀️ 33 °C

    Today was quite a quiet day, for most of the day. The main event in the afternoon was visiting the post office to send two parcels back home. One of the presents we had received and second some heavier things we had packed, but we realised we did not need it. This turned into a long, complicated process. The office will pack a parcel for $1, and they do it well, but this takes two people about half an hour. Then they do the customs declarations, then you pay, then they attach the customs declarations. Total time a bit more than an hour. If you come at lunchtime, this could take 1.5 hours as the staff are allowed to drop tools for half an hour, and restart where they stopped, states a large poster on the wall.
    The children studied and rested, as 3 of the 4 are not feeling 100%. Oscar is the only one fully fit.
    That said, we did venture out in the early evening for a look at the golden temple at night and to partake in dinner at the huge free restaurant.
    The atmosphere in the temple is similar in the early evening as it is during daylight. There are still lots of people, maybe 20% less than midday, and there is still the omnipresent singing and music. However, it seems fitting and adds to the experience. The golden temple itself is visually more prominent because it is lit up with strong lights, and it is reflected in the water.
    We are not sure if we should eat at the temple, and Lennox and Lola don’t want to eat there as they feel a bit rough, but we go ahead, and I think even for them the visit to the restaurant was an amazing experience. The restaurant might be the largest in the world. It feeds 100,000 per weekday and 200,000 at weekends. Anyone can eat there for free, from anywhere, any religion, or none. Every 30 minutes, there is a sitting. As we enter, I get asked the usual question, “Where are you from?”, and then after I answer comes a very warm welcome. We queued for maybe 10 minutes, then we were in, and then sat like everyone in the long rows of mats on the floor. On the way in, we get a metal plate, a bowl, and a spoon. The plate is formed to hold 4 separate dishes. Food is prepared, cooked, and served, and the hall and dishes are cleaned by volunteers. The volunteer servers carry buckets full of daal, vegetarian curry rice, and sweet rice. All served with large serving spoons. Other volunteers hand out chapttis, and pour water from massive kettles or water drums. After about 25 minutes someone announces we should finish eating and take our plates back. We are about the last, but we finish more or less and take our plates out.
    We brought our plates to the start of the cleaning. A massive human chain of more than 100 volunteers. The first step is to remove any uneaten food. See the video, as this is done with remarkable speed. After that, the plates go through multiple washing and rinsing stations. Each station has about 12 people. We looked at this in amazement, and then first, I, then, Nora, then all of us are invited to join in. We are allocated to the 1st station, a rinsing station. So we join in, and actually, it's quite fun, rinsing innumerable plates and bowls for 20 minutes more. All the Sikhs seem happy we are there. What an amazing experience. The photos and videos, don’t do it justice.
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  • Lennox ER, Hospital OK Now

    1 oktober 2022, Indien ⋅ ☀️ 32 °C

    The dirt and grime finally caught up with us, and in particular with Lennox. He really got the short end of the stick. He had 40C fever and dysentery, and he was throwing up, and it the fever did not respond to paracetamol, so we decided he should see a doctor. By coincidence, where we were in Chandigarh was opposite a hospital, and they saw him right away. However, he did not get better during the day and so Flo took him again to the hospital and put him on an intravenous drip and kept him in. Now, the day after, we have seen the Dr several times, and he thinks he needs at least 2 days rest . In any case, he is on a drip for hydration, electrolytes, and twice a day anti-biotics Lennox is definitely getting slowly better, and the fever and vomiting have stopped. The dysentery is more like good old diarrhoea now.
    There is a super parallel story here. More than anything in India, we have been amazed at the generosity of the welcome and support we have received, and I used correctly hyperbole to describe that in Noida and in Amritsar, but here the hotel manager has taken that to even higher heights. He helped with the initial ER by sending with me a staff member, who rapidly swept through the bureaucracy to the Dr. In the evening and day that followed, his efforts were truly remarkable. He took Flo and Lennox in the evening to the hospital around 2100, and he again navigated the hospital bureaucracy and gently but firmly made sure that Lennox was treated. There is a lot more, but I think saying he stayed till 3am and was back helping us the next morning gives an idea of his incredible support, and that extended beyond the hospital. He extended our stay in the hotel, even though it was on Booking.com full, and he offered us free breakfast and help with laundry, etc. Jaimin is the name of this incredible guy. How can we possibly thank him enough. I will certainly try to make sure the hotel owners get wonderful feedback, and I have learned it would be good to give him a gift from back home, so maybe we can arrange that, I certainly hope so.
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  • Poisoned and hit by car

    6 oktober 2022, Indien ⋅ ☀️ 32 °C

    Well, every beginner knows a headline should grab attention. All of the above is true but not dramatic.

    1st yesterday, I inadvertently poisoned Lola, or at least gave her 4x as much antibiotic as I should have. I misread the dosing info. During the day, she repeatedly threw up, so we called a Dr, and his diagnosis was, " You poisoned her!". Since we reduced the dose, she is getting better.

    2nd, I had not walked 50m in Jaipur before a car hit me. Thankfully, at low speed, no damage was done.

    After yesterday, everyone seemed to be on the mend at varying speeds. We have the opposite advice here from Europe. Only eat processed foods, drink from Tetrapacks. Luckily, crisps (UK English)/ chips are only 6 centimes a bag, and unlucky for the seller, the price is on the bag . Certainly, it was somewhat more appealing than the hotel breakfast, thar was curry vegetables and penne with curry sauce. Locals seemed to lap it up. it must be normal
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  • Painting, Riding, Climbing on Elephants

    6 oktober 2022, Indien ⋅ ⛅ 32 °C

    After 5 days with Lennox ill, Flo incapacitated, Lola sick and me sleeping an entire day we finally got out and about.

    It took a bit longer than it should have as the google maps route to our target address , turned out to be a backyard in the middle of a poor area, which was inhabited by 5 cows (and their droppings) and an aggressive monkey.

    Thank goodness for the apps. In this case, "Ola" is the Indian equivalent of Uber. After another search and putting the new address into Ola, we were pretty soon headed in the right direction.

    The direction being an elephant sanctuary that we had previously seen on the BBC. Some may complain about animal rights, but they fail to see that in India and Asia, more generally Elephants are domesticated working animals. The equivalent of complaining about riding on animals would be to complain about horse riding in Europe. Or those who complain about painting on elephants (an age-old tradition here), maybe they should focus on poodle trimming locally first.

    When we finally arrived at the right place, it was super interesting. There were many healthy elephants. The children went riding on the elephants, two per elephant, something I have never done, but that I might try sometime soon. Then they fed the elephants, learned how to get on, by working with the elephant and its trunk, and Lola did some lovely painting.

    What struck me were two things, firstly how elephants feel. I thought that skin would be like a cheap leather couch or rougher, but actually, it's very soft, very nice to touch. Secondly these animals are so gentle, so careful. They are huge, and they weigh 3,500 kg, but the keepers sit crossed legged on the floor whilst Oscar feeds them because the animals behave calmly, and they don't rush towards a pile of bananas. very majestic.
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  • Sick but improving

    8 oktober 2022, Indien ⋅ 🌧 25 °C

    After Lennox was in hospital and is now fine, we now have Oscar in hospital with the same diagnosis, food poisoning.

    We were super aware that India was risky, I knew just how dreadful dysentery is, it's like diarrhea on steroids, but I had had the experience that after being the weakest I had ever been, that I fully recovered with just rehydration drinks in 24 hours. I should not have assumed that was typical, I should not have extrapolated my experience to children. I feel rather guilty and question the wisdom of this part of the trip. The benefit of hindsight.

    We all caught it, and whilst the adults recovered in 2 days, the girls were about the same. The boys were so bad they were hospitalized for 4 days, a week apart. Thankfully, it's a fairly standard thing here, so the hospitals have clear procedures and well-defined drug treatments.

    I don't know if we are selfish or stupid parents, hopefully not, but for sure we were niave, and our easy time in Africa maybe made us too relaxed.

    The staff here are as always lovely, and to some extent, I could be the king of England. I can stay in intensive care for hours. I can sit in the Drs large air conditioned restroom, and I have the directors mobile for anything I want from him. Here, we also come into contact a lot with locals whose children are hospitalized. They wait all day and, in many cases, all night for glimpses of their children. (At night, they sleep in chairs, on benches, and on the floor, and this is a middle class private hospital) The people without exception help out in big ways and small. Lovely people.

    Given our experience of the people, it's quite difficult to reconcile with the brutal day to day existences of the poor and the middle class. Why so much chaos, dirt, grime, lack of a social safety net, lack of a drive towards modernity? Is it corruption? Is it Religion? Is it the brain drain to Western countries? Is it politics that endlessly promises, but that seldom delivers? Maybe managing a population of 1.3bn is just too difficult? Whatever it is, it's a shame for all the nice people here.
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  • A Dr is cheaper than a tour guide

    10 oktober 2022, Indien ⋅ ⛅ 29 °C

    Oscar is thankfully better and out of the hospital . After the head doctor approved the discharge, it only took another 5 hours to navigate the multiple layers of mindless burocracy that is to be found in an Indian hospital I shall spare you the details, but just three snippets. They asked us for the documents they gave us at admission to allow us to leave. We have them at the hotel, but not here. Should we go back and get them? After some thought, the lady says I need them to certify reimbursement. Ah, we say we don't need that, and the lady seems amazed. Where should I send the originals when I have everything? We don't need them. Really?, so she insists she will send us a copy of everything with an official stamp, and since we insist, it will be a pdf. Each step of discharge is sequential, and done so that the Dr can't do his bit until the bill is paid, and the pharmacy can't issue the discharge medications before the Dr has signed, and the nurse can't give the frequency and dose of medicines, until you bring them to her, after buying them by fighting through the crowd at the hospital pharmacy. etc,etc.

    The previous day at the Amber palace, a guide had cost 1200 ( $15) rupees for an hour. Today, I had to pay for Oscar's 3 days in hospital, including 3 days of at least 3 doctors, including the head of intensive care. They cost only 2100 ($28) rupees. 7 wrong in this country. In fact, the total bill is about $500 for everything with a bed in the intensive care costing 4000 ($50) rupee per day. I have no idea how that is possible other than very low wages, since the last thing you can say is they are short of staff. They aren't. Remember, this is a private hospital. The state one is overrun and understaffed.
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  • The "Taj"

    12 oktober 2022, Indien ⋅ ☀️ 30 °C

    We were tempted after the illness of Lennox, and more so after the illness of Oscar to quit India for the sake of reducing the risks tour health, but we stuck the course largely because we said we can’t leave India without them seeing the Taj Mahal. So today we spend the entire morning at “The Taj”. There are lots of adjectives one can use to describe it. “Stunning”,” Beautiful”, “Majestic”," and so on, and they are all correct. I can only recommend it if you have never visited to do so. Some of the magic can be conveyed in photos, but really, you need to see it in person to understand why so many are awed by it.Läs mer

  • The city of Agra - Religous legacy

    13 oktober 2022, Indien ⋅ ☀️ 30 °C

    Today, we toured a little around Agra. 1st, a Hindu temple, then we viewed the Taj Mahal from the opposite side of the river, and finally, we visited the Red Fort and its multiple Mogul palaces.
    The Hindu temple we visited in the centre of Agra is nothing like a temple of Christians, Jews or Muslims. It's stuck amongst other buildings. Its outer form is not discernible, if it has any. Inside, there are multiple rooms, at different levels, with a wide range of gods in various niches. We learn that there are about 35,000 gods or to be more precise, 35,000 Jesuses in Hinduism. One god, but there are that large number that work for him. They take all shapes and forms, human, animal, half and half, mixed animal forms, and ones that are abstract. See the photos for a range of examples. There is also a structure for candles, not unlike some in the Catholic church, and there is a hall, where a guru is leading a chant, accompanied by simple music from hand cymbals. People join in the chant, they donate flowers that are used to adorn the gods, and they donate money. Most of the “priests” sit next to one or other statue, and offer a red tika on the forehead to those who approach them. I am not sure what to make of it all. Most religions seem to have been dragged towards modernity, but from what I can tell, Hinduism is not on a modern path. It also appears to be intolerant. We asked our driver if a statue was of Akbar, and he responded that it was not, and in any case, that would not be possible because there are no statues of Muslims. That in city that thrives, by Indian standards, due to its Muslim heritage (Taj Mahal, Red Fort & Palaces, Baby Taj, etc.).
    The next stop was to see the Taj Mahal from across the river. It’s a beautiful spot, and the government has invested in a large car park and a nice park. Both are entirely empty, Going there and back we pass a total of 4 Europeans, but otherwise there is nobody, Very strange, as is the lack of a boat to go along, or across the river. It may be due to a lack of European tourists after Covid and that the local tourists who mainly come from Southern India do not know the new facilities exist.
    The third and longest stop was a visit to the Red Fort, which is a 2.7km long walled city, which has inside 13 Mogul palaces and large barracks of the Indian army. After a lot of haggling, Flo hires a French speaking guide, who luckily is good and enthusiastic, (We almost did not hire him because his selling was for my taste too aggressive) He explained well the architecture, the design, and the set of various Mogul courts, The children were most interested in the horrible tradition that when a man died , his wife would be cremated with him. At the end, the guide also explained how nowadays there is still arranged marriage and that he , guessed age 35, had an arranged marriage. He explained the difference between how boys are welcomed into the family and girls often less so, or not at all. That is why pre-natal ultrasound scans are banned in India.
    All in all, a very interesting day, with some great insights into culture that are, in my view, part of the reason that India is so slow to modernise.
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  • Agra to Guwahati

    14 oktober 2022, Indien ⋅ ☀️ 30 °C

    Today, we cross a large part of India from Agra via Delhi to Guwahati. Guwahati is the capital of Assam, famous for its tea, and its Buddhist temple from the 3rd century BC.I am not sure we see much there because this is just a stopover on our way to Nagaland
    Since the train starts at 10 am we have time for breakfast. Indian breakfast takes a bit of getting used to, but today, I have no qualms about enjoying my baked beans, curry, and rice, accompanied by papaya with mango juice and tea. A totally weird mix but rather tasty, and as in most Indian hotels its included in the price, (Here a room costs $36 for three people, for comparison in Kenya, breakfast alone would be $10-20 each).
    The train journey is uneventful, probably our last in India. In the second class, air conditioned our seats are large enough that 4 comfortably seats all sic of us and store our baggage. That is because most Indian trains have berths, where you can sleep, rather than seats. Just as well because the computer allocated us a mad selection of seats. So despite that we can all sit together.
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