Bro share and More Mamma Love

Any mileage less than 20 feels amazing. So our 12 mile walk today, after yesterday felt like a piece of cake. It’s interesting how perspective changes when you have new and different experiences.Читать далее
Any mileage less than 20 feels amazing. So our 12 mile walk today, after yesterday felt like a piece of cake. It’s interesting how perspective changes when you have new and different experiences.
Today the brothers dedicated the walk to our mother, Kathleen Denio Downs. We spent the day sharing our gratitude for her. For me, one thing I’m grateful for is that no matter how I messed up in my life I’ve never felt judged or shamed by her. I always felt that my mom was a safe sanctuary to express my thoughts, ideas, hopes and dreams. Thanks Mom!❤️
And we are FINALLY out of the meseta! Tomorrow we hike to the highest point on the Camino and place our rock at the foot of the cross that is close to the top. It holds literally millions of stones that have been left there throughout the years.
Before dinner the brothers joined me in going to a church run by Dominicans where they pray the Liturgy of the Hours along with Gregorian Chant. It was a nice moment for me and in our evening sharing about what was most meaningful about the day, David said it was the highlight for him. He particularly thought Riley would’ve like it. 😇
And for those who like the almost forgotten and long neglected video recaps, here is a brothers recap video on the first few days of the trip click the link here: https://youtu.be/1vONT6ikqhM?feature=sharedЧитать далее
The most powerful part of the day was arriving at the iron Cross, where literally millions of pilgrims since the 9th/10th century have been leaving a rock at this point in a ritual that has been occurring for centuries. There are various reasons why someone leaves a stone. I wasn’t sure what my reason would be but while on the Camino it became very apparent to me. You can listen to my reason at the link below.
What was so moving to me was to watch my brothers, who all had rocks with different meanings to leave, make the ritual their own. We all participated in our own, separate and quiet way. I felt connected to them and the people who have come before me in a special way. It is amazing how many stories are represented by all the stones.
My stone is for my marriage to Mary: https://youtu.be/pT4wcF0p4qc?feature=shared
In addition to my stone I also dropped a stone that Mary’s sister, Geri, asked me to place at the cross.Читать далее
ПутешественникThat’s such a beautiful insight on marriage, and one that is surely not encouraged enough in society or even the church sometimes, I think. I’m privileged to be a supporter of yours and Mary’s commitment. You guys are the real deal! ❤️
ПутешественникGreat reflection on love, marriage, God, and Mary. Nicely done.
Another long and bountiful day! Pre-dawn start to beat the heat followed by a quick stop for a coffee at this adorable little Alburgue. Then it was up to the top of the highest point of the Camino. That wasn’t the hardest part, it was the coming down that did a number on our knees and ankles. We met Oso the Bear who was an older man who lived in a shanty and provided warm water and beer and piping hot coffee in plastic cups for a donation. He kindly let us eat our packed “picnic”. Oso explained that he spent the last 20 years walking the Camino once a year and then moved to the Camino 5 years ago. He explained he doesn’t like to fight but is so strong that he gives great bear hugs - hence the name. 😊
The day felt like it would never end. David and I finished after 7 pm. We started our walk at 6 am! So -13 hours today!
Not too long tomorrow but it will be our hottest morning of the hike and up to mid-90’s by 3 pm!Читать далее
ПутешественникHow fun the things that can get lost in translation. How in Spanish he explained his hug strength to Jimmy saying it's so strong that if he hugs your brother (me), he'll break my ribs 😳. That or he's a mountain man and nothing was lost in translation 😆
ПутешественникThis may be my favorite picture 😆. This cat was adorable but Pete's disgust at the critter wanting a bite of his sandwich is portrayed by Pete's entire body and expression; not amused.
We arrived late in the day to the town that ended this stage traditionally, but was not our final stop. We still had 3-4 more miles left to go. I was spent and told my brothers I was ready to hand in the towel and take a taxi.
On the way into the town was a river where many pilgrims decide to join the locals and go swimming. The water is freezing but on a hot day like today can be refreshing. We thought about it but moved on into town.
We ran into our Italian friends, Amerigo and Lisa again and they both recommended going swimming. I was bound to take the taxi. Jim and Steven were open to the idea but David quietly resisted. I told him if I can have a rest I could push through the final miles.
We all were game for going into the river. Of course none of us planned to do this so we went in with our various options of shorts, hiking pants, and even underwear. It was absolutely refreshing, and COLD! 🥶 We sat at a cafe close by after and had a few drinks and pizza before Jim and Steven decided to head to the hotel by taxi. It turned out great for them and it gave David and I a lot of good time to talk about my work and ministry.
It took us some time to get ourselves together at the hotel but David and I were greeted with the best welcome of all- from my friend Marianne! Marianne is joining the trip a bit early to get a few more days in on the Camino. It was so good to see another person who is so close to me and my family. The circle is widening on the Camino. While still incredibly hot out we all got a late dinner and called it a night.Читать далее
Today the group was split. Marianne and David both solo walked today. That left Steven, Jimmy, and I who walked together. The days are getting exponentially hotter. With temperatures close to 100 degrees and total exposure to the sun in the later part of the walk. I ran out of water toward the end of the day and I chose to pass a final rest stop which was not good for my body. My feet were on fire and I needed a parador to make it all go away. Lucky, we got one! I had my first siesta I think since my brothers have been here. Worth it!
The morning started off as it would when I was walking solo- 6 miles (about 2 hours) and then a rest for breakfast. Then Amerigo and Lisa caught up with us and brought along an Italian friend they had met, Martina. We listened to their experiences since they started the Camino.
I was pleasantly surprised to learn that Amerigo and Lisa had continued to use the daily reflection I have been using for each day: in the morning - what is one thing you are grateful for in your life? The evening reflection- where did you experience God’s presence in the day? Or for the less religious/spiritual - what had meaning to you in the day?
It’s amazing how one’s unintended words and actions can have a ripple effect in the lives of people that come into our lives for fleeting moments. I know there have been many, many people in my life who have changed the course of my life experience. On very real example is Alison Corcoran. It was her speaking to me about walking the Camino the day before she was leaving mass one day that put the idea in my head to do something similar. Alison, I can’t thank you enough for this wonderful gift you didn’t even realize at the time you had given me. And that gift has expanded to gift many others who have decided to join this Camino experience with me for my 50th birthday. And it was the stimulus that has now led to Amerigo and Lisa using the reflection questions in their daily practice. They shared how helpful the questions have been to opening up new insights and observations about life. All amazing when I think about it! Our small actions can have profound impacts in the lives of others.
The evening was capped with Jimmy doing some top notch research on the perfect restaurant for us to dine. It was a beautiful pairing of the owner’s passion for food and people enjoying the experience, excellent wine, and great sharing between those gathered. Someone pinch me. I can’t believe I’m having all these consecutive days of grace and love.Читать далее
It was going to be another scorcher of a day. Marianne and I wanted to beat the heat and left the earliest I’ve been out yet -5:15 am. Jim went to the doctor because of a sore throat and wanted to confirm it wasn’t COVID or the flu (negative on both accounts). He taxied to our final stop. Steven and David wanted to sleep in and go at a different pace. They caught up with us at the final stop late in the day.
Marianne and I walked in the dark for almost two hours. We got to the 6 mile/2 hour break mark for breakfast. We were at a cafe that had a few pilgrims. Ten minutes after we arrived, it was like the Camino woke up! At least a dozen people were in line after us and the little way-station of a village was bustling with people. There were several mini-reunions that both Marianne and I enjoyed.
One reunion was with the couple John and Katheryne whom I met on the hill at dawn before I was to enter the Meseta. It has been 17 days since we had seen each other the last time. It’s so interesting how people you bump into can appear in such unexpected ways. Sometimes you meet someone once and never see them again. Other times you continue to see a person multiple times a day over several days and then they are gone. Then others pop in and out of your Camino with a few days between. When they happen the reunions are fun and there’s always a sense of joy in seeing someone whom you’ve established a personal history. An unexpected delight.
Ironically, given the last time I saw John and Katheryn it was a sunrise, today in O Cebriero the pilgrims all watched the sun set from this beautiful first stop in the hills of the Galicia region. Many people have entered into my life between that sunrise and sunset. All on their own unique journey. And each person adding a bit of themselves into someone else’s life.Читать далее
ПутешественникHaven't even gotten there yet and foot care has been my full time job!😱👣
ПутешественникI like to think the Camino is like a little life in of itself. A metaphor for how people can come and go into our lives, and how you never know when or if they will reappear; All knowing different aspects of you or your “life” in different stages. Shows how important connection is in life, even if its for a short time 😊
The last several miles today matched the Pyrenees in difficulty- the only other level 5 day on the Camino Frances. Hard to believe that the Pyrenees had 2x as much incline! It was a challenge for Marianne and I. Later on, David and Steven breezed up the climb, and did so on a few beers!
I’m pretty sure it’s the longest time I hadn’t heard anything come out of Marianne’s mouth since I’ve known her (see video proof below!)
But the Italians came to the rescue. As we approached the Galician border we ran into Amerigo and Lisa and their enthusiasm (Amerigo points out that the roots of enthusiasm means “God within”). They carried us into the gorgeous mountain village of O Cebriero.Читать далее
Nothin’ can silence Marianne! 🤣I hope the Italians come to visit us! [MJ]
I learned tonight that my brothers and I have been given a trail name by other pilgrims on the Way: Los Cuatro (The Four). It sorta sounds like a superhero group. 😆
Today was a day I was thinking a lot about how I show up in my relationship to them. Today I let myself get in the way of that relationship a bit. I had chosen my own needs and schedule over being with them this morning when one of them didn’t show up for breakfast. I left to start walking while another brother waited and had breakfast to give him company. It meant that the next two hours we wouldn’t all walk together.
It was unnecessary and I lost my priorities. But once we all got back together again I shared my regret and apologized. They all are so gracious, give me the benefit of the doubt, and accept me even with all my faults. My gratitude today was how my siblings can all seem to flex to respond and do what is needed between us all so we can all continue to get along. I’m so appreciative that they let me be me and graciously accept me back when I’m not my best self.
I also saw God in how we all are able to laugh and enjoy each other’s company. There are a lot of joyful moments. No grudges were held against me due to my morning miscalculation. We just continued on, laughing and enjoying life.
Thank God for Los Cuatro.Читать далее
ПутешественникThe totality of the day was a sacred gift to witness and enjoy! Los Cuatro is a beautiful blessing!! 💞
ПутешественникThe best part is Steven with no patience in the background 😆
This was the last walking day with my brothers. It was exactly the final day I’d hoped for with meaningful conversations. And thanks to a reset of priorities I was able to let go of schedules and be fully present to my beloved siblings. There are multiple transitions happening within the next two days. My brothers will leave. My family will join me (with Jenna!) and most of my small Christian community (although the flat Wieland’s were present!)
I’ve come to a place where I know the trip will no longer be my own and will be focused on my family and friends having the best Camino possible. It’s meant letting go of a lot of the personal time and freedom, while starting to attend slowly to family responsibilities and commitments to other relationships that are very important. However, I gain a lot of joy and happiness with sharing this experience with so many people I love.
That’s probably the message in this time of transition on the Camino for my life: If I choose to be in relationship with others I need to learn how to let go of some things I would like for the benefit of those I love. I’ve slowly (and sometimes much more slowly than I’d like) learned this truth and the grace it reveals. As I’ve learned over and over in life, the way to fullness in life is to give it away.
On to a new phase of the Camino! It’s so nice to have my church with me! ❤️Читать далее
I’m so happy that your Camigos have arrived! Thank you for this special picture and for the delicious Spanish wine! I walked 7.5 miles this morning (which felt like a lot without training) and I’m feeling it. Let’s just say I can only imagine how glorious it feels for you to have a rest day with your “church”. [MJ]
I made it! 484 miles across the northern part of Spain. It was an incredible journey - one I’ll never forget and always cherish. What a way to pause and reflect on all that God has gifted me with in life while at the same time allowing me to reflect on how I choose to live that life that I’ve been given.
With so many people joining at Sarria, and having a roommate in the evening (Mary 😉) made it too challenging for me to post for the past week. I’ll try to give a summary of the experience and a few photos that highlight the journey.
Everyone had ups and downs. Almost everyone got blisters and joint pain. But that didn’t hold anyone back. The conversations were all so very sacred - having the leisure to have the important conversations in life. It’s all that I could have hoped for. Particularly it was so special to see and hear Andrew and Jenna have conversations with Conor, Riley, and Devon. Jenna fit right in to the group and was instantly loved by all. And the daily gratitude and stopping to share where God was in the day (or what was meaningful in the day) brought beautiful new insights into the community.
Ellen Farley, who trained so hard for this walk and worked so hard to finish was an inspiration to everyone.
As a parent with faith, this trip was an important message to my children about how God works in our lives and the critical role Christian community can play. I can also feel how the trip, along with the experiences and conversations has brought everyone in my life closer to each other.
This truly was the greatest experience of my life and everything I could’ve hoped it to be. I’m truly grateful of all who were able to join, and the gift I was given by those I work with to have this opportunity. Truly, Buen Camino (not MAL Camino😆).Читать далее
Путешественник¡Pan de Vida! Thank you for making the trip so easy to enter into, and for sparking our reflections and sharing with the daily questions! 💓
ПутешественникWoo hooo!! I missed your reflections this week, but look forward to hearing about it in person soon!!
ПутешественникLove my Boys.
Yay for the special recap banter! Con = with, sin = without....NOT just words ;) [MJ]
ПутешественникLove seeing you guys all together! Smooches from Aunt Lo!