• Molly Hofer
  • Molly Hofer

Asia 2026

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  • Trip start
    January 24, 2026
  • Varanasi part I

    January 26 in India ⋅ ☀️ 24 °C

    We’ve got a private room that shares common spaces with a hostel here in Varanasi. It’s a tranquil place relatively close to the city center. So far it’s been mostly resting and recovering and a bit of exploring, rituals on the holy Ganga, a market adventure to get some last minute wedding attire with Shaily and her cousin, and a few short hang outs with Vishy.

    We’re enjoying our chai and of course the best cuisine 😋
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  • Varanasi part II

    January 30 in India ⋅ ☁️ 17 °C

    Shaily invited us to her dance performance on Friday night, and to say the least, it was very impressive! Kathak is a classical dance form from northern India that is marked by its intricate footwork, rapid spins and storytelling.

    Besides the precision of rhythm of the footwork,the pure stamina it took to dance (and also chant) for over an hour at this pace is beyond me 🫠 I felt a great sense of admiration watching Shaily hold her poise and grace the ENTIRE performance like a boss woman ✨💜

    Also some random pics of food and market shopping hehe 😛
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  • Puja (prayer) Blessings for the upcoming Wedding

    We started in the morning and were finished around 3pm with this ritual- it was beautiful, with a sacred fire, and many chants and prayers. We felt honored to be present and send all our best energy into that circle for the most unforgettable wedding week ever for our dear friend Vishy and also for his lovely family. (Note: most Indians find this part boring 🤣 but i loved it cause it was new and of course rituals make me feel very connected).

    I wore a teal silk Saree that Nani (Vishys relative) gifted me last year. Varanasi is known for its silk and particularly silk sarees :)

    The red paint on the feet is called Aalta- it’s a natural dye from the beetle leaves and sindur.
    It’s a symbol of auspiciousness, fertility, and marital bliss. Primarily used during weddings, festivals (like Durga Puja), and by classical dancers, it represents femininity, heritage, and the welcoming of divinity.

    What a lovely start!
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  • Day 2: Rest for us :)

    February 2 in India ⋅ ☀️ 18 °C

    On the second day we could rest- the family, however, was busy planning and organising for the upcoming days.

    We had to move hotels, and were given a very warm welcome by the hotel manager and his staff. It was very sweet and we appreciated it, at the same time we didn’t understand why we were greeted like king&queen when we’re just some little backpackers 😅 although Varanasi has many Hindu/Indian tourists that visit the city, there are not many foreigners so maybe that is why.

    On our day off we explored the market and enjoyed the tiny winding streets of the old city.

    Particularly interesting was trying Malaiyo for the first time! It is a rare, cloud-like, frothy winter sweet dish from Varanasi, available only from November to February. Made by churning milk under the open night sky to absorb dew, it is flavored with saffron, cardamom, and garnished with pistachios, offering a light, melt-in-the-mouth texture. Also known as Nimish or Makhan Malai, it is typically served in clay cups (kulhad) in the early morning.

    It was soooooooo dreamy 😍

    Also featured here is Jalebi, a sweet I really like. Often considered a national delicacy, these crispy, syrupy, orange or yellow coils are made from fermented flour batter and served hot during festivals and celebrations. They are similar to funnel cakes and often paired with milk or yogurt.
    I got them for breakfast hehe 😜
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  • Day 3- Sangeet

    February 3 in India ⋅ ⛅ 21 °C

    Sangeet is a fun pre wedding event full of music and dancing (and of course, lots of delicious food 😃). Family members prepare choreographed dance performances and the evening closes with everybody on the dance floor. Basically Sangeet is just for celebration and fun! We enjoyed ourselves very much 🙃Read more

  • Day 4- Tilak

    February 4 in India ⋅ 🌙 20 °C

    The Tilak ceremony is a crucial pre-wedding ritual in Hindu marriages, signifying the formal acceptance of the groom by the bride's family, acting as an engagement or "handshake" of commitment. Held at the groom's house or a temple, the bride's father or brother applies a red vermillion (kumkum) mark on the groom's forehead, accompanied by gifts, sweets, and, in some traditions, a sword or jewelry to symbolize protection and prosperity.

    In Vishy’s case, it was held at his home. There was also a ritual called Choomna, which means “kissing”- in which all the women close to the groom bless the wedding ring by kissing it 5 times. I put all my good energy and love into those
    kisses!!

    Another beautiful day spent with one of my favorite families on earth 💖
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  • Day 5- Haldi & Mehendi

    February 5 in India ⋅ ☀️ 22 °C

    Mumpi was stuck at home for the day with a worse case of food poisoning than I had… it was the breakfast at the hotel that got us 🫣 Due to the fact that I ate a bit less and also have more “Indian bacteria resistance”, I was still able to participate, albeit with longer breaks sitting with bellyache 😅

    During the Haldi ceremony tumeric paste is applied to the couple's skin before they enter matrimony which is believed to cleanse and bless them.

    There were lots of other smaller rituals built into the day, many of which are only for the married women of the family to participate in.

    It was also the day to apply henna designs to the women’s hands, which came out beautifully 😍
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  • Day 6- WEDDING!

    February 6 in India ⋅ ☀️ 16 °C

    Today was the official
    marriage ceremony, which began with a grand exit of the home and a grand entrance into the venue! We finally got to see Vishy’s bridge Riya in person, and when I tell you she was gorgeous, I mean STUNNING! 🤩
    We met Riya’s friends and family as well, who were all so kind and welcoming.
    The ceremony itself consisted of lots of prayers and gestures, for example, the pair was gifted many rings by family members. There was also the funny tradition “Juta Jurais”, where the brides family tries to steal the grooms shoe(s) in order to bargain for money. It’s all in good fun and can get a bit competitive 😅
    There is one thing I will say I appreciate most about Hindu traditional weddings- the seriousness of the event reflects the seriousness of the commitment about to be made. Based on personal experience watching lots of my peers, marriage is taken way more lightly and that’s at least part of the reason the west provide a stark contrast, where divorce rates are at 50, 60 %.
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  • Day 7- Reception

    February 7 in India ⋅ 🌙 15 °C

    Way to go out with a BANG❗️The open air reception venue was decadently decorated, decked out with the most delicious (ALL vegetarian 😃) buffet, fit for receiving all 700 guests, apparently a very modest number for an Indian reception 🫠.

    After attending all the ceremonial days before, I had gathered quite a few new friends and family members, so it went by soooo quickly chatting and eating the entire night; I couldn’t believe it when my watch said 11:30pm and, feeling like a princess in my classy black blinged out Saree, my coach was about to turn into a pumpkin, so I had to go.

    This was one incredible experience that I will hold in my heart forever. I feel so connected to Vishy and his family, and am so grateful to begin forging a connection with Riya and hers. Oh, and I am so looking forward to the next wedding (Shaily 😍)!!!
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