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  • Honolulu to Tokyo Haneda

    19. mai 2023, Forente stater ⋅ ⛅ 27 °C

    Japan Airlines JL71 | HNL/HND
    Premium Economy Class
    Boeing 787-9 | JA874J
    ATD/1617 | ATA/2001
    Lounge: Sakura Lounge

    I went on this trip due to a family bereavement. With just one day advance notice, I was fortunate to get a flight to SIN for just $2,298, with two sectors in Premium Economy and two in Economy. I took this route just a month prior, so much of it was deja vu for me.Les mer

  • Tokyo Haneda to Singapore

    21. mai 2023, Japan ⋅ ☁️ 17 °C

    Japan Airlines JL35 | HND/SIN
    Economy Class
    Boeing 767-300ER | JA616J
    ATD/0005 | ATA/0602
    Lounge: Sakura First Class Lounge

    The redeye from Tokyo to SIN isn't my preferred flight, but I had to get to Singapore asap. I tried to secure a block of three empty seats for myself to get some sleep, but the aisle seat on the other side ended up being taken. Regardless, JAL's economy class seat is one of the most comfortable out there, and I arrived in SIN about as ready as I could possibly be to handle the day's activities.Les mer

  • Bukit Timah Nature Reserve

    24. mai 2023, Singapore ⋅ ⛅ 33 °C

    I walked to Bukit Timah Nature reserve several times to reflect and decompress. My regular route takes me to an abandoned granite quarry which is now a lake. Along the way, I often see macaques, monitor lizards, squirrels, and wild pigs.

    On this trip, I also climbed Bukit Timah Hill, which is Singapore's highest peak... all 164 meters of it. LOL.
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  • Spirit Mediums in the Red Light District

    25. mai 2023, Singapore ⋅ ☁️ 30 °C

    When I was growing up, the red light district of Geylang was a no go zone. Even as an adult, the only times I ventured into the area was when I was in university to dine at several 24 hour eateries in the area. Those eateries, which were located along the main road, made for fascinating people watching as there was an interesting cast of characters coming in and out of the dark side lanes.

    One evening, I had dinner with my classmates there, and we wandered around the area after eating. It was quite an eye opener. There were, of course, various establishments of questionable repute, including hotels and barely-disguised brothels. But, we were also taken by surprise at the number of clan associations, small shrines (mostly Buddhist; oddly, these featured figurines with black faces. There was also one church and one mosque thrown in for good measure), and ornate shophouse facades. Each of the shophouses had three upstairs windows - the middle one was always the longest and extended all the way to the floor. One of my friends, whose mother is a tour guide, explained that the middle window extended downwards close to the floor because the shophouses were built before modern sanitation, and waste (colloquially known as "nightsoil") was collected in buckets. The middle window was low to the floor so that the occupants could lower the nightsoil pails to the collectors below.

    Our most significant discovery that evening was also the most bizarre. We thrown for a loop by the sight of two trucks with flashing lights blaring loud music. At first, we thought these were mobile karaoke trucks, but we realized we were wrong when we saw figurines on the trucks. One member of our party is fluent in Mandarin and she could read the Chinese script, but she could not figure out what they were for. We stared in fascination as we walked past the trucks. Soon after, groups of Chinese people (mostly men) walked past us. In each party, there would be one costumed man with five long skewers pierced into his exposed back. They wore odd costumes, and one of them even moved like a primate. They all looked like they were in a trance. At the end of the procession, there was a man and a woman with pacifiers in their mouths. We couldn't make head or tail of this.

    Our research later revealed that these were spirit mediums, colloquially known as tangki in the Hokkien dialect. Tangki are possessed by spirits (sometimes even gods) and they serve as vessels for them. Some of the key characters include the monkey god, which explains the main walking like a primate, and even child gods, which explains the people with pacifiers. Rather disturbingly, some of them are believed to be possessed by deities from the court of hell. In my western-centric worldview, my immediate thought was that this almost amounts to devil worship. But, there are, of course, nuances: in Chinese folk religion, these deities are charged with escorting spirits of the deceased to the underworld. The white faced ones keep track of deaths, and they then send the black faced ones to fetch the deceased to the underworld. This aligns with the many white and black faced deities we saw among the small shrines.

    This was an interesting cultural encounter that I never expected, especially not in the red light district. More information on tangki may be found here:
    https://biblioasia.nlb.gov.sg/vol-16/issue-2/ju…
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  • Desparately Seeking Great Grandma

    27. mai 2023, Singapore ⋅ ☁️ 28 °C

    I reconnected with a long lost cousin after my dad's funeral. He told me that our great grandmother (my mother's paternal grandmother) was buried at Bukit Brown, a historically significant cemetery. Bukit Brown had fallen into disrepair before the turn of the century, but it returned to the national consciousness in the mid 2000s after part of it was earmarked for development. Many people were upset by the plans as Bukit Brown is a haven for birdlife, and also because many prominent Chinese from the colonial era were buried there.
    https://www.atlasobscura.com/places/bukit-brown…

    A little more than a decade ago, my cousin sought out our great grandmother's grave. With the help of amateur historians (I think of them more as amateur Lara Crofts LOL), he located her grave, and he hired a cemetery caretaker to clean it up. He gave me directions on how to find it.

    One morning, I contacted my friend Chris, whom I knew walked around Bukit Brown most mornings, and asked if he would join me on a little adventure to find my great grandmother's grave. He gamely said yes. He helped me locate the general area that my cousin marked out, and he spent some time with me trying to find her grave. Unfortunately, he had to leave after a while, and I spent some more time making my way through the overgrown vegetation to find the grave. Alas, I could not find it. I'm not sure if my cousin had done any upkeep on the grave since he first discovered it, and I was expecting it to look somewhere between the first two photos in this entry, but I did not find anything that resembled either photo.

    Despite the disappointment, I still had an interesting time exploring this historic site, and I am glad I took the time to do it. I did apologize to all the deceased laid to rest there for trampling around; I'm sure they'll forgive me since I was looking for my great grandmother.

    I have since contacted another amateur Lara Croft - a friend of a friend - and she said she will look for the grave next time she is there and send me a pin drop. Hopefully my next jaunt will be more successful with the pin drop.

    Included in this entry are photos of my great grandmother’s burial record, her obituary in the Straits Times, and a map of the area. All three photos are signs of the times:
    - The burial record showed how short lives were at the time.

    - The map indicates there was a paupers’ section. Indeed the graves there were modest. Apparently the British were appalled that poor Chinese weren’t buried, so they established the equivalent of a budget section, which is a little ironic given how class based British society was at the time.

    - Perhaps most disturbing of all was the obituary. My grandfather and his male siblings, along with where they worked, were named in the obituary. His sisters were not named, but their husbands were. Only male grandchildren were named. In short, all the women and girls remained anonymous.
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  • Japanese Cemetery Park

    30. mai 2023, Singapore ⋅ ☁️ 30 °C

    On my trip to Singapore last year, I explored various sites listed in Atlas Obscura. One of the sites - the Japanese Cemetery Park - piqued the interest of my classmate as it is located close to her home. We decided to explore this site on one of her evening walks.

    Established in 1891 on the site of a former rubber plantation, the cemetery now nestled in the middle of an upmarket housing estate and it is the final resting place for an eclectic mix of soldiers, sex workers, and business owners. Singapore has had a complicated history with Japan, and the cemetery represents some of that history. The park itself was a serene spot and it was well worth the time we spent exploring.

    https://www.atlasobscura.com/places/japanese-ce…
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