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- vrijdag 31 mei 2024 om 22:23
- 🌙 73 °F
- Hoogte: 56 m
PortugalMMIPO - Museu da Misericórdia do Porto41°8’35” N 8°36’52” W
May 31, Prep Day in Porto
31 mei 2024, Portugal ⋅ 🌙 73 °F
I hadn't initially planned for a day off before starting out on the Camino this year but when Delta changed my flight schedule I decided that a free day in Porto sounded marvelous. Starting your Camino without rushing is a good thing. Slowing down and focusing on your breathing is a really good thing.
All the restaurants were closed when I arrived last night but I made up for it today. My first order of business was to get coffee and a Pastal de Nata - a Portuguese egg custard tart - that are especially heavenly when just out of the oven with flakey crust and gooey filling. I might have looked up who made the best pastal de natas on TripAdvisor. I might have also had a couple of breakfasts this morning.
I walked off my pastries with a stroll to the Porto Cathedral to get my first stamp in my credential (Camino passport). Arriving before they opened I expected to meet other pilgrims who would be eagerly waiting to get their stamp so they could get on The Way. I met pilgrims from Germany, Italy and Israel within a few minutes, all of them walking to Santiago de Compostela for the first time. A German lady asked me if the Cathedral would open at Portuguese or German time. She does enough traveling to know that not all countries or cultures have the same value for precision as the Germans are known for. It made me reflect that I was already grateful for not being in a hurry today and so I stepped aside and let a plethora of pilgrims past me when the doors opened at 9:01.
When I was here two years ago I didn't tour the cathedral. I did this year, surprising the bad tempered woman at the front desk who has a reputation of being short with pilgrims. "A stamp and a tour, please." I asked her, sliding over my credential.
"Hmm..." was all she said, not being able to read my intentions through my mischievous smile.
The cathedral was interesting. If you are not Roman Catholic cathedrals are still worth visiting for their history and art. The view of the city and the Douro River from the tower were worth the price of admission. My favorite art piece was a chapel ceiling that is called, "The Fountain of St. Michael, the Angel." It is a pretty feminine portrayal of the archangel (in my opinion). The rest of the ceiling is covered by 14 women practicing their virtues.
I visited three other churches today, the first being The Church of Santa Clara, where everything inside was gilded in gold. it was rather extravagant, if you are into gold plating everything.
Jesus once said, "The poor you will have with you always." Maybe it was because he knew we were incapable of addressing poverty and homelessness knowing that we would instead hoard riches, land and power all supposedly in his name. He goes on to say, "but you will not always have me." Maybe there is a reason Jesus left the building.
The third church was a quieter chapel, where I actually sat down for a while and practiced gratitude.
The fourth was the Church of St. Francis where they were collecting 10 Euros a person to visit the catacombs under the church. Knowingthat St Francis had taken a vow of poverty himself, I decided not to donate to the church that was named after him.
Okay, I'm done preaching.
The two things I loved today were photography and food. I stayed right next to a museum of photography that in the past had been a prison. It was great space for exhibits. They also had the largest camera collection I had ever seen, taking up a whole floor of the museum. Walking around town today I really missed my camera and my lenses. I could spend months photographing this city. I was grateful for what I was able to capture with my phone.
The food here is also spectacular. I had found a small restaurant, Taberna Dos Mercadores, that had great reviews. I found them in an alley and stood outside the restaurant before they opened for lunch. Two guys, who looked like brothers, would open the door to let in vendors with food, another time they both came out for a smoke. They obviously weren't German as they didn't open up till 20 minutes after their published lunch hours. It was obvious they took notice of who had been there for a while, as they sat 8 of us after filling up the other 8 seats with those who had reservations.The rest had to wait until one of us gave up a table.
They were very obviously Portuguese, and once you had a table it was yours until you were finished with your experience. There was no hurry, even though they could have done twice the business if turning over tables was their goal.
Four people ran this restaurant, doing all the tasks. One of the brothers was polishing the silverware. Another took away my glass off the table as he thought it had a smudge on it. When you did overhear them talking to each other it was always responded to by, "Yes,Chef."
The couple at the seat next to me asked for help with the wine. "What is good?"
The brother replied by waving a hand around to the wine racks overhead, "They all are. What do you like in a bottle of wine?"
Outside I heard someone ask if they could make a reservation for dinner. "Sure," the brother answered, "but the next available is in July."
I took a nap this afternoon. A real siesta. I like this pace of life.
Dinner was at Tapabento, where we celebrated Jamie's birthday two years ago with their famous Peanut Foam Dessert. I've had reservations since February.
I love Porto, but I'm ready to walk. I don't know what time I'll start, but I already have my Cathedral stamp so I'll head down to the river and then up to the Ocean where I'll turn north.
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- zaterdag 1 juni 2024 om 18:57
- ☀️ 75 °F
- Hoogte: 15 m
PortugalPraia do Paraíso41°13’30” N 8°42’56” W
Day 1 - Porto to Aldeia Nova
1 juni 2024, Portugal ⋅ ☀️ 75 °F
Camino Pilgrims can be early risers. Some get up early to beat the rush or the heat. Some wake up because other pilgrims are making too much noise repacking their backpacks. I had nothing and no one to blame this morning for waking up at 4:30 other than my own excitement.
I read for a while, gathered myself and my few things, and headed to the Cathedral at six. Porto streets are quiet in the morning, especially after a raucous Friday evening when the city was reveling with locals and guests celebrating that they were in Porto. Some of the partiers were still in the streets. The Cathedral grounds were deserted and I didn't waste any time or sentiment before heading down back-alleys and staircases to get to the river.
Fairly early I was passed by a couple of other pilgrims. That isn't surprising, I'm a turtle and I've embraced my slower pace. What surprised me was that neither of them had any greeting or acknowledgement towards me at all. I'm okay with people being in solitude, I'm kind of a loner myself, but part of the joy of the Camino is creating community and knowing that most likely we are all here to accomplish the same goal.
There were plenty of other people to connect with. One of the joys of being in Portugal is saying, "Bom Dia" to the locals. They light up when you greet them in their language and they always respond. Walkers, joggers and fishermen all told me to have a "Good Day." Some of them even wished for me to have a "Good Way."
Something feels different walking today. I realize that I do not feel in a hurry. I haven't been looking at my watch or my phone. There isn't a magnet pulling me this year. While I may be on my way to Santiago de Compostela, I've been there already. Maybe that is the gift that a 1,000 miles has given me. The reason I am back is for the journey and my soul already feels like it is settling. Santiago will be there at the journey's end.
I can see the mouth of the river, and then the ocean horizon. There are maybe five pilgrims ahead of me. They take a sharp right and head up the coastline. I walk out to visit the lighthouse. I am not in a hurry.
*****
Last year I tried to stripped myself of identity before I left to walk the Camino Franes. I was on a mission to find myself sans family, titles, and responsibilities. I wondered how I would get along without people knowing who I was. I left all the patches and pins off my backpack. I kept my tattoos covered. I even left my wedding and family ring (one with six turtles on it) at home. I didn't have anything with me (other than my passport) that identified me as an American.
Let's just say I found it terrifying. I was uncomfortable feeling unknown. After the second day's walk I sat outside a cafe at a table with other pilgrims, when someone asked a question about me I didn't stop talking for the next 90 minutes. It took me a good month to get that much information from my friend Mart, who was also at the table that day, but he says that is a typical Dutch trait.
I had a good long walk to digest my insecurity. My Shadow self likes the spotlight.
This time around I'm addressing things differently. I'm not hiding who I am, in fact I have conversation starters on my backpack in the form of patches. So far I haven't felt the compulsion to verbally vomit on anyone.
*****
I stopped for breakfast at a clever restaurant called Negra Cafe in Matosinhos. (Alex and) I had eggs benedict on savory pancakes. I'll probably make this for the family when I get home.
As I type this update I'm sitting at the family table at the private albergue where I'm staying tonight. It was time for their family meal but they told me I didn't need to leave, just scoot over. I could tell that they would have invited me to join them but I told them I had reservations at the restaurant next door for dinner. They could tell I would not say no to a pastal de nata and they were correct.
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The beaches are full of sunbathers, families, and people playing sports. It is the weekend and the locals are making the best of it. Almost everyone has a barrier set up next to their towels. It isn't for privacy, but the wind. But oh how I love the sea breeze! It made walking in the high 80's today very tolerable. My dermatologist will be pleased- I'm wearing long sleeves and pants that are rated to 50 SPF and I keep my hat on while I'm in the sun.
Besides the light houses there are chapels, sculptures, and history markers along the boardwalk. Some of the memorials are for tragedies that occurred during war or mishaps on the ocean. You might get tired of me sharing ocean photos, but that is where I am, and I am being fully present. What a gift!Meer informatie

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- zondag 2 juni 2024 om 21:58
- 🌙 64 °F
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PortugalPasseio Alegre41°22’46” N 8°45’55” W
Day 2 - Aldeia Nova to Povoa de Varzim
2 juni 2024, Portugal ⋅ 🌙 64 °F
The sunset last night was spectacular, the color shifting from the blues of day to the oranges and reds of rest. A lone swimmer made her way out to water and had a choreographed dance to the fading light.
My moment of bliss was short-lived. When I arrived back at my albergue the American couple in the room next to mine still had their TV on. It had been playing for over eight hours. I don't think they were actually watching it because I could also hear their conversation (which is how I knew they were American). They appeared to have it on just for background noise. The problem was that the walls were so thin that I could hear it planely. Somehow they had found an American channel that played back to back reality TV shows - fix a restaurant, flip a house, find a lover. I was annoyed as I couldn't nap, read or write with the distraction. Instead I took a trip to a cafe, then to the beach, later to dinner, and finally the sunset, coming home each time to find the boob tube still making me annoyed.
Last year I was in Spain for the Champions League final (soccer). I sat in a bar with local sports fanatics and it was a spectacle! Last night was this year's final. I hadn't found a bar this time but knew I could find it on the TV in my room. My team had been knocked out earlier in the competition so I wasn't nearly as interested as last year. I intended to put the second half of the game on and mute the commentary, but after arriving back to my room I opted instead to turn the commentary up. It was in German. I didn't turn it up loud. I didn't need to. The walls were that thin. Within 10 minutes the Spanish team scored a couple of goals with not much time remaining. I turned off the TV and there was blissful silence from the other room. I left the alburgue this morning before they woke up. I imagine they assume I must be a German pilgrim.
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The morning light was spectacular. The beaches were pristine and empty except for the waves and the sea birds.
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I've learned that there are four different kinds of boardwalks in portugal.
Newer ones - with prefab boards that are manufactured and built uniformly, making them very nice to walk on.
Older ones - made of wood, some worn, some holes, some with big spaces between boards.
Broken ones - with tape across them and signs signaling for you to walk around (meaning in the sand)
Sand covered ones - Which is exactly what it sounds like.
Pretty early this morning I was walking on an old boardwalk when I noticed one of my polls sounded different. Sure enough, the rubber tip had been pulled off in one of the gaps between the boards. It was too late to try and recover the one I'd lost as it would have been impossible to find or reach. But like a good Boy Scout I came prepared. I have a set of extra rubber tips in my bag. The problem is I didn't want to stop and take my pack off and get to my "Be Prepared" bag that was at the bottom. Had I actually been a Boy Scout I would have easily acquired my Procrastination badge.
I argued with myself that I could wait until I was ready for a break, but now my pole, without the wide rubber tip, was finding the gaps between the boards every other step. I decided I just wouldn't use the poles until my next break, but then I'd either have to carry them or stop to break them down and strap them to my pack. Finally I decided procrastination was a bummer for breakfast so I stopped to put on a new rubber tip.
There is a life lesson here for me. I think I make a lot of things more work than what they need to be.
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I made it to my first cafe and ordered a coffee and a glazed croissant. It was only two Euros. At Starbucks it would have been 12 bucks.
I sat outside the cafe where a local gent was having the same breakfast as me. He didn't speak English but pointed at my backpack and said, "Santiago?".
I nodded my head in affirmative.
After a pause he asked, "How many K's (kilometers)?
I shrugged my shoulders and said, "I don't know." and then made a motion with my fingers, "I just walk that way."
He smiled. So did I.
I guess I should know the distance to Santiago but the only thing I really needed at that time was to know where the first open cafe would be. The next thing I'd want to know is where the next open cafe would be. Santiago is many, many cafes away and I'm not concerned about it.
I thought about this more. If you had asked me before this trip if I wanted to know what tomorrow brings, I would have answered, "Of course." But as I continued walking I could see the city where I'd be staying tonight. I found myself dreading the distance as it looked like it was forever away. But when the trail took me around a curve where I could only see that current bay, beach, field, etc. I found myself more present in those steps and not worried about what was around the bend.
This was another intriguing life lesson on the Camino today.
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Where the boardwalk ends with warning tape you have no choice but to head into the sand. It is slow, it takes effort, and it gets in your shoes. It also takes you places where the boardwalk doesn't lead, including an art gallery of things washed up by the ocean and repurposed by artists.
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Finally there is the section of boardwalk that was taken back over by the sand. I found no life value in that damn section at all.
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I met pilgrims from Austria, Belgium, France, Australia, Germany, Italy, and Portugal today.
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Tonight I ate dinner at Theatro - a building that was once a theater and has now been reimagined into a restaurant, wine bar, bookstore and art gallery.
I arrived a few minutes before they opened hoping they might let me take some photos before they had their patrons. They gave me run of the place. It is beautiful and it was a unique and memorable experience. I won't describe the dinner as it would create some envy but I would go out of my way to travel to this city just to eat here again.
I told Rueben, my waiter, about Alex and how I was honoring his life by eating places that he would have enjoyed, and dining on food that he would have loved to have learned to create. At the end of the meal I told him it had been a perfect evening.
When I went to the counter to get a stamp for my Camino credential, the owner brought it out himself. He said that Rueben had shared my story about Alex with the staff and said that they all got chills. They felt honored that they were a part of this walking, savoring life memorial.
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- maandag 3 juni 2024 om 17:42
- ☀️ 73 °F
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PortugalLargo Fonseca Lima41°31’49” N 8°46’48” W
Day 3 - Póvoa de Varzim to Esposende
3 juni 2024, Portugal ⋅ ☀️ 73 °F
I still haven't figured out my sleep schedule. I'm not the only one. There is a restlessness that comes with a pilgrimage, where you feel you have to keep moving forward. Sometimes the hardest part of the day is deciding you've gone far enough.
Last night I was exhausted. I fell asleep 15 times while trying to edit my last post. I'd wake up to find I'd pushed the space bar 30 times before jolting back into clarity. I'm sure there are still mistakes, but I'm not aiming for perfection in these epistles.
It was another cloudless, blue sky day. The breeze teeter-tottered with humidity and I definitely prefer the cooling breath of the sky to the skin moisture already at 6:30 in the morning.
I very nearly missed the first open cafe, this after teasing another pilgrim (who I met online from her Instagram posts and is about 5 days ahead of me) after she got lost again and had to backtrack several k's. I told her I was using the Camino Ninja app if I needed to look up my route. She told me she was using the Buen Camino app. I told her that she wasn't using it very well. (She laughed at my snarky response.)
It was at my second cafe of the day that I met Sarah from Hungary. We had a delightful first conversation. Three Brazilian pellegrinas listened in to conversation from the next table over and interacted with me once Sarah was back on the trail. Before leaving, two young American friends from the States talked with me.
The only two men who came into the cafe just wanted to quickly use the bathroom, down a shot of espresso, get a stamp, and get back on the trail. I learned nothing about them.
***
Most pilgrims wear a shell on their backpack as a way of indicating they are on their way to Santiago de Compostela and are not a European hippie. There are lots of Camino legends regarding the scallop shell. When I ordered shells for our first Camino three years ago they came with the Cross of Saint James printed in red on the rounded side.
At first I didn't think anything of the design, but as we walked I learned more of the significance and history of it. It isn't really a cross, it is a more of a flowery looking religious sword.
It has been used by a couple of religious/military orders, the first being Spain’s Order of Santiago, whose main purpose was to protect the pilgrims on their way to Santiago de Compostela. There was a similar group with the same purpose in Portugal called the Military Order of Saint James of the Sword.
(That last title might cause you to ask a question, "Why did Saint James have a sword?".)
I'm all for the civil guard making sure the pilgrims are safe as they walk to Santiago, however, the other purpose of these orders was to drive out the Moors from the Iberian Peninsula (meaning to kill the Muslims in Portugal and Spain).
You might read that we honor Saint James by wearing a sword because he was beheaded by one in Jerusalem, kind of like the way some Christians identify with Jesus by wearing a cross. I think there are better ways to honor and show our devotion.
But the more significant origin of this sword is from the legend that St James showed up over 800 years after his death on a white horse with great sword in hand as an answer to prayer from the Spanish King to win a great battle against the Muslims. After the victory St. James was given a new title - Santiago Matamoros - meaning St. James the Moor Slayer.
While the legitimacy of this battle is actually in question, and the legend of the St. James intervention not showing up in stories until a couple hundred of years later, still there is plenty of Santiago Matamoros iconography throughout the Camino, especially in the churches and cathedrals.
I'm uncomfortable wearing a Muslim-killing sword on my Camino shell. Last year I bought a plain white one without the symbol, but it was more difficult to find.
You might think, "Chad, you are getting too politically correct over there in Portugal and Spain. I think the sun may have gotten to your head."
Maybe. I also don't put gun stickers on the back of my car.
Symbolism matters to me.
Identity matters to me.
Images matter to me.
The mix of religion and violence and church's involvements in wars matters to me.
Selling Bibles or indulgences for political power or the amassing of silver and gold matters to me.
"Am I buggin' you? I don't mean to bug ya. Okay, Edge, play the blues."
I'm not on a crusade (see what I just did there?) to get people to stop wearing or using the St. James Cross/Sword, but if they notice that I'm not, I'll explain why.
***
What about today's walk?
There were a couple times today where there were options in the path (even though they aren't marked well). I found myself heading away from the coast and toward a town that I wasn't expecting. Sure enough I was heading down the coastal (town) route and not the litoral (ocean) route. I found a dirt road and headed west. I walked through vegetable farms and waved at onion farmers out in their fields. They all waved back. I knew if I was off course they would have pointed which direction to go. It was marvelous and a highlight of the walk.
There were other unique arrows today including one that filled up the whole road. I certainly didn't miss that one!
I arrived in town almost three hours before I could check in at my albergue. They let me drop off my bag and then I headed out to find lunch. I've decided that a calzone is just a pizza that has been folded in half. That is all the wisdom I have for today.
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ReizigerI wish I'd known that about the sword. I thought it was a cross! I, too, really dislike the moor-slayer persona...
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- dinsdag 4 juni 2024 om 19:28
- ☁️ 70 °F
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PortugalJardim da Marginal41°41’43” N 8°49’25” W
Day 4 - Esposende to Viana do Castelo
4 juni 2024, Portugal ⋅ ☁️ 70 °F
As I was watching the sunset last night I looked ahead at today's schedule. I had planned to walk up the coast but I realized that in doing so I would be walking without support - meaning I wouldn't have any rest stops on my longest day so far. It isn't that there aren't restaurants and cafes along that 16 or so miles of beach front, but at the time I'd be passing they wouldn't be open.
My alternative was to take the coastal route which winds through the local towns. This would be full of churches, chapels, fountains, cafes and restaurants all wanting the pilgrims’ coins. I decided that it was in my best interest to go this way.
I had a much better night of sleep and woke up excited for the journey. It seemed like all of us pilgrims had different directions on how to get out of Esposende, but we all seemed to be back together by the time we made it to the next town.
I'm starting to recognize pilgrims. We always give each other nicknames (that we don't share with each other) until we learn their actual names. I know some of them by their backpacks, their hats, their gait, their nationality and whether or not they are traveling solo or with someone else.
I was in the mood for some conversations today. While I enjoyed my albergue last night everyone there was with someone else. I had no meaningful interactions. Then again even when I spent time in the common area I was typing on my Freewrite device so that I could post to my community back home. I reminded myself this morning that I'm not alone and that I can always reach out for connection if I need it.
I did get to hear Bonnie's sleepy voice. I woke her up because I needed her help on my computer back home. I had sent my work the wrong timesheet and they couldn't process my check until I got them the correct one. She saved my bacon.
As I mentioned, today's main Camino path veers away from the beach. I was now walking through Portuguese towns through backroads and connecting forests. It was much like the Central route that Jamie, Kona, Bonnie and I traveled two summers ago. It is easy to remember why we fell in love with this country.
I have a game with the Portuguese people. I try to see how many energy points I can amass before noon. Whenever I walk by someone I greet them with a smile and a "Bom Dia!"
* A "Bom Dia" in return is 1 pt.
* A shortened "Dia" is 1/2 pt.
* An elongated or emphasized "Bom DIIIIIa" is worth two or three.
* An added "Bom Caminho" or a folding of the hands with "Santiago" is worth five.
I lose track of my score, but my heart is never disappointed by the generosity of the Portuguese spirit.
People decorate their homes with tile, with flowers, statues, gargoyles, dolls, and a myriad of saints.
The churches were all open today. I banged into one Mass in progress with my backpack and poles and quickly backed out. Other churches were open and had left out their stamp for us pilgrims to collect in our credentials. One man, maybe French, went to write the date next to the stamp and then turned to me in confusion. "I don't know what day it is. At home at my work I write the date 100 times, but here, I don't know." It is good to get lost this way on the Camino.
The churches brought up other memories. Two summers ago I prayed for Alex in each one. We didn't talk about it till the end of the journey but the others had been doing the same. While planning our first Camino we realized that he could pass when we were gone. We ended up having almost two more years with him. I can't say that my prayers were answered the way I hoped, but I am sure grateful for the time we did have.
The Eucalyptus trees have peeling bark that emits such a fresh smell. The forests here are enchanted. The dirt paths that weave between them are a relief from the cobblestone streets, that is until they trip you up.
I fell today. Hard. It was a very stony path and I stepped on what I thought was a rock but turned out more to be a roll. Legs, arms, polls went flying. I landed without wounds (other than my pride), although I did tweak my left ankle. It isn't swollen but it does ache. I dusted myself off and continued on and didn't discover until I was out of that stretch that I sacrificed another rubber walking pole tip. I have one left...
Having missed community yesterday I was looking to connect with pilgrims today. I had two great conversations, one with an Irish pilgrim named Shirley, who was full of life and stories. And at the end of the day my friend Sari from Hungary walked with me into Viana. It was what I needed to finish this day well.
This city looks amazing. I had intended to check out some of the historical churches, especially the one at the top of the hill. There is even an elevator tram that takes about 15 minutes to ascend. I was mostly interested in the view from that height, but once I stopped walking I was more interested in resting my foot. The tram to Santa Luzia was a 20 minute walk away and I already have 37,000 steps for the day.
Camino paths are a great way to see a country, a city or town. Walking is a great form of slow tourism, but sometimes I have to remind myself that I'm not here to sightsee. It's okay not to get that photo from the top of the mountain.
I'm staying in a special place tonight - a chocolate factory! Well, the Fabrica do Chocolate hotel used to be a chocolate factory, but now it has niche rooms and a chocolate museum in the basement. My room is the Cinema room and has the theme from the Juliette Binoche and Johnny Depp movie "Chocolat."
This isn't the typical place most pilgrims stay on the Camino, but I'm not a typical pilgrim nor is this a typical Camino for me. Alex would have loved this place. The room came with a bar of chocolate and two more treats on the towels. It gained you entrance to the museum, and a free drink - a choice of hot chocolate, cold chocolate, or a chocolate based alcoholic drink. Renton and Alex always bought half gallons of chocolate milk, the richest they could find, and polished them off by the end of their move or TV show marathons each weekend. I picked the cold chocolate drink and it was like nothing I'd ever had. I'm even staying over late tomorrow morning as the breakfast is chocolate themed and doesn't start until 7:30.
Tomorrow will be the longest day on this route. I'm planning to head back to the beach path. It will be flat and since I'm getting the late start things should open. At least that is the plan for now.
Bonus section:
* I met an Italian couple with their daughter who are planning to travel around Canada and the US next summer in a Winnebago. I asked them if they knew the deal with the calzone thing and they said they did.
* A man noticed me admiring the stained glass in one of the churches. "My wife used to do that. She is very good. But then the Chinese. So now she doesn't do them anymore. Want to see the cemetery?"
* Sari sent me photos from the top of the mountain!
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- woensdag 5 juni 2024 om 21:18
- Hoogte: 20 m
PortugalRio Coura41°52’26” N 8°50’11” W
Day 5 - Viana do Castelo to Caminha
5 juni 2024, Portugal
I woke up to an overcast day. Part of it was the weather. It was the first day with clouds since I arrived. The other half was knowing it was my last day in Portugal. I've grown to love this country and I'm sad to be leaving so soon.
Today was a late start because of the breakfast at the Chocolate Factory Hotel. The earliest they would serve me was 7:30. I'd normally be an hour down the road and 4-5 K's into the journey.
I sat down at a table set for one and the waiter brought a tray that could easily have been for three. There was a basket of pastries, three mini pancakes, a bowl of fruit with chocolate sauce, brownies and cake squares, a pot of coffee and a pitcher of steamed milk, a glass of fresh OJ and a plate of sliced ham and cheeses.
A few minutes later the waiter came back and handed me a laminated card.
"What is this?"
"The Menu."
"The menu?"
"Yes, The Menu. That is in case you want eggs, omelet, bacon, oatmeal or baked beans."
"You are kidding me, right?"
"No sir. Would you like anything off The Menu?"
I ate less than half of what was on the tray...
All I could do was laugh, thinking that Renton and Alex would have loved this place, and Alex would have definitely ordered off The Menu.
***
It took about 40 minutes to walk out of town and hit the ocean. I was in for at least seven hours of walking and I was grateful that my foot wasn't injured any more than just being a little tender from yesterday's fall.
I wondered how many pilgrims would be deviating off of the normal route to walk along the ocean. There were about three couples that I kept leapfrogging. The rest had either taken the upper root or had started earlier.
It was good that I had filled up my water bladder with two liters this morning as I didn't find an open cafe for three hours. Even though it was cooler today I was finding it hard to stay hydrated.
I loved the seascape, the rocks, the forts, and the vegetation. The path weaved in and out of these elements while itself shifting between boardwalks, pavement, dirt and cobblestones. A few times the sidewalk came to an end.
The first time I stopped to try and figure out which way to go. A Portuguese man was sitting on a bench watching the waves. I greeted him, “Bom dia!” but something in the way I said it gave away that I'm a foreigner .
In perfect English he asked me where I was from.
"The United States. And you?"
"I am from here. I worked in Lisbon for 30 years, but now I am back home where I was born."
"How nice. It is lovely here."
"Yes, thank you. It is.” He nods towards my backpack with the Camino shell, “Is today your last day in Portugal?"
"Unfortunately, yes. I have fallen in love with your country."
"Have you been here before?"
"Yes, my wife and daughters and I walked the Portuguese Central Camino from Lisbon."
"Ah! from Lisbon! Well done! And now you are back?"
"Yes, I wanted to walk beside the ocean."
We both stop to admire the view in front of us.
"Will you ever come back?"
"Yes! I'd like to walk the Fisherman's trail from Faro to Lisbon and then continue to Fatima before walking the Portuguese Interior Camino. I'd be walking from the southern border to the northern one."
"I like that you will take a pilgrimage to Fatima. You know most of us Portuguese walk there instead of Santiago."
"Yes, we learned that on our last trip."
"You will feel the emotion and the Spirit when you go there."
"I would like that very much."
And then he guided me to where the path was. I wouldn't have found it otherwise. It led me to an obelisk that had a door to Narnia. I knew it wasn't my time to go through that door so I didn't try to open it.
I don't know what year I'll be back in Portugal, but September 2028 is penciled in. I might have already figured out how many stages it would take (41) and where I would like to stay.
***
Walking alone for hours allows you the time to have conversations with others that you've been meaning to have, even though they aren't with you in person. Perhaps you haven't had that conversation because of fear or some other emotion. Maybe it is because that person is dead. Or possibly both of you are still breathing but are dead to each other. Regardless, your brokenness together means their presence is always in your Shadow.
I had a couple of those conversations today. They weren't easy to have, but it hasn't been easy holding on to that pain either. So I laid it out there and then let it go. It was like a practice that my therapist would have led me in, but instead of picturing walking along the beach while bearing my soul, I really was.
***
Tomorrow I'll take a boat across the border into Spain, and then I will walk forward and upward again.
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- donderdag 6 juni 2024 om 18:32
- ☁️ 68 °F
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SpanjePorto de Oia42°0’5” N 8°52’35” W
Day 6 - Camina, Portugal to Oia, Spain
6 juni 2024, Spanje ⋅ ☁️ 68 °F
I met Miguel yesterday as I left the forest at the water's edge near Caminha. He was fishing for business for the boat ride across the river into Spain. This was one aspect of the trip I hadn't planned out, but other pilgrims told me they were making reservations in advance.
Sure enough, when I exited the Albergue this morning Miguel was outside in a beat up van to take me back to the boat launch. Petrosa, a pilgrim from Italy, was already waiting in the van. Everyone else was still eating breakfast. Even when we stopped at other albergues and hostels to see if anyone else wanted to join us, he could find no takers. Once at the dock he collected six Euros from each of us that covered our stamp, our taxi, and our smuggling across the border. Then he left us on the dock telling us that Paublo would pick us up but to be patient because he was coming from the other side. All morning long it felt like I was in a bad movie. Yet 15 minutes later Paulo arrived in the boat and Miguel showed back up to help us aboard. He handed us both life vests. "For the Police," he said.
Ten minutes later Paulo ran the boat into the Spanish shore and pointed ahead to the forest. We hopped off the boat and he reversed back towards Portugal with a wave. Petrosa and I made our way through the sand and up onto the boardwalk. We laughed, wished each other a buen Camino and then started our day's walking journey.
We had taken the boat from the Praia Foz do Minho beach across to the Spanish beach outside of A Armona. The other option had been to take a ferry at the end of Caminha across to A Pasaxe. The difference in the docking would determine which direction you would go around Santa Trega mountain. As I wanted to walk around the coast, I opted for the boat over the ferry.
While I don't know what the ferry riders experienced going counter clockwise around the mountain, once you walk for a few minutes up the boardwalk in A Pasaxe you enter Pineiral Castrexo, a Celtic pine forest.
This region of Spain is called Galicia (the c makes a "th" sound instead of an "s"). It has Celtic roots. Two pilgrims I walked with today said, "This feels like Ireland." It should.
The hilltop has Celtic ruins that date back to the 1st century which include Celtic petroglyphs. They have reproduced these Celtic symbols in the pine forest by painting segments of the symbols on the trees. You must stand in a specific spot on the boardwalk to see a symbol come together. I stopped at each one. I found both of the Celtic symbols that I wear on leather bracelets around my wrists.
I could sense a difference when I crossed into Galicia on the Frances route last year heading into the town of O Cebrero, almost like I had stepped into a fairytale world. I didn't know I would feel that way again crossing over from a boat into a forest, but I did. It was enchanting.
Gone (at least for today) are the sandy beaches I got used to walking next to in Portugal. This coast is rocky and feels more wild.
Now present, after crossing the border, are the mojones, the stone and concrete posts with the Camino shells and arrows but also with distance markers to Santiago. It's both exciting to see how far I've come in six days and unnerving to know I'm halfway there.
It was a shorter walk, almost half of what I went yesterday, but my destination was Oia. I wanted to stay in La Cala, an albergue owned by an American expat named Tanya, who I learned about from my friend and podcaster Leigh Brennan.
Albergues all have their own personalities, which has more to do with the hospitaleros who run them than it does the amenities. Tanya has made hers feel like home. I can see why La Cala is a favorite place to stay on the Portuguese Coastal Camino.
Things I am grateful for today:
* A shorter stage
* Celtic spirituality and it's lands
* Feeling at home
* Deep conversations
* New friends
* A friendly dog in the 1st cafe I found today
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- vrijdag 7 juni 2024 om 21:04
- ☁️ 73 °F
- Hoogte: 10 m
SpanjePlaya Baiona42°7’11” N 8°50’57” W
Day 7 - Oia to Baiona
7 juni 2024, Spanje ⋅ ☁️ 73 °F
I woke up this morning with a blister on my right big toe. I'm unsure how you develop a blister in your sleep, but I have managed to do so.
It isn't life threatening, and I have a bag of tricks in my footcare bag. Mostly it is annoying as it ends an epic number of kilometers without any blisters at all.
I read my daily motivation app for today. It was written by Marcus Aurelius. "If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment."
I tucked that away after applying it to my big toe. Later this morning there were several of us from last night's alburgue all at a cafe together. We were discussing our aches and pains and how we were addressing them more with attitude than with medicine. I showed them the quote. It was screenshot and read in about four different languages.
***
The sunset last night was beyond spectacular. It continued to deepen in color after the sun disappeared. It was a perfect ending to my first day back to Galicia.
This morning I didn't feel quite as chipper. After putting on my backpack and heading back to the Camino path I realized I was tired. There is a weariness that happens after consecutive days of walking or working. It is why we need days of rest, which is something I haven't scheduled into these first two weeks. I don't have the liberty or time to add days at this point, so I will have to manage my rest time in creative ways.
I turned on my mini-recorder that I keep in the pocket on my left shoulder with my glasses. I had a mini-bitch session where I aired all my frustrations and judgements that had surfaced through the night like my blister. Then I turned off my recorder and let them go.
The next hour took me up the coast, just me and my shadow. It was a perfect morning for turning around and seeing where I had been and how far I had come.
By the time I found the first open cafe most of my housemates from last night caught up with me. We flowed in conversation and steps, giving each other a listening year or space when needed. I treasured their companionship today.
There were other treasures to be found on The Way - scarecrows, painted rocks, windmills, lighthouses, and churches.
Once I arrived in Baiona I toured two churches built right next to each other. One was a Romanesque style from the 13th century. The second was 17th century with an Italian plateresque style (I had to look that up). It was built to venerate the Saint Liberata, who, according to legend, was one of nine sisters (born at the same time). Her mother thought her husband was having an affair so she decided to drown their daughters by having them thrown into the river. However, the midwife decided to give the infant girls to Christian families in different towns. The girls grew up and were persecuted for their faith with all of them being martyred except for Liberata. But after living in the wilderness in her retirement years she was captured and crucified in Portugal. So this church has that going for them... as well as a giant statue of St James above the altar depicting him as the Moor slayer.
I think I preferred the scarecrow and the painted rocks today.
***
It's my parent's 60th wedding anniversary. I am missing celebrating with them. Today I miss my family a lot. As much as I love being here, the best place in the world is always with your loved ones.
I won't see the sunset this evening. It has started to downpour. I'm hoping it clears by tomorrow morning as it is another long day of walking, but the forecast is for rain all day.
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- zaterdag 8 juni 2024 om 22:37
- ⛅ 64 °F
- Hoogte: 24 m
SpanjePraza do rei42°14’14” N 8°43’18” W
Day 8 - Baiona to Vigo (via the coast)
8 juni 2024, Spanje ⋅ ⛅ 64 °F
It was raining when I went to bed last night and raining when I woke up. Even though the thought of six plus hours of walking in inclement weather did not excite me, I was determined to make the best of it. I walked out of my albergue with my poncho tucked under my belt for easy access and had my backpack rain cover already in place.
It was sprinkling lightly at first but within 10 minutes my backpack and I were covered with the poncho, making me look like a pilgrim turtle, not just having the speed of one. I regretted, as it was still pretty dark out, that I bought a black poncho instead of a brightly colored one that could be seen easily by drivers.
I assumed that I'd get very few photos today, thinking that my phone would have to stay in my pocket, however I managed to get some good images of what the day looked like, especially when the rain let up for a few hours.
While most of yesterday's stage was full of conversations, today I was alone for the entire day. My emotions were all over the place and I was grateful to put in one ear bud and have the benefit of upbeat music to keep me company.
As the great American poet, Bacharach, wrote:
"But there's one thing I know
The blues they send to meet me
Won't defeat me
It won't be long till happiness
Steps up to greet me."
Once again I savored the oceanfront, and once again I was taken with the white, sandy beaches, which I found myself walking on two or three times when there was no boardwalk. My coastal walk ends tomorrow as this Camino connects up to the central route. The rain allowed me to enjoy the whole coastline without any other people besides me.
I only had an hour and a half of walking left when a whopper of a storm opened up on me. I ducked under a tree to see if there were any cafes or restaurants nearby to wait out the storm as I was nearing the edge of Vigo. Almost unbelievingly Google maps showed that there was a Burger King about 12 minutes away. While I had no desire to eat at an American fast food joint in Europe, the idea of having a dry place to wait out the storm sounded nice. Unfortunately it was closed so I didn't get to experience having it my way at Burger King.
The next best thing I found was a highway underpass and while it offered no comfort, it offered shelter and that was what I needed most.
With the new rain, having soaked pants and shoes, the absence of local cafes (and thus the lack of caffeine in my bloodstream) my attitude took a nosedive. It really hit bottom when I stumbled and on some slick pavement and then realized a few minutes later that I'd lost a hiking pole tip for the third time this trip. Yes, we have no backups, today.
The string of profanities I uttered was worthy of a good old fashioned getting your mouth washed out with soap.
It didn't help any that when I arrived at the address in Vigo where I was staying I had a message from my hostess that I needed to pick up the key another kilometer down the road, which added more distance for my attitude to sour like my wet socks.
I was letting the circumstances get the best of me and I was creating my own suffering by not letting it go. Once the key was in my hand I decided to look online and found that there was a hiking goods store just 10 minutes out of my way that carried pole tips. Within a half hour I had pole tips on both poles, had backups in my "Be Prepared" bag, and was back at my albergue.
I wanted to get out of my wet clothes and into the shower, as well as get those wet clothes washed. First I decided to treat myself to some of the chocolate that I had left over from my stay at the chocolate factory hotel. It was a bit soft so I put the bars in the refrigerator to get solidified again. However, there were two squares that I had found on the towels in the hotel bathroom that hadn't melted so I decided I'd eat one of them. Only it wasn't chocolate. It was soap.
All I could do was spit it out and laugh at myself!
Vigo is a big city, the largest in Galacia, I believe. It has a good vibe but I'm too tired to check it out. I did walk to the Basilica de Santa Maria de Vigo. It is a relatively new church here, built in the 1800's and has some interesting mosaics around the altar.
My friend Antonio (Italian living in Switzerland) said he needed lots of carbs so we found a restaurant to split a 2-person paella. It was divine!
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- zondag 9 juni 2024 om 22:35
- 🌙 64 °F
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SpanjePlaza Figueroa42°16’49” N 8°36’39” W
Day 9 - Vigo to Redondela, Spain
9 juni 2024, Spanje ⋅ 🌙 64 °F
As I mentioned in my update yesterday, today’s stage would be shorter, about half of what I walked a few days ago.
Spain is quiet on Sunday mornings. The only people I saw the first hour in Vigo were other Pilgrims looking for their way back to the Way, people out to exercise (joggers and bikers), dog walkers, and those who still hadn't made it home from last night's revelries wearing either magma costumes or salsa dresses.
It took me six blocks to find a nearly open cafe. They politely told me that they would make me a coffee to go or I'd have to wait until they were open at 9am in another 15 minutes. While it was a stretch for me to leave that late I knew I'd either be waiting for the cafe to open in Vigo or standing at the door of the albergue waiting for them to open when my feet were tired. I patiently sat outside the cafe and enjoyed people watching.
Other pilgrims joined me at the tables and we passed the time with introductions while waiting for the caffeine. Everyone was celebrating that even though we had overcast skies, we wouldn't have yesterday's rain.
Antonio joined me and we ordered croissants and cafe con leches (I may have had two) before donning our backpacks and heading out of town.
My secret to leaving a city on the Camino is to do it early when it is sleeping. That wasn't happening today. But what could have been a boring stretch through some industrial and suburban sections were made up with companionship. Life looks differently when you are walking beside someone.
There was a good climb out of the city and a matching decline at the end of the stage, but the majority of today's walk was through beautiful forests full of towering eucalyptus trees with occasional glimpses back down to the water where we had recently been.
Antonio led us in some mindfulness practices in and amongst the trees, which felt more holy than in some of the religious structures I've toured this past week or so. We discussed the healing that comes from being in nature, from valuing life, and the restoration that comes from walking. It's almost like we were created for this.
***
I've started getting comfortable with the wave of pilgrims I've marched up the coast with. In Redondela we join with the Central Camino so the crowd will have new faces, new stories, new energies, and new attitudes. We will have the option of becoming tribal, dividing into different camps, or becoming inclusive and expanding our Camino family.
***
I've been to Redondela before and I've stayed in this Albergue before. We were here two summers ago when Jamie, Kona, Bonnie and I walked the Central. It brings back memories of our time here like it was yesterday. We had a memorable dinner at a nice restaurant up the hill and it rained on us coming home. We were all running and I was scared someone would fall and get hurt. But the gals’ laughter won out over my fears and now we celebrate that challenge as a treasured moment.
It is Sunday afternoon and almost everything is closed - all but one little grocery store, most cafes, and some restaurants. I found all that I needed and feel blessed to be not lacking for anything, even though I'm living out of a backpack. I was even able to go online with my phone and watch my church service from home.
I've walked tomorrow's stage before. It is the only time on this trip that I will walk a path I've previously been on. I'm interested to see if I remember the Way like I remember the places we stayed.
It's under 100 km to Santiago. We don't talk about blisters anymore. We talk about where we go from here.
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- maandag 10 juni 2024 om 18:30
- ☀️ 73 °F
- Hoogte: 29 m
SpanjeReal Basílica de Santa María la Mayor42°26’1” N 8°38’50” W
Day 10 - Redondela to Pontevedre
10 juni 2024, Spanje ⋅ ☀️ 73 °F
I was eager to get on the road this morning. I went to the cafe that I knew would be open but instead of taking a table I stood at the counter like the locals and downed my coffee with them. All of the bars and cafes in Spain have the “Norm from Cheers” vibe going on. When you enter the establishment you call out your greetings and are greeted in return. "Hola, buenos dias!" will get you a long way when you are new to a hangout.
Once I had got walking I recognized a couple of American young women that I'd had conversations with over the past 10 days. They are in their young twenties and have both recently graduated from college. They are both going into service related jobs and I admire who they are and how they want to live their lives. We discussed our three states - Mississippi, Michigan and Idaho; state parks, weather, hurricanes (specifically Katrina) and where we will all go after Santiago. I also mentioned to them that I was curious about today's stage as it was one I had walked two summers ago and I wondered what I would remember.
Nothing.
It was like a brand new stage to me; like I had never seen these landscapes. It made no sense to me, especially when I got to a fork in the road where a pilgrim has to decide if they are walking into Pontevedra on the shorter route alongside the road, or if they will take the longer route that weaves along the river for a couple of miles. I knew that Jamie would have taken us down by the river but as soon as I took that complimentary route I was certain that I'd never walked that way before.
Then it dawned on me - it had rained on us that day! All day! We had walked the stage, but with our heads down guarding our steps. Also, the guidebooks tell you not to take the river route when it is raining or has just rained. It can be a muddy mess and the path itself can become a stream.
I was so grateful to have the chance to walk this stage again. It was remarkable, especially the trees! Some readers may find it silly but I stop and touch some of them, thanking them and drawing energy from them.
At first I was sad at what we had missed two summers ago. Yet as I processed it I was impressed as I thought of the four of us soldiering through, climbing up and over two steep passes, and making it to Pontevedra regardless of the weather and circumstances. Yes, we had our head's down because we had to focus on the next step, but we made it. There is a life lesson here.
***
I was overcome with a sense of gratitude today. I started listing things and before I knew it they were pouring out like a flood and the tears came too. It was the first time I've cried on this Camino. It is nice that they weren't tears of pain, sorrow, grief, confusion or disappointment - though this is a good Way for those tears too.
Trying to describe my feeling of rapture is difficult, but here are a few of moments that held me:
* I greeted an old man and he looked up and smiled at me and wished me a "Good day and a good Way." It started a chain and he addressed all of the pilgrims behind me too.
* I saw a woman on her porch watering all of her flowers. When I got to her house I waited there as the front door was still open and I guessed she had gone in for more water. When she returned I told her how beautiful her area was and thanked her for it. She beamed in delight.
* I saw older men and women out tending their gardens. Some I greeted and waved to, others I just admired in their space and their care.
* I saw grapes beginning to grow on the vines and it filled me with a sense of hope and anticipation.
* I saw a pilgrim climb onto a swing on the side of the Camino, but as soon as she sat down her backpack for some childish fun she realized it was a trap. The fiendish kitties were out of the field and onto her bag looking for goodies in an instant. I laughed out loud!
* There was a bagpiper who looked like Gandolf. It always makes me relieved when I actually see a piper in the forest and know that the music I'm hearing isn't just in my head!
* An Irish friend I made last week caught up to me at a coffee shop and we renewed our tales together.
* The complimentary path along the river was divine. It made me thankful for nature, for breath, and for life.
***
I've continued my pursuit of honoring Alex with where I dine and what I eat. Antonio is also a foodie and loves to cook so we've been searching for the right restaurants in each town. I found today's treasure. The "Menu del dia" was not your typical pilgrim fare, though the price was the same, just 12 Euros. The chef was young, like Alex, and I thanked him personally for the joy he added to my meal. I think I'll have dinner there tonight too.
***
I'm enjoying writing each day. It takes time but it is a good discipline and it helps me process. It isn't the easiest of methods without a computer. I have a small keyboard called a Freewrite that has a small liquid ink screen (like an e-reader). It is designed to write first drafts without distractions as you can't get email on the device, surf the internet, or watch YouTube videos. It is also impossible to edit on the device as there is no mouse pad or navigation other than some rudimentary arrows. It simply allows for quick first drafts and saves the contents to a flash drive.
I almost left the Freewrite at home (it is light, but every oz counts), but Bonnie convinced me to take it. "It's what you bought it for, Dad. So take it and write!"
The process, from getting my first draft to a published FindPenguins post is to turn on the hotspot on my phone, connect the Freewrite, and then send the document to Google Docs. From there I can open up the document on my phone and attempt to edit it before copying it to the app to publish alongside 20 or so photos. My first drafts are pretty rough so editing on the phone takes a while.
Usually when I'm finished I'm ready to fall asleep (If I haven't already several times while editing). I haven't had much additional time for messaging friends and family, especially with the time difference.
I had anticipated having more time and had intended to write to my friend Brian as we have been in a dialogue about his book that is getting published later this year. I was going to bitch to him about the effort it is taking me to write and why I've been delinquent in our correspondence. And then I remembered that since Brian has ALS he has to type each letter with his eye movement. Wrong person to gripe to!
Perspective. And gratefulness. And love.
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- dinsdag 11 juni 2024 om 19:45
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SpanjeRío Bermaña42°36’24” N 8°38’40” W
Day 11 - Pontevedra to Caldas de Reis
11 juni 2024, Spanje ⋅ ☀️ 68 °F
What a difference a day makes. Yesterday I was focused on gratitude. Today has been a challenge to keep myself from complaining.
It started yesterday evening when I had to start saying goodbyes. Some of the friends I've made on this Camino are staying an extra day in Pontevedra. Some will be taking the Spiritual Variant Route which means they will arrive in Santiago as I am leaving. Then at dinner Antonio told me he was leaving the Camino for an emergency back home in Switzerland. I said several goodbyes last night that I wasn't emotionally prepared for.
As I walked today I processed the reality that we often don't have control over when we say goodbye to people. As a hospice chaplain I experience this so often. It is all the more reason to be fully present with people when they are right in front of us.
My day was full of new people and most of them were Americans - two couples from Arizona, a retiree from Texas, a new college graduate from New York on her way to Pittsburgh for a new job. There was also a nice couple from Canada that I walked an hour with today. I shouldn't feel lonely but I still do. All of these people were friendly enough but we only had time for the formalities: Where are you from? Where did you start? Is this your first time? How many blisters? Where is your wife this year? What do you do back home? (Typically only the Americans ask this last question.)
I got tired of hearing myself talk and of answering the same questions. The nice thing about walking with those you have got to know is that you've moved beyond the basics and can get into conversations with more significance.
I guess that is how I started those relationships too. Maybe if I run into these folks again tomorrow we can go deeper.
Someone got up to shower in the albergue at 4:30 this morning. Someone else had his alarm on a three minute timer. Two people nicely moved their belongings out of their room and into the kitchen so that they wouldn't wake their other roommates; unfortunately the kitchen was right next to my bed.
There was roadwork out of Pontevedra and the Camino route on my app didn't match the detour arrows. The cafe on the other side of the bridge that advertised being open, wasn't. The restaurant that I chose because of its menu for lunch now has a new one with just the basic staples. It was nothing to savor. My albergue for the night has a pool but no washing machine and they asked me not to improvise and try to swim in with my hiking clothes.
Of course there were wonderful things about today's stage. I'm on the Camino. I'm less than 50 KM to Santiago. I have a bed tonight. I am healthy. My blister doesn't bother me. The sun is out but it is not too hot. The path took us under a grape vine trellis. I found a Turkish restaurant for dinner. My albergue has a pool.
But sometimes the negatives seem to outweigh the positives, even when it appears they should be in balance - or that I should be able to balance them.
Take for instance last night in our albergue where we had only one shared toilet and shower. While there were doors to both sections there was also a sliding wooden panel that closed off the bathroom area from the living room where I was sitting at a table typing. One pilgrim went into the bathroom with her towel so I assumed she was taking a shower. I got up and closed the panel door. When she came out she noticed me and motioned to the door. I said that I had closed it to give her some more privacy and she thanked me saying she didn't realize the panel was a door. Then I stopped a male pilgrim from opening the door telling him that there were currently two women in the bathroom area. He thanked me and waited for his turn. It gave me a nice feeling that we are all looking out for each other and doing our best in an awkward area. But then a short while later a woman came out of the bathroom, looked at me sitting nearby and slammed the panel shut while giving me the stink eye like I was a pervert for sitting near the door. Her judgment weighed more heavily with me than the appreciation of the other pilgrims. It was harder to let go.
So it was with appreciation as I was processing this all during my walk that I came to a traffic sign that announced, "STOP Complaining." I asked the pilgrim near me if she could see it too. She said she could. I'm still taking it as a sign for me.
***
I don't like feelings of loss, of loneliness, of disappointment and of feeling judged. I'm trying to learn how to lean into those feelings and let them pass through me instead of holding on to them (like how I coach people to process grief).
I had become good at numbing those feelings at the end of a hard day. A glass of whiskey (or more) and an ice cube didn't change my emotions but it did a good job of making them fade into the background until I could fall asleep.
I stopped that practice a while back. I now make a pledge on an app each morning not to drink that day. Then in the evening the app asks l me how I did.
I have not once in the morning ever regretted not drinking the night before. Some evenings are harder than others. Today has been a tough one and I'm surrounded by offers of beer, wine and liquor from good meaning pilgrims and albergue hosts. But this morning I made pledge 199 and I intend to make it 200 tomorrow. I think I'll go for a cold swim.
My albergue has a pool.
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- Dag 13
- woensdag 12 juni 2024 om 22:39
- ☁️ 61 °F
- Hoogte: 20 m
SpanjeRío Rois42°46’38” N 8°39’17” W
Day 12 - Caldas de Reis to A Escravitude
12 juni 2024, Spanje ⋅ ☁️ 61 °F
I slept nine hours, which on the Camino is a record for me. My body apparently needed the rest and I'm grateful that I had a quiet place to sleep, and also quiet roommates.
A friend posted a link to a podcast interview of John O'Donohue, one of my favorite Celtic Christianity authors and poets. It was two of his books that I was reading when I walked the Camino Frances last year. I brought my Kindle on this trip to continue to read them but between walking, reflecting, writing, and interacting with other pilgrims I haven't even turned my Kindle on. I also haven't listened to any podcasts like I usually do at home. But as I walked into a Celtic forest this morning I decided that to hear John's voice and heart would be a gift. It certainly was!
One of the things he mentioned is that we are more than just our experiences and our accomplishments - both good and bad - that our core is more sacred than our stories. I needed this insight today.
After the forest I weaved in and out of little towns until the Way runs into the Ulla River. Two summers ago we walked the spiritual variant which meant we took a boat up the river to Padron. I recognized where we had disembarked. I recognized the horse that Jamie fed an apple to. I recognized tha albergue where we stayed in Padron.
While I would have gone back into the church (Iglesia de Santiago Apostolol de Pardon) to see the stone the mythical boat was moored to, it was closed. I read later today the stone isn't out anymore but is in a cabinet. I don't know the truthfulness of where the stone is but I do know that Google's info on the church being open is a lie. Oh, well. I saw it last time. Other people say it is a Roman altar stone anyways.
What and who I did want to see was the owner of the Don Pepe II bar/cafe. He meant a lot to my family when he served us with coffee and blessings on our last day's walk to Santiago. Google has been saying it was closed. It was. Like locked up for month's closed, not back after siesta closed. I took a picture through the window and prayed a blessing on our friend wherever he is.
I decided not to stay in Padron but walk another 90 minutes to get closer to Santiago and shorten tomorrow's stage. I found an old farm house that had been converted into an albergue that even has an old wine press. They advertised a community dinner and that sounded like a great way to spend my last night on the Way. Surprisingly there are only five of us here tonight - An italian woman, A father and son team from Ireland, a dental hygienist from Seattle, and me. Tomorrow night this place is booked full, but tonight was a more intimate gathering.
One last memory from today. As I navigated through Padron I was looking for lunch before heading out. The Canadian couple I met yesterday saw me and asked me to join them. We sat and talked for almost 2.5 hours. They shared the reason they started talking with me yesterday. When they were coming up behind me they saw me stop walking, pull down a rose bush from atop a wall and take a deep breath from the petals. It intrigued them that I actually stopped to smell the roses.
While I thought the conversation was very nice yesterday, it still felt surfacy to me. Apparently though they had been talking about some of the things that had come up and they were happy to see me again because they wanted to continue the conversation. Today it went deeper and I walked away feeling like I had connected.
I have five hours of walking left tomorrow. I plan to get an early start.
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- donderdag 13 juni 2024 om 20:56
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SpanjeMuseo e Iglesia de San Martín Pinario42°52’55” N 8°32’36” W
Day 13 - A Escavitude to Santiago
13 juni 2024, Spanje ⋅ ☁️ 59 °F
I forgot how beautiful this last stage to Santiago is. There is quite a bit of elevation gain but it is fairly gradual; it didn't seem to bother us pilgrims on this exciting day. The section through the city was shorter than I remembered. There was more nature and forest paths compared to what my head told me to expect.
There were lots of "Ah, I remember this!" moments, and several times that I pulled out my phone to take a photo I realized that I had captured the same image previously. It made me curious about my photographer's eye and what it is naturally drawn to. I briefly thought about trying to photograph the day differently but I was too excited to get to Santiago.
The morning sun was again glorious. The air was cool and the breeze was strong. Most pilgrims were in jackets and coats. A storm is building and it looks like everyone is prepared for it.
The coffee situation was tricky. I knew not many cafes would be open as early as I was walking, and I don't remember many stops on this stage. I unfortunately drank one of the Nespresso coffee pods at my farmhouse albergue before leaving. I know some people love the simplicity of those machines but it simply isn't as good as an espresso shot. I'm such a coffee snob...
I was actually surprised that there were more cafes than I expected to find on this stage. There were queues of people in the ones that were open and queues of pilgrims outside the ones that were closed, wanting to be first in line when the doors opened. I just kept walking by.
There was one cafe I knew would be open. We visited there and had memories of the staff teasing the girls as well as dressing Jamie and I up in traditional pilgrim attire and posing us for photos. When I arrived at that turn off I decided not to revisit the restaurant. Sometimes memories should be left as they are, and I didn't want any new experience to spoil what we already treasure.
Thankfully I found another cafe tucked around a corner that was the perfect spot for a rest, a croissant, and a caffeine recharge.
Another great memory was coming to an underpass that was full of graffiti messages to other pilgrims. When we saw it one of us said, "Oh wow! Wouldn't it be great to find our names left here... Oh My Gosh! Look! Here we are!" Our friends Ilaria and Francesco were a day or two ahead of us and had left the four of us a message of encouragement on the wall.
I didn't really expect to find our names still there - and they weren't - time and paint had covered them up and now there were new greetings to other pilgrims in their place. However, the good will of that initial gesture still filled me with joy and got me skipping up the Way.
A subject that isn't as joyful are the student groups. Everyone has their opinions about these groups on the Camino. Typically I'm a fan. What better thing could high school kids be doing? But there have to be some boundaries in place to also make it a good experience for other pilgrims. The group of students shadowing our days have had no such guardrails or guidance. I was told there were 150 of them, which I think was an exaggeration, but it felt that way. They traveled in buses and were dropped off to walk portions of stages having no awareness of other pilgrims - blocking the path, playing music on speakers, overwhelming rest stops. I've experienced some really great student groups on previous Caminos, but this group was not one of them. I don't blame the kids but the leaders who didn't seem to be guiding them. The energy on the Camino is affected by ill will towards each other and many pilgrims talked with me about how frustrated they were with this situation.
It's so exciting when you come over a rise and see the first glimpse of the cathedral spires. This year I also noticed a giant Ferris Wheel in Alameda Park. I don't know if there is a carnival in town, but it is certainly a circus. Tourists and Pilgrims flock into the Plaza do Obradoiro to stand in front of the Santiago Cathedral. We all want our pictures taken to signify where we are and what we've accomplished. There are lots of celebrations and emotions. This year it caught up with me and I let the tears come.
Having finished four Caminos I've got a bit of a routine in this city. I have a favorite cafe, a favorite bar (that serves a plate full of "Rabid tiger mussels'' that are a spicy celebration in your mouth), and even a favorite little pizza joint. Today I added a favorite barber shop to the list.
There are also the things you do to wrap up your pilgrimage - go to the Pilgrim's office to obtain your Compostela (a certificate of completion with your name in Latin) and a certificate that states when and where you walked and how far you journeyed.
I attended the Pilgrim's Mass in the Cathedral. You have to arrive early to get a seat and a big security guard keeps making the announcement - "It is time for the service. No more walking around. No more photos. Photos are prohibited. Moving is prohibited." Try to tell that to the pilgrims who have done nothing but move and take pictures for the past several weeks and just received two certificates to prove it.
My Spanish is awful, which is really deplorable since I've spent so much time in Spain, so it is difficult for me to understand much of the content during the Mass. I go out of respect and admiration. I know when to stand, sit and kneel by watching others. I know not to go forward for communion as I'm not Catholic. I keep hoping I'll get to see them swing the giant botafumeiro, but in the six or seven times I've gone they've kept it tied up.
After the service I walked down to the tomb of the Apostle. The line of spectators then moves behind the altar to hug the sculpture of Saint James from behind. I do so, thanking him for having been the inspiration for such great paths through the Iberian peninsula. I don't feel emotional inside the cathedral, as I did outside. It's hard to think that the presence of God is somehow more present in this building made by men (though it is aspectacular building) than it is in all of the living nature we just passed through. If you want to experience awe, take a walk. I certainly made this pilgrimage for spiritual reasons, but it wasn't to visit a grave.
My bonus story is that I got to meet up with an Irish Pilgrim that I've been following on Instagram. She recently completed the Portuguese Camino from Lisbon, like our family did two years ago. She is carrying the ashes of her mother in a fulfillment of a promise she made to her before she died of cancer. It was an honor to hear her story firsthand and to reflect on grieving on the Camino as well as finding new reasons to fully live.
I walk again tomorrow morning, but only for about a half hour or so to the bus terminal. From there I'll have a five hour bus ride to Oviedo where Bonnie will meet me so we can walk the Primitivo Camino together.
Thank you to the readers who made this writing effort worthwhile. It was helpful for me to process each day. I hope you found some value in it too.
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ReizigerLooking forward to following your journey Chad will be praying for you as you go .
I love your stories and your photos and your heart! Thank you so much for taking the time to post. [Shaleen]
ReizigerI am so excited for you, Chad, and can’t wait to see God take you farther up and farther in. Holding you close on this journey, both in my thoughts and prayers.