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- May 21, 2022, 11:00am
- ☀️ 63 °F
- Altitude: 3,658 ft
- United StatesCaliforniaPlacer CountyAlta39°12’51” N 120°48’36” W
How It All Started
May 21, 2022 in the United States ⋅ ☀️ 63 °F
Iboga is a central African perennial shrub, indigenous to Gabon in the Republic of Congo. It is the bark that it used ceremoniously for healing and visionary quests. It is hallucinogenic. Some centers use the main alkaloid ibogaine in their therapies and there is much interest and research around using ibogaine to instantly cure opioid addiction. Christy has her own story of recovery from this horrible addiction. I can't wait to hear more of their stories this week.
My adventure with iboga began in July of 2020 when I met Matt and Christy. Matt and Christy came to the birth center to have care. They were recently married and moved back to the states from Costa Rica as I recall. Over the next few months, I saw them at least 5 times at the clinic. Each time besides talking about how their pregnancy was progressing and how Christy was feeling, we talked about iboga. Matt had such a zeal for the "medicine" as they call it. Christy had a life changing experience, and this is how they met. I asked lots of questions because it was so intriguing to me.
At the time I first met them, my whole life had recently been turned upside down. I had just moved from my beach home to a 41 foot fifth wheel that I parked on the birth center property. I had just been released a few months earlier from a 5.5 year relationship with a narcissist. We were in the thrall of covid with shutdowns, unable to get supplies; rationing, stalking and hiding toilet paper, and sewing our own facemasks. We were down to only two midwives at the center including myself, which meant I was on call 20 days a month, plus doing all the administrative functions, clinical director functions and billing. I can say with certainty that I still have not recovered or caught back up after the intense demands of that time. At the same time, you may recall, there were intense political battles going on throughout society... rioting, burning of businesses, takeovers and sit-downs of cities, destruction of monuments, vigilante defense, military blockades... The intensity of the political dichotomy divided families, friends and polarized society. Chaos is the best word to describe 2020.
Also around the first time I met with Matt and Christy in the middle of July, 2020, my parents were admitted to the hospital with covid, never to return home again. It was heart breaking to lose them this way, both on the same day. Not being able to be with them and having to say goodbye by video messaging felt like a nightmare. It didn't seem real. Meanwhile, I was working day and night with minimal sleep. I had just delivered a baby 30 minutes before I got the call that my mother had passed away just 12 hours after my Dad had passed. There was no time or space to grieve. I had to be strong. It was just me and my student midwife, Maureen. I did shut down a little bit, and Maureen helped me through. Maureen started an IV on me and brought me food. But that was short-lived; I had no choice but to rally and keep going. On to the next patient, the next tasks at hand. The employees had to be paid. And my orphan siblings and I were planning a dual burial and service while my sister was quarantining for two weeks.
I loved hearing Matt and Christy's stories and felt drawn to the medicine. I thought perhaps it could help me and I wanted it. But right then it wasn't possible. I couldn't get off work, first off all. Also, I was taking Paxil at the time. Iboga cannot be used if a person is on serotonin medications, with Paxil being the worst of them. Iboga can be very dangerous even fatal with this medication in the system.
I started taking Paxil in November of 2019. I was experiencing anxiety, and my gynecologist who prescribed it said it would help my hot flashes as well. I was desperate. The anxiety, which had flared two months prior when my billing manager quit with 3 days notice, was strong enough that it shut me down. It was difficult to focus or work. Paxil helped me, but not without side effects.
About 8 months ago, I began slowly weaning off the Paxil. Once before I had quickly weaned off in a couple week's time, and after a month of being off of it, my horrible anxiety symptoms returned. The symptoms that I describe as anxiety is a tension in my muscles including the neck, jaw, shoulder and upper back region. It causes an intense burning pain throughout those areas, so intense that i cannot function. Breathing feels more difficult as well, and I find that I sometimes stop breathing all together, only to suddenly realize it and then gasp for air.
This time I weaned very slowly, decreasing my dosage by 2.5-5 mg every month or two. I was only on 20 mg. I know other people who take 70 mg, so I was already on a very low dose to begin with. It took me 5 months to wean off. At the very end, I weaned off a couple weeks faster than I planned. I did a 3 day birth marathon, and had left my medication at home. Well, that was it. No more Paxil. Coming off the 5 mg of Paxil that I had been taking, was still rough. I had severe vertigo, and at times experienced weird lightning flashes inside my head. It felt like Flash the Marvel character was inside my head zooming from one side to the other, back and forth. They call this "serotonin syndrome". Taking 5-HTP helped minimize the symptoms and they gradually faded after about a month.
At the time I weaned off Paxil, it was early February and I now had a practice of 5 midwives, an office manager and a billing company... so I could get away. In March, I contacted Christy through Facebook and she connected me with her husband Matt via the Signal app.
We chatted and it was decided. He would host a retreat in Oregon sometime in May and would let me know the details once finalized. It ended up being California instead. Why California or Oregon? While illegal substances are still illegal, there are no longer felony charges in these states.
So the last two weeks, basically right after Cinco de Mayo, I've had no alcohol whatsoever. This was required to take this iboga "journey" as they call it. It wasn't that hard, but I did have extra snacks around to distract me. Physically, I felt totally normal, not different at all. It was just the craving to have something relaxing to sip. I used snacks to fill that place, as well as teas, my hot oatmilk toddy, and Seltzer water. Every time we went out to the bar, I ordered club soda with a splash of cranberry with a lime.
So all this brings me here today, and I'm ready for this journey.Read more