• Chris Brown

South Africa Coco's Foundation

Off to Zulu Natal to build a home Read more
  • Trip start
    April 4, 2024
  • Day 2

    April 5, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ 🌬 24 °C

    Arrived in Durban which had wonderfull mosaic pillars in airport. Internal flight which was very very bumpy! 4 hour drive with goats, horned cows and antelop along the road side and in the roads. Arrived at wonderful lodge, at Sodwana Bay but just getting dark when we arrived. Gegos on the walls inside!Read more

  • Day 3 morning

    April 6, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☁️ 24 °C

    An amazing day for many reasons! Monkeys in our garden, zebras on the side of the road.
    We visited a children's home this morning, the welcome was wonderfull, warm hugs and smiling happy children. We sang and danced together and they taught us a song in zulu.
    We had a talk about the history of the home and how it runs, it has been in operation since the 1950's and currently houses 27 children, all run by a lovely lady called Nosiklay.
    Next a school just down the road run by Dorathea a truly incredible, inspirational lady. She teaches science and maths , trying to change the approach nationally. She works with universities, runs robotics classes, teachs programming, to all ages including A levels. Uses lego and duplo, 6 duplo bricks is a thing. Sadly funding is hard and she has not had a wage for 4 months!
    We drove past a chess garden on the side of the road, with children all playing chess and being taught by a local doctor.
    A packed lunch followed.
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  • Day 3 continued

    April 6, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ 🌧 20 °C

    We stopped at a supermarket, they sign your receipt at till and you have to show it to leavevthe store at the door. We pulled into a second one and Chris knew a market stall holder selling cashew nuts, nearly all of us brought some he was so happy they are so tasty.

    The children's home taught 3 main things for the children to develop good self confidence, self esteem and dignity.

    The afternoon was very moving, we gave out some food parcels and saw two homes, one slept 12 children and another had many all looked after by a grand mother who had a baby strapped on her back. They were told today that they each be having a new home built for them in August. They were so incredibly humble and thank full and happy. They keep thier current homes incredibly tidy and clean. With the very little they have. They did a zulu dance in thanks and happiness.
    We gave the children sweets, little books, stickers and a football. Their dog loved the football and soon burst it. No one made a fuss, one child put the broken ball on his head like a hat, and they were all sharing their gifts.
    The homes they have now are made of mud and can wash away in heavy rain! This year has been wet.
    Look at the two photos that show in side one.
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  • Day 4 Sunday am

    April 7, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☁️ 23 °C

    Had a very warm welcome in an incredible church today. So many hugs and smiles. Incredible singing and dancing so much love and energy. They shared their service with us and Dorathy from the school we met yesterday translated for us.
    We were invited up and I did a reading.
    The children were so incredibly well behaved, they could go in and out at leisure.
    I had to pop my hand over my ears a couple of times as soon loud and powerful!
    It was a very special couple of hours.
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  • Day 4 Sunday afternoon

    April 7, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☁️ 23 °C

    We drove to visit a home biult before covid for a lovely man sponsored by Sue who is our pastoral carrer on the trip. She was overcome with emotion on seeing him again.
    Here if you do not have an ID you get no money, you cannot work, so cannot feed yourself etc
    He had been living in a tin shack and was lost and poorly. But Sue felt a connection on meeting him 5 years ago and paid for a home to be built for him. He now lives in it and welcomed us in today. After research by Coco's he was able to get ID 2 years ago and the government has built him a new home BUT he will not leave Sue's one. He loves it. He still gets food aid every month from Coco's as he has no job.
    We discovered today he is same age as Chris 54 years old.
    He has chickens a home and now pride.

    The roads were wet, its rained! We had to push the van as it got stuck!

    We visited 3 brothers who were given a new home 7 months ago. They are growing their own vegetables and biulding a chicken cope. They were pleased to see us and had a terrific sense of humor.
    We visited the family we are biulding for and start tomorrow. We leave at 7am to get to the site. It rained today hopefully it will be dry for biulding.
    Saw storks, zebras, cows and goats, loads of chickens all free roaming and often in the middle of the road!
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  • Day 5 Monday 1st biulding day

    April 8, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☁️ 24 °C

    We are up at 5.45am ready to leave at 7am for the hour drive to the home and family we are biulding for.
    On the way, we picked up two of Nkosie's children and took them to school. All the school children either walk or get picked up, they wear wonderfully colourful uniforms, and are very smart. The Mama's and Gogo's do the washing in bowls and hang it out to dry on tge fences, and washing lines between trees. Nkosie has 6 children between 2 and 10 years old.

    We arrive, and the biulders we are working with look a little bemused by us 7 Gogos who have come to biuld! But we get stuck in stacking breeze blocks in piles of 3 wide and 5 tall around the footprint of the home. We check for spiders and scorpions before lifting. It is hot work, but we pull together as a team.

    Next, we learn how to mix the mortor and run the water from the Jojo. That's the large green watertank that will be attached to the home to collect rain for the home, when we have finished.

    We work from 9 to 10, then snack. The son of the family helps us all day. The Gogo and daughter keep doing little dances and smiling. They are so happy.

    We lay 6 courses of blocks today! We use mortar to fill between all the blocks. We have an hour for lunch in the shade, and they apply more suncream. The chickens come to see us and an either thin doggy. So on way homecwe but a large bag of dog food for tomorrow, it will last a long time.

    The biulders are very patient with us but seemed happy with our work. We all smile and have fun together. We clean our tools, leaving us happy with ourselves. A great day, we havecaching arms n backs but wirth it.

    Chris has explained that this is like us being gifted a million pound home and watching being biult, decorated, and then, at the end, being handed the keys. This home we are biulding is a gift to them at the end we will hand them the keys, it is emotional.
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  • Day 5 continued

    April 8, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☁️ 23 °C

    (Day 5)Monday
    Bob, the builder, would be impressed! We got 6 layers of block work done!

    We drove home passing the cows as usual. And then going shopping purchasing bananas, which are far more tasty here, I ate 2 today.. and they enabled Chris to go on tour of the local bike shops! Sadly, we did not one.

    We had a restful couple of hours playing card games in the garden. Showered, then drove to Sodwana Bay and into the complex where we had dinner out.

    I sat next to Tamsine ac19 tear old from just outside Petersfield in Sussex, who has been living here for 7 months working at the children's home and living with the leaders family. She really enjoyed chatting with us and said it was great to speak English as she has struggled to learn Zulu. She hasc2 months to go then home to university in London to study tailoring.

    A wonderful choice of food, I had ribs n chips.

    A great day today, very rewarding.
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  • Day 6 rain stops biulding

    April 9, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☀️ 27 °C

    Woke to a big thunderstorm, so had to change plans.
    Went to Ebenizer nursery school for 2 to 5 year olds.
    We spent the day with them and split into pairs to be with a class.
    I went with Lyn and helped Busy Bees aged 2 1/2 to 3 1/2.
    The theme this week is transport. It costs 1,200 rand a month for each child to attend. Straight away, they are learning English. Some can only speak Zulu, but they soon start picking up English.
    The morning is structured, with story time, maths, and learning about the weeks theme. Every child gets homework 4 nights a week.
    I joined in, and we talked about types of transport on the land, in the air, and on the sea. We sang the wheels on the bus and row row row your boat. The story was The 3 Billy Goats Gruff. All in English.
    One child put her hand up and asked for the toilet. They were all allowed to walk across the yard to the toilet and back again alone.
    Their behaviour was impeccable, and they slowly warmed to us.
    I drew a big bus on card and they pianted it. We let them sit in our minibus and drove it down the drive and back, they loved it. Then lunch, in the main room they all had the same cooked meal. When finished, I stood up, gave their bowls into the kitchen, and went outside to play. They all knew what was expected of them.
    The afternoon is freebie outside, we gave them a football and all played together. I was goaly it was great fun but quite humid and hot.
    No arguments or fuss durring the whole day! I played pat a cake hand clapping with our class of little ones before leaving.
    Another wonderful day.
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  • Day 7 biulding in the sun

    April 10, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ 🌙 24 °C

    Up and out at 7 am off to biuld in the gorgeous sunshine. Our first sunny day.
    It was hot work, but we kept motivated with Heather's music, we sang and danced, trying to floss with the sister of the family. We found a dung beetle and wasp nest.
    We moved blocks across the site and stacked them up on the scaffolding, ready to use. I say scaffolding 3 planks of wood laid across a pile of blocks. We worked in teams, and I filed trowel loads of pug and passed them up to those on scaffolding.
    It was hot work, but it was great seeing how the biulders put in the mantels and windows.
    Today, I did counter poses to stretch my muscles and help stop them from feeling sore.
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  • Day 7 afternoon

    April 10, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ 🌙 22 °C

    A little more biulding after lunch with a group photo. Then, back to the lodge for a quick change and to Sodwana Beach. We all pretend to be from Durbon, so the entrance was cheaper as international people pay more!
    The beach was so sandy with the beautiful blue sea of the Indian Ocean. It's been windy all day, and the waves are crashing.
    We kick of our flip flops and go into the sea. It is rough and knocks me over but its so warm! There are blow holes in the sand where crabs are waiting to emerge once the tide is in.
    We have great fun messing around.
    In the evening we change and go to The Tree for a meal. I have Russian Big Boy with chips. It's a hotdogvwith cheese, bacon and onion rings so yummy! What a day.
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  • Day 8 visiting Mdwina School

    April 11, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☀️ 22 °C

    Chris blog.

    Up at 5am today to ensure we left at 6 am sharp, to allow time to get to Mdwina School to serve porridge to the children before they start school.
    This is the only meal many will have all day. It contains all the vitamins and minerals they need, and once digested, it quadulpes inside them.
    It's 7am, and many are already waiting. They are quiet but pleased to see us. They line up, and we can now see that many do not have shoes or if they do, they have no laces. Most are holding a plastic container in various sizes, colours, and conditions.
    We take turns to serve...
    We think it's going well, then we start noticing porridge on your faces, eyes down bowl held out.
    Hang on, you've come around again. One has taken his jacket off and quewed again.
    We try and police this worried we will run out until all have eaten. But Chris helps saying give them seconds but a smaller amount. It turned into a little game, cheeky smiling faces, but thankfully, everyone ate.
    This fuels them for a day of learning.
    Assembly is lovely singing in straight lines, and one child reads to us all.
    They all file into class, and 1 teacher can have 70 children in a class!
    All learn in English and have a book containing all the subjects for that grade. Lesley asked about science, but everything is from the 1 book, no other resources.
    We help give the school uniforms we raised money for being given to children by
    Vamsile, who made them.
    We visit classes. It's very moving, and I think it's fair to say we all became emotional at some point. For me, it was when the children say thankyou, I don't feel worthy of thanks, as my life is so easy by comparison.
    We leave having been touched by the opportunity to meet them.
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  • Day 8 biulding 1

    April 11, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ 🌙 21 °C

    We rejoin the house biuld around 9.20am and as we are getting to know the builders we joke saying ahh the Gogo's are back! But they are so patient and I'm taught how to cover the lintels with pug and make it smooth. I stand on blocks to reach. We move the remaing blocks to the home and I find a small lizard inside one! Heather helps scoop it out and it makes us both jump when it skuttles.
    Everyone helps and we are all bonding together as a team.

    PS, a Gogo is a grandmother.
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  • Day 8 shoes

    April 11, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ 🌙 20 °C

    In the afternoon we went and brought 10 pairs of shoes for children at the school! And we are going to get shoe laces.
    We also visited the studio where the clothes are made.

    At the biuld we took some photos of two of the children we are biulding for, they are looking out of the door of thier current tin home.

    At dinner this evening, it was hard to eat the wonderful meal cooked for us, vegetable pasta, Moroccan salad, and garlic bread, as we were all thinking of the children. We said grace, but it's was hard.

    Here is a picture of us making lunch to take out. I am writing this on the sofa in the lodge after we all had a laughter melt down. We needed it! But my sides hurt now...
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  • Day 9 safari a wonderful lodge

    April 14, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ⛅ 25 °C

    When we arrived, I was completely overwhelmed by everything. It was so incredible and I never believed I would go somewhere so amazing. Chris gave me a hug and said, this is your thank you for all you are doing here. This is how the family you are helping feel about the home we are biulding!
    The staff are all waiting outside to welcome us and take our bags.
    The lodge is stunning, and we have it all just for us. An infinity pool overlooks a water hole and animals freely living all around us.
    My room has a huge bed, lots of weddings happen here it is stunning.
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  • Day 9 eve safari

    April 14, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ⛅ 24 °C

    We go on a 3 hour safari from 3 to 6 pm so we see the sun go down.
    It is a bumpy ride, but we see so many animals, zebra, giraffes, ostrich, rhinos, a mother, and baby. Many more, I do not know all the names. When the light goes down, the rangers use a light to spot the eyes of animals. Incredibly, we see a leopard in the pathway walking towards us! It was difficult to photo we all gad to stay still and quiet.
    It was our drivers first safari that he lead, and we called him lucky Johathan as it is rare to see a leopard.
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  • Day 10 early morning safari

    April 14, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ⛅ 24 °C

    We are up at 5am and out at 6am on a 3 hour safari to see the sun come up.
    So many giraffes! The sound of the animals around us is wonderful, crickets and birds.
    It's brilliant, bouncing around.
    We go to the river and see a lion with her cubs but to distant for a photo.
    We have seen to big 5 of animals!
    There was a monsoon last month and the rangers tell us they have never known it, so lush and green.
    We stop by the river for a cuppa tea and cake, this is where people get married. We have such fun as a group all messing around.
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  • Day 10 surprise elephants

    April 14, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ⛅ 24 °C

    We have one last swim and say goodbye. We drive a short distance and stop. Chris says we have a surprise for you. You are going to interact with the elephants!
    The elephants are living free on the reserve, and each has a handler with them at all times who just follow them.
    These two are resque elephants, and they crave human company. When it was not provided, they used to go into villages to find people, which caused a lot of disruption.
    So now, every morning, they come down here so the public can hear about them and feed them.
    The elephants loved the oranges we gave them. So much so that they were scraping their other food up and squirting it at us to give them an orange!
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  • Day 11 I spent in bed!

    April 15, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☁️ 26 °C

    I got a 24 hrs sick bug! Which is going through us all. I was very close to passing out! But I'm much better now and eating again.
    3 off us stayed in bed and 4 went to the orphanage for the day. They did crafts and played games. They all said the children had a great time. Making friendship bracelets, using stickers for cards, playing with bubbles, and doing team games.

    Yesterday we visited adam, which was such incredible engineering. It amazed me that a large town is right behind it, if it ever breache, they would not stand a chance.
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  • Day 12 recuperating day

    April 15, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☁️ 24 °C

    We all stayed at the lodge today to recover. But those that are well including me have been busy. We plan the church service for home, choose songs, readings, activities, and talks we will do.
    Then 3 of us went for a walk and photographed the local houses. We were picked up and jumped into the back of a Buckie for a ride home, it was fun!
    In the afternoon, we prepared craft activities and games for tomorrow as we have 2 hours with approx 200 children at the school for their fun after school club. The same school we served porridge at.
    We also saw a tortoise in the garden and I played with the 4 doggies that come with the cleaner.
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  • Day 13 morning at Midwana School

    April 16, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☁️ 23 °C

    We drive into the school grounds at 11 am. and are soon surrounded by children crowding around the minibus. They are smiling and waving and remember us from last week when we gave out porridge.
    It is overwhelming so many faces looking at us. The school has 500 children and 60% are orphans. We stay in the van and wait for the teachers to guide what happens next.
    We climb out to say hello, so many high fives!
    Slowly, many children go into class, but around 200, stay out with us and form a large circle. Then it starts raining, we put on rain coats, they have none, and many are barefooted too. The circle moves under a large tree.
    A teacher asks us all to introduce ourselves, our name, where we are from, and what we do at home. He asks us to give the children hope and inspiration.
    I say I work in an office and help look after the environment, a child asks what we do to help the environment and I explain that we have alot of rain in England and to protect our land we biuld flood defences to protect us from floods, we help farmers look after the soil so we can grow our food and we think about waste and how to reuse and recycle. I also say I am a grandmother and help look after my granddaughter.
    Later a girl comes to me and says you are a grand mother and I say yes, she says, I have a grand mother and I tell her everything from my heart. I say that is so special, and thank you for sharing with me. She gives me a hug and runs off.
    I can not write it all!
    Paula and I lead a form of rounders, the soon learning and naturally divide into girls and boys. The girls develop strategies quickly to win and form chains through the balls. The boys keep moving the posts!
    Then we blow large bubbles so much giggling, but all want a go. We have to be firm to do it ourselves.
    It was a true experience. Most took their shoes off and played barefooted. We did it for 3 hours. I was exhausted but so happy to have spent time with them. They kept stroking my hair and high fiving.
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  • Day 13 at the biuld

    April 16, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☁️ 22 °C

    We drive to the biuld and can not believe how much the home has changed. It has a roof, a screeded floor and two wooden front doors.
    Our job today is to bag wash the blocks.
    We begin by collecting water from the pond. We carry buckets in pairs, and the Gogo pops hers on her head. She is stronger than us all!
    Bag washing, I learn is a cement wash that is thin enough to brush over the block walls filling the holes so they are waterproof.
    Some of us change into old clothes as we have been warned we will get messy. Lesley wears old PJs.
    It's hard work on your arms and splatters everywhere. I kneel down to do the low parts and let others go up on the scaffolding.
    The son of the family is cheerfully helping us as he has done every day.
    As we are clearing up the tools, we notice the Gogo and children leave and are all dressed very smartly.
    5 mins later, the most beautiful singing rings out across the site.
    We ask Chris, and he says they have gone to church. We ask if we can go, yes, but you must try not to get upset. We walk following him towards the sound.
    They have a tiny church full of people wonderfully singing the most beautiful songs, it sounds like it's coming from their souls.
    There is a grandfather in a suit at the back cradling a tiny baby. The church is ramshackle and brings home to us all that church is more than a biulding, it is faith. They have it in spades and seem truly thankful for things and seem happy that we are enjoying their service.
    We say goodbye and return to the lodge, shower and go out for dinner.
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  • Day 14 we finish the biuld

    April 17, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ ☀️ 24 °C

    When we arrive this morning, the beds have arrived and are lined up, ready with mattresses on them. Because Xolarnie has helped every day and worked so hard, he is a lovely young man who wants to do the best for his Mum. We discovered that he sleeps in the round house on the floor. So as a surprise and thankbyou he has been given a bed too.
    He did not expect this and was so amazed! It is so hard for us to comprehend their gracious attitude to life. No fussing or moaning, just kindness and humbleness.
    and the windows now have glass in them.
    The beds are made locally by a man whose wife has cancer, and he struggles to support them with paying for her care. Coco's commission him every month with something to make to help give him an income.
    We are later arriving today because we went to the biulders merchants to fet supplies. The biulders are having a tea break, the sun is blazing, and we are all excited to see what colour the paint is for the house. It is donated by a company who give it for every home, so it just depends on what they have just made.
    It's green! We are happy as most are biege and we really wanted a colour.
    So we need to paint. We are in our old clothes, factor 50 sun cream on, ode de Africa is on ( that's mosquitos repelant), sun hats and glasses and very yukky biulding gloves on, we are all ready for action.
    Brushing away, it is very hot and good to be on the shady side of the home. The paint is drying quickly.
    When done, we eat the packed lunch we made, whilst it finishes drying.

    Next is a protective sealant coat over the whole biulding.
    This goes on easy and drys quickly. The outside is complete.
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  • Day 14 we dress the home

    April 17, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ 🌙 24 °C

    Next we go and get the Gogo to show her we are ready to put the beds in, she insists on sweeping the floor first.
    Then the beds are carried in. She lays down and is so so happy.
    The cutian tracks are put up and Sue and I hang the curtians. They transform it into a home. When the Gogo comes in and sees the first curtain hanging she falls back against the wall, eyes filling up, hands in pray position saying thank you. We have a big hug it is so moving.
    We put blankets on the beds.
    A plaque is attached and we are finished.
    We ask the biulders - are we keepers? Yes, we need you they respond. We are happy too.
    Joy is everywhere!
    The emotion is hard to explain, all are hugging and smiling and filling up. Dancing happens.
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  • Day 14 words of thanks

    April 17, 2024 in South Africa ⋅ 🌙 23 °C

    Here are some radom photos from the biuld. The names of the family and their ages and the biulders' names.
    And a prayer.
    There is nothing more to add about the biuld because I have no words. Hope you enjoyed watching it and a huge thank you for everyone's support. Hope you appreciate what you have done for this family.Read more