• Kathmandu

    16 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ 🌫 18 °C

    This morning I decided to try and do some packing and rearranging of my stuff in preparation for shipping some things home before I leave Nepal. I was fairly unsuccessful lol. Instead I ended up calling Alanna and we had a great chat! I then ate breakfast and decided to call her back as I heard she'd be at the pub with my brother and our friends. It was great to talk to the all! I gave them a video tour of the house I'm staying in and the neighbourhood (restricted from going to far because I was on wifi) and they were particularly interested in the toilet lol. None of them have ever used, or seen, a squat toilet before. Makes me wish I had taken a photo of the one in Sirubari before I left so they could compare the two! Becuase the one at Sudarsan's home is much more modern, it has a flusher and a sink in the same room. Anywayyyy of course the boys would be interested in toilets :p

    I spent the rest of the morning/early afternoon working on more text and content for the website. The company is called Unleashed Nepal International, and again, I'll share the link when it's ready! It combines sustainable tourism with volunteer work if desired and is a fully customizable program. I've decided that I want to continue to be involved even after I leave Nepal.

    Beda came back to Sudarsan's around 1:30, we all had tea together and then Sarita took me to the Shawl factory! What an incredible place. So many choices it was overwhelming. And so much variation in price and quality.. Definitely different than what was offered in Thamel, and if you ask me, much nicer. I spent entirely too much money on lovely lovely shawls and I'm not going to describe them too much because they're gifts for a few lucky people in my life, but I'll take pictures of them at some point ;) Just think 100% pashmina, made in Nepal by hand, and embroidered with lovely patterns.

    From the Shawl factory we went to a large supermarket nearby just to browse. It was very similar to a Walmart at home! The most memorable part of it may have been crossing the busy Ring Road to get to it... What I said before about getting used to the traffic? Yea I was wrong. Ring Road is crazy. Maybe 6-8 "lanes" of traffic. I say "lanes" because there aren't any lines on the roads - nor stop lights anywhere, traffic police control traffic in busy areas - and one minute a particular stretch of road may be going one direction and the next it switches. To cross you kind of just walk into the chaos and wait for an opening to inch your way forward... Cars come within inches of you and don't think that you have priority because you're a pedestrian. Ha! There are also cows that just randomly walk down the middle of the road. Actually that was one of the funniest things I've seen and wish I had been faster with my camera to capture it! This calf just wandering down the city's busiest road without a care in the world while cars zip around it at top speed. Oh the eccentricity of the city that I'll miss! Nothing you'd see in Canada. In this area of Kathmandu, there are also numerous people cooking over open fires along the side of the road selling items like corn to passerbys. It's intense. But I love it! Oh, and also shops like vehicle repair and electronics repair shops line the sides of the streets in small shacks and it's quite common to see men Welding things between their feet wearing only sandals! Different standards.. .

    Anyway at the supermarket I just browsed and didn't really buy anything. I saw things like "American" Mayonnaise and Ketchup which made me laugh. I did also find two of the drinking cups that I've been looking for! The benefit of the supermarket is that everything is pre set to a fair price and you know that you aren't being ripped off because you're a tourist...

    When we got back to the house I introduced Beda to the Crown Royal and he also really enjoyed it! At this point Sudarsan was working in his shop so Beda and I had one final time to hang out together before he left to go to his sister's house again. He leaves early tomorrow morning at something like 5:30 am to make it in time for a meeting back in Lamjung. It was a good afternoon and I was complimented very nicely, "you must have lots of boys at home who like you because you're smart and funny"

    After Beda left I went down to sit with Sudarsan in his shop. One of his friends came by at some point and we all shared some beers together. Carlsberg, Tuborg, and San Miguel are quite popular here it seems. At some point during this time a girl, an IT student at the local university, came by to talk about the website. She's in charge of getting the domain name and hosting arranged, and wanted to know how much space we needed based off the categories and content we started writing last night. She left and Sudarsan and I continued working late, until about midnight.
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  • Kathmandu

    15 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 18 °C

    I slept great last night! I spent the morning taking advantage of the strong wifi and ordered my bridesmaid dress for Kat and Ethan's wedding! What a hassle that was, David's Bridal sure doesn't make it easy to take your money. But, after 20 minutes on the phone with their corporate headquarters and 10 minutes with the local Langley store I got my dress ordered :) It'll arrive almost a month after I'm home... Crazy long time! Long time to wait and a long time on the phone, long enough that I didn't have much time to do anything before it was time to eat.

    After breakfast I walked to Thamel so that I could pick up a bag a left at the first hotel I stayed at, Hotel Amaryllis, for safe keeping. The walk took about 45 minutes and took me through some local areas of the city. What stood out the most was the scent... The road I followed took me along a canal that was filled with garbage :( It pains me to see that! There is some need for recycling and garbage service or maybe some new ways of packaging products here... Seems like everything ends up on the roads or in the rivers. But, other than that the walk was uneventful. I'm starting to get used to the traffic and how to avoid being taken out by the zooming cards and motor bikes. And I've become accustomed to the stares. That or I've started walking/acting enough like a local that they don't stare as much anymore? I dunno, but either way it doesn't bother me anymore!

    When I finally made my way into Thamel I decided to stop by a coffee shop and have a real coffee for the first time since leaving Canada! I had a cafe au lait and it was delicious. I may have had two... I stayed there for a while and did some writing, just enjoying the solitude and ability of being on my own schedule. I definitely felt better today too because I actually ended up getting quite hungry. Instead of eating at this coffee shop which offered many western menu items like salads and soups I wandered to a momo shop in the area. Last chance for Momo's! I had an order of peanut satay Momo's and an order of chicken ones. Delicious! And a beer to go with it, Becuase I have to try all the local beers right? ;) hunger satisfied I made my way over to the hotel and stopped in a Shawl stop along the way. Sudarsan told me that he'd take me to where the locals shop for shawls before I go so I was only looking at prices. Funny how much they want to charge there! They first asked for 1200 rupees for this one shawl and after I said that's too much and chatted with him for a bit about how I'd been teaching in rural Nepal he lowered the price to 500! Called it the Nepali price and said that any shawls I bought from him would be the same price. I did end up buying one from him because I saw one that I loved but I think I'll check out the Shawl factory first before going back to buy more. Plus, the shawls in Thamel aren't quite the same as the ones the local women wear, and those are the ones that I'm looking for. Anyway, afterwards I picked up the bag I left at the hotel, found a cab, and made my way back to Sudarsan's. I had originally planned on walking but that bag was much bigger and heavier than I remember it being...

    When I arrived back at the home I was locked out! I must have just missed the last person leaving or something... Seeing my confusion some local people kindly tried to help me get in without any luck of course. So I went across the street to a local shop and had a cup of tea while waiting for someone to come back and open the gate.. I think I only had to wait about 30 or 45 minutes before someone returned. During this time I had my first experience with being offered drugs in Nepal.. The guy was clearly drunk and couldn't believe that I didn't want any weed. Ah well, there's always that one nut in an area ;)

    When I got back into the house I went through the items in the bag I had left at the hotel! Pretty well all food and drinks lol. And some clothes for the next segment of my trip. I think that I'll give most of the candy and treats to Beda to bring home for Bobita, she's got a bit of a sweet tooth ;) I'm very excited to share the Crown Royal that I had in the bag though! A taste of Canada.

    At some point I went down to Sudarsan's office with him and we worked on a new logo for his Eco-Tourism company. I photoshopped for about 3 hours and the familiar wrist pain I associate with computer use came back... Haven't felt that since I left. I had hoped that some time off from excessive computer use would have allowed my body to heal itself and rectify the problem. Guess that's not the case! But anyway, I think the logo looks great :) When the website is finished I'll be sure to share it! It's a great thing that he's trying to accomplish and I'm more than happy to help him how I can.

    We had a late dinner at 8:30pm then Sudarsan and I returned to my room to work on some text for his website. Beda stayed at his sister's home tonight I think? So the two of us used the time to work. It's easy for me to write quickly and fluently in English the message that Sudarsan is trying to get out. While we worked we shared some of the whiskey and I think it's popular! Next time I come I'll have to bring a bottle for him instead of the half I had with me. Sometime while we were working Ganesh called me and told me he's also in Kathmandu! We're going to meet for tea at some point before I leave :)
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  • Back to Kathmandu

    14 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 18 °C

    I had a horrible sleep last night. I kept waking up and in the morning I was incredibly nauseous. I must have eaten something bad.. Of course I have no problems with food and digestion until the day I need to leave! I couldn't even eat my breakfast. Oh well, thankfully Advil at least took the edge off of the sickness.

    First thing in the morning I started packing but was interrupted when Beda recieved a phone call from Ganesh. Something was going on with the laptop, it had reverted back to Japanese. So I went back over to Ganesh's house before breakfast to take a look. The issue was resolved quickly, just a matter of Windows needing to update (typical!). And I guess the Nepali font, Preeti, didn't get installed on the computer so I showed him how to do that as well. It was a short visit as I needed to be back for an early breakfast so we could on the road to Kathmandu. But, one last goodbye is never a bad thing :)

    As I mentioned, I couldn't handle eating anything this morning so I had a glass of warm milk and a banana before finishing packing. Walking down the stairs and off the property was far more difficult that I thought it was going to be :( Hugs aren't really a part of the culture here so I waved and said bye and all that business. It was sad having Bobita, Grandma, and the neighbour watching me leave, also sad. But, Beda and I made it to town without any problems and caught the first bus to Kathmandu that we saw. Thankfully it was a deluxe tourist bus and there was plenty of legroom and space. I don't think I could have handled one of the micro buses with my stomach in the condition that it was. By some miracle I actually managed to sleep the majority of the ride and it passed fairly quickly. I managed to keep down a couple bananas and an orange on the way and drank some water that Bobita gave me before leaving. She mixed in some powder with the water which is supposed to help with stomach upset. It seems to have worked! The mixture made the water look like urine and it smelled like boiled eggs. Thankfully it tasted like nothing, else I would have lost all the contents of my stomach immediately. And on the bus that would have been very unfortunate!

    We hopped on the bus at about 11 and made it to the bus park in Kathmandu at about 5:30, stopping twice along the way for food and toilet breaks. Coming back into Kathmandu I remembered my love hate relationship with the city. It's dusty and busy and chaotic. But thankfully Sudarsan's house is outside of the busy tourist and central district. The walk from the bus park to his house took about 30 minutes and was rather uneventful. I've gotten used to the staring and have been able to primarily ignore it. At least in this area there aren't tons of people trying to sell you things!

    When we arrived we settled in and I took a room below the main living area. Sudarsan rents out the spare rooms to university students and guests like myself. The students were very curious, continually peeking through the door that I didn't close fully but didn't intrude. I suspect that at some point I'll talk to them and maybe make some friends. Beda and Sudarsan disappeared somewhere and I took the opportunity to have my first hot shower in a month! It was very nice :) but not as nice as I had expected it to be, the bucket showers really aren't that bad as long as it isn't cold. The hot water was very nice though..

    The walk to Sudarsan's house from the bus park took about 30 minutes and was uneventful. He lives outside of the city centre in a much quieter, residential area. I already prefer it to the hustle that I remember from Thamel.

    Eventually we had dinner, prepared by Sudarsan's wife Sarita. After dinner Beda, Sudarsan, and I retreated to my room and we played some cards and drank some beers. Sudarsan also owns a shop that sells primarily liquor so we had lots of options to choose from!
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  • Last Day in Sirubari, Lamjung

    13 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 19 °C

    Today was my last full day here in Sirubari :(

    I started the day by having my last bucket shower and scocializng before school started. At school I showed Ganesh a few final things to do with the laptop, made sure that everything was working okay and also printed out visa application forms for him and Beda/Bobita to visit Canada. All they have to do is fill them out and submit! We'll see if anything comes out of it or not, hopefully :) I figured it's the least I could to, to navigate the confusing website and find the proper information for them. We had a final lunch and afterwards I taught one last English class and one last computer class. I think that everything should be good to go! I also left my spare headphones behind to be used with the laptop. For video calling, watching movies, whatever is needed. Offers a bit more privacy should anyone choose to make calls over wifi there.

    Instead of last period there was a small goodbye arranged for me! It was very emotional for me, I was quite honoured and very sad to leave. It was just the teachers and students present, nothing big and grand like when the Japanese group was here and for that I was thankful. It was much more personal and I had a chance to actually say my thanks and goodbyes to all the teachers and students at my leisure.

    They had me sit on a chair outside the office and started off with a little speech that was very touching. Mahadev did most of the talking and said some kind things about how I have a generous spirit, how they're very thankful that I took the time to teach them the technology that might help bring them out of the "stone age" as he called it. They really wanted to thank me for my kindness and I gather that there have been volunteers in the past that were there more for an experience than to truly help. I'm just glad that they did benefit from me being there! Even though I feel like I only scratched the surface of what I could have taught them about technology in particular. But, I suppose I've had years and years of practice, there's no way that I could impart all that knowledge in such a short time. What they really need is someone to stay longer and be able to dedicate more time. I wish it could be me, but I sadly need to move on. I told them that I'm available to help remotely though should they need it! And I hope that they take that offer seriously because I meant it as a genuine offer. Genuinely enough that I set up a shared folder on Google Drive that I can access to help with anything that might need doing.

    After Mahadev's little speech each student, starting with the lower classes, came to me and gave me a small gift of flowers and gave me tikka. The first student was my little friend, Prabes, and he started the trend of putting tikka on my cheeks as well as forehead. He's a cute little trouble maker ;) As each student came to say goodbye and give me tikka, their gifts grew more extravagant the older they got. There were necklaces made of flowers, origami flowers, a handmade Nepali flag, and even a prayer scarf. After the students had said their goodbyes the teachers came by one by one to give me tikka and each said a few kind words. One line that stood out was that this was only a temporary goodbye because my friend was sure they would see me again again in Nepal. I was offered many times a place to stay when I return and told that I should bring my boyfriend/husband or parents next time!

    During the goodbye I gave my phone to one of the students to take pictures, so I have lots to remember. Going through them now makes me smile and I definitely will not be forgetting any of these wonderful people. Beda was the last to give me tikka and he also gave me a lovely scarf as a good luck blessing. I wish that I could take all of these flowers and gifts with me but I know they won't last. And have I ever mentioned how great they all smell?? Amazing! I did take the flag that Susana made and one of the origami flowers as well. I also have a volunteer certificate to bring home as a memory.

    After all the teachers and students finished giving me tikka, my face was covered and I had so many flowers around my neck! I had the chance to say goodbye but I was at a loss for words. I almost choked up.. But I said something about how much their kindness meant to me and that they will always be in my memories.

    After leaving the school I was invited to visit Ganesh's house. He came back to "my" house briefly and we had tea with grandma, Bobita, and Beda. I then walked with him to his house where we talked for a while and I watched while he did some of the chores that I've become familiar with in this lifestyle - milking the Buffalo, watering the plants, etc. He has some very flattering perspectives on respect, quality of life, and value of women/mothers in society! Definitely reflecting the Nepali culture that I've been learning about and love. At some point he cut up a papaya fresh from the tree for us to eat and warmed up some of the fresh milk as well. His father was also there, sorting through coffee pods getting them ready to take to the mill! His father had a number of questions for me so Ganesh translated so we could talk. Some of the usual questions about cultural differences, and some more in depth questions about what I plan to do when I return to Canada. I left when it started to get dark so that I wouldn't worry Beda and Bobita and he called them shortly after I arrived home to make sure I made it safely. As I was leaving he gave me a lovely scarf as a goodbye gift. And in my favourite colour! He also gave me some vegetables to bring to Bobita.

    When I returned to the house Bobita was waiting for me and had a very touching gift waiting for me; traditional Nepali clothing! I suspected that's what the measurements were for the other day but I didn't want to assume. The clothing is beautiful and I will definitely treasure them. And they're incredibly comfortable. I will definitely be wearing them in the future! The pants in particular are the best pants I've owned, they remind me of the pair that I bought in Bratislava a few years ago and regret losing. The neighbour lady who made the clothes made them so that they would still fit if, when I return home, I get "fat" I've come to understand that the term fat is not offensive here but somewhat flattering. Something to remember for anyone who is planning on visiting Nepal in the future ;)

    For dinner we had a special, sweet red rice. The name sounds like Onitay, but I'm sure it's spelled differently, I'll have to Google it when I have an internet connection again. My data package expired today so I'm out of luck for a while. Not a problem for me!

    I tried packing after dinner but it was too difficult to leave out what I needed for the next day and I gave up so that I could spend my remaining time visiting instead. Apparently Grandma is very sad to see my go and has told them that she wants me to stay a long time! Bobita and Beda were making cheese and butter for Beda to bring to Kathmandu with us tomorrow. I guess they each have sisters who live in the city and as they don't have buffalo's in the city so can't get quality butter and cheese. I tried some of the cheese while it was still warm and it tastes... I don't even know how to describe it. It's crumbly kind of like blue cheese but the flavour is more similar to goat cheese but less tangy. At some point we went to watch TV for a bit then off to bed at a decent hour considering last night was a late one ;)
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    12 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 19 °C

    This morning before school I attempted to use my remaining data before it expired by downloading some forms and information onto the school laptop. I was unsuccessful in using it all though.. I only used about 4.2/5gb in a month with no wifi and 1.5 of that was yesterday downloading programs haha. At about 11am I got a text saying that my package has expired! Too bad. Though strangely my phone is still working... I've gotten another text saying that I've used RS15 in data. What I want to know is how they'll ever get that from me?! I didn't give any information when I purchased the SIM card, just paid cash.. In any case I've decided that I'm not going to use the data, be an honest person :p Besides there's wifi at the school if I really need it. I just don't want to use their connection as it's very limited and they pay for a set amount of data per month. Not to mention that my phone hasn't connected to wifi in a month and I have 30+ apps requiring updating and Google Play Music as well that I'll have to figure out how to pause. Oh and dropbox photo uploads.... So maybe I'll connect only long enough to send mom her requested daily text letting her know I'm still alive :p

    Anyway, at school I spent the morning finishing all the work I needed to do on the laptop, the office desktop, and the computer lab computers. Ganesh wasn't in today so tomorrow I'll have to go over everything I've done with him, wrapping things up :(

    After lunch I was busy teaching, English verb tenses, then two computer classes. It was exhausting but good! I can't believe tomorrow is my last day already. Apparently they're going to have a good bye event for me as well, but I'm hoping that it's not too extravagant and we can just say goodbye quietly ;)

    After school I went with Bed to the big tree again and read my book while he cut more food for the goats. He's insane! Climbing so high up it was worrying and dizzying. . So high that he had to use his cutting tool as a pick axe to get up to some of the higher branches... After he finished cutting the branches we gathered up the leaves and took them home.

    Next was dinner, we had chicken! I love the spices they use on the chicken here it's so good I need the recipe. There's so much stock that comes out of it too that it makes great sauce for the rice. Because we had meat it means we didn't have milk with rice afterwards. Interesting all the things that I'm learning!

    Then the neighbour, Ram, came over and he, Bed and I went to his place to play cards. A good bye party of sorts I gather. We played for a very long time and ate a ton of food! At one point there was the discussion of going to bed or making noodles lmao. The evening reminded me so much of being down at the lake / with the German cousins it was hilarious. Just watching them laughing and being able to follow along a bit was great. The noodles are very similar to the instant noodles that we eat at home! Almost identical to the spicy kimchee flavour, except spicier because of course they add additional Chiles to the soup. So glad I brought a 3 month supply of prescription heartburn meds with me :p I've been going through them much faster than I thought I would be. Might be asking mom to go to the pharmacy at home to bring me more when we meet in Sydney!
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  • Free Day, Sirubari, Lamjung

    11 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 19 °C

    Saturday today! I woke up after a fantastic sleep and caught up on some writing until breakfast. I then went to the cistern and washed some clothes, I think I'm getting the hang of it. All I can say is good thing I only brought black socks because there is so much dirt here it just gets everywhere, seeps in to clothing even through shoes. After washing clothes I spent the entire day working on the school's new laptop. The main reason it took so long is the poor singal at the house, so when the laptop was charged up and I couldn't do anymore without downloading some programs I wandered over to the school where the signal is stronger. I figured out how to change some programs into English and Nepali, made an instructions page, set the school up with an email address, configured bookmarks and shortcuts and the start screen, and just did the grunt work that comes with owning a new computer. I'm feeling better about leaving so soon now that this is done. I just need to go over a few things with the teachers about the computer and it's all on them :) And a few things left to do on the school computers and finished!

    I wandered back from the school occasionally to charge the computer - I don't have access to the rooms just sitting outside - and during those times I ate, socialized, and had measurements taken! Bobita had a neighbour come over and measure me for what I'm assuming are some traditional Nepali clothing. So honoured and excited! We'll see haha. Fingers crossed :) I made my final trip home after watching the sun set and finishing the final download. Installed the programs at home, ate, and watched TV with Bobita and Grandma before heading to bed. Sounds like Bed is staying in Bhotewodar tonight. I guess a few teachers do that?

    Anyway, I have tomorrow and the following day remaining at school :( I'll have to say my goodbyes and leave for Kathmandu the next day... Time is running short!
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  • Japanese Group Leaves, Sirubari, Lamjung

    10 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 21 °C

    This morning came wayyy too quick. Bed's alarm went off at 4am and I was out of bed by 4:30 am and we left at 5:00 am. I was trusted to lead the group on the walk down, and didn't carry anything, telling the group that if they needed help with their stuff to let me know and I'd help them. Turns out the offer wasn't needed! So it was easy for me ;) Thankfully because I feel like crap today. Definitely the worst of the cold that's going around hit me today.. Oh well, I've survived worse ;) The walk down was all together uneventful. We made it to Bhotewodar very quickly, only stopping once on the way down. The walk seems shorter in the dark somehow and I'm very happy I made all the correct turns haha.

    Because we made it to the village much more quickly than anticipated we had time to kill and had tea and samosas while we waited for the groups bus to arrive. It was kind of neat to watch the town wake up, all the lights starting to go on and people starting their days. While we were waiting, the English teacher passed by the shop we were in on his way to school. He stopped and had a tea with us before continuing to Sirubari. I couldn't stop yawning the entire time we were waiting, thankfully the tea and samosas helped keep me awake! And warm, it was very cold when we stopped moving.

    Bed and I said our goodbyes to the group and made our way back up to the village. It didn't take us very long, only about an hour and 15 minutes including a break partway. That's the same amount of time it took us to get down as a group! Must be getting into shape or something. By the time we got back home I was feeling much better, especially after a cold shower and some food. Refreshing. We even made it to school early! Apparently the reason our English teacher, Mahadev, was going up so early is because District exams are next week and the older students are spending extra time at school studying.

    At school I spent the day getting the laptop set up, changing some basic settings, installing new programs and showing Ganesh some of the differences with Windows 8. I also showed a few of the teachers how to do video calling over Messenger. Previously they didn't have anything with a camera and microphone to do so! Because today was a half day I didn't finish everything and brought the laptop home with me so I can try to finish tomorrow. It's just slow going because of the dinosaur internet connections. I was called gentle today as well haha. In comparison to the Japanese group who are funny and energetic. I suppose gentle is a good term ;)

    After school there was a celebration going on at another teacher's house that all the teachers went to. The celebration was in honour of this teacher's mother who had turned 84. Apparently that's a big accomplishment to celebrate! First Bobita and I stopped by the house to drop off bags and feed the animals. When we arrived we were given sel roti (the donut like bread) and cussar (the small sweet balls) in banana leaf bowls, topped off with curry. We used the roti to eat the curry and I gave my cussar to Bobita, I have to admit it's not my favourite, only because it's hard and my teeth are still bothering me from the work I had done in December.. Not good! But nothing I can do about it now. The set up of the celebration was the same as the previous ones I've been too with the four poles, a hanging cloth, and numerous offerings in leaf bowls. There was a preist who was talking, this time something about how their holy book needed to be changed to adapt to modern times because it previously referred to things flying in the sky as God's, which is not the case when it comes to airplanes. I thought that was interesting! Partway through the Preist talking one of the students came and got me telling me to eat. She brought me to the other side of the house where I ate Soo much food! I couldn't communicate that I was full to the man serving me, but that's okay it was delicious. There was (hot) rice pudding with fresh coconut mixed in yummy. As well as a curry and a pickled side that they make. I accidentally ate a full chile... That was hot. But thankfully I had lots of water! I went back to my spot to continue listening as best I could. At some point a group of ladies showed up and were chattering amongst themselves about me trying to encourage their children to say hello to me and asking the questions I've come to expect about my age, marital status, country, etc. Bed's neighbour was sitting next to me and told me they were calling me a very pretty lady. When the preist concluded his talking everyone who had been listening raised their hands a number of times and shouted yay. I've seen that before so I imagine that it must be a typical way of ending the talking and starting the mingling. As soon as the talking was finished the group of ladies that was talking to me swarmed me and started taking pictures. It was very overwhelming.. One woman was the same one who took a photo of me at the last celebration! She showed me the photo haha. Anyway, thankfully Bed rescued me from that. He wanted me to take a photo of him, Mahadev, and Ganesh presenting the 84 year old woman with a gift, a lovely scarf. Some of the photos turned out pretty nicely :) After taking the photo the men went off to eat. There was more confusion as someone tried to hand me a plate of food and I couldn't explain that I'd already eaten... Thankfully Bobita overheard the commotion and helped me out. We left shortly after because the animals needed taking care of. I was sad to go, I've started to really enjoy myself despite the language barrier! Which I might add is becoming less of an issue. Too bad I'm not staying long enough to truly be able to understand everything..

    Back at home I spent some time relaxing, writing, and enjoying some quiet. We didn't eat dinner tonight because we ate at the party so late and instead just watched some Tv. The same show we've been watching most nights about the Hindu religion. It's funny and probably quite educational if I could understand more, but the acting is story enough! I'm sure that I'll sleep quite well tonight.
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    9 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 19 °C

    This morning I "slept in" until 7:30 am and spent the morning before school talking and helping cut vegetables for breakfast. After breakfast, Bed and I again left the group to make it to school on time.

    At school I spent most of the morning transferring my photos to the school computer for the staff to have access to when I'm gone. There were a lot of people at the school in the morning coming in and out. I was given a welcome flower from my friend's father and a few people came to look at the photos I was transferring as well. I also spent some time discussing Sudarsan's business with him and his ideas for a website. While in Kathmandu I plan on helping him to start building the site and getting some photos and logos edited. I think that I'll give him a few of my photos to use on his site. Why not? That's an expression they say here a lot that I love "why not" and "what can we do". They're so laid back it's great. While in the office Sudarsan messenger called Conrad, a previous volunteer here who is also from BC and currently studying at the University of Washington. We've been talking a bit on Facebook as well and I'm hoping that when I return we'll be able to meet in person! Bed also came by for the messenger call and was very excited to be talking to Conrad. Making connections world wide.

    At some point I was called upstairs to the Farewell/Thank You Ceremony for the Japanese Group. That explained all the people in the office! A huge portion of the community showed up and we were all crammed into the room. Hanging on the back wall was a banner that the Japanese group made with the students, a tree with handprints of each student as the leaves. It looks quite nice! The ceremony started with introductions, each person stood and said their name and where they lived, including myself. There was a lot of talking next from a few different people in the community. I'm imagining words of thanks and gratitude. Because the Japanese group leader, Shranay, speaks Nepali everything was translated directly into Japanese so I understood nothing. Except that I heard my name mentioned a few times and I was pointed to, but no comprehension at the time. Later I asked Shranay what was said and he explained that they weren't saying thanks/good bye to me as well because I'm staying a bit longer, makes sense! After the talking was finished the group presented a number of gifts that they brought with them to the students and community. The gifts included a laptop, soccer ball, volleyball, books, pencils, paints, etc. Very generous. There was lots of clapping and appreciation from everyone :) And lots and lots of photos being taken! I was designated as the photo taker and had three cameras going at once. I wanted someone to help me but I guess others aren't comfortable using a camera, I've been receiving a lot of compliments on my photos from people here.

    Afterward the farewell ceremony we had a late lunch, finishing the chicken from yesterday. So many people! The Japanese group ate in the main kitchen area, the community members in the classrooms next door, and the teachers outside by the fire pit. The same area that we tend to meet at mid day when there's a lull in classes. I chatted with the teachers a bit, this time about food. Apparently I should give mutton another chance... It's the only meat that a lot of people here eat! Most people eat chicken too, but mutton is universal. I don't know.. If the opportunity comes up I'll try it otherwise I won't be upset if it doesn't work out :p

    After lunch we had a short time before school was over so Shranay, one of the other Japanese students, and myself tried to change the language of Microsoft Office on the laptop from Japanese to English. Turns out that it's something that needs to be paid for, a language pack. We ran out of time to get it done though so I'll have to figure it out on my own some other time. The Nepali language pack is free though so maybe I'll do that instead, it's probably more useful for them at the school anyway!

    The group stayed behind longer at the school so I went back with the locals and we had tea and chatted a bunch until the group returned, then went to wash, then returned again. Tonight's dinner was very popular with the group! Bobita made a special rice with butter today and spinach again. Many people in the group came asking for seconds where usually they don't. I ate inside with the family and we all had rice with milk and bananas. I notice that only the locals have that privilege, not enough to go around I guess. Again, feeling the love as I'm included in these activities!

    After dinner I helped with the dishes again before the boys and I snuck off next door to share some wine with the neighbour. We had a snack of chicken and talked for a while. It was kind of funny, the secrecy that went along with the whole process haha. I guess because the Japanese group doesn't drink? After socializing for a bit we returned to our room to play some more cards. Our games were cut a bit short by assisting the group in packing their things. Tomorrow they leave at 5am from the house to walk to Bhotewodar. Some of them aren't able to carry their bags so Bed has arranged for porters to come by and carry the bags down for them. After hearing that I volunteered to go down to town with the group and help carry things should anyone need the assistance..
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    8 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 20 °C

    This morning was an early morning! The group, Yogendra and I left at 5:30 ish to hike to the top of the mountain to watch the sunrise! Or tried to anyway, we didn't make it in time because as a group we were slow but it was beautiful nonetheless. I may try to go on my own one time before I leave, but at the same time maybe not haha. Yogendra trusted me to lead the way and let me tell you in the dark everything looks so different! We missed one turn but it only turned into a short detour, actually I think it was faster at the end of the day really. When we finally reached the top the views were breathtaking. It was clear and you could see everything! Bhotewodar was down in the distance, the school was closer down, the Himalayas were poking through the clouds and turning pink from the rising sun. What a peaceful place! Because the top of the mountain also hosts a cell tower I had an excellent signal. I called both mom and dad and spoke to them briefly while the rest of the group took pictures and posed with a baseball bat that one of them brought. I should really ask about that... On our way down we stopped for tea at a shop by the senior school (where one of the festivals was at) before making our way back to the house. Yogendra and I went back more quickly as time was running short and I had things I needed to prepare before school started.

    We ate breakfast as a group again and afterwards Bed and I snuck off to make it to school on time. The group arrived later, about 45 minutes after classes started. All the students were called to stand in a line, similar to how they do first thing in the morning when they do a few discipline exercises, sing the national anthem, and answer a few questions. I guess I haven't actually written about that yet! First thing in the morning the students are called to the play field and stand in lines based on what class they're in. Then one of the teachers, usually Ganesh, runs them through some poses. When I first arrived the commands were all in Nepali but, for my benefit I think, they switched to English at some point. The poses range from standing at attention and at ease, moving their arms to the sides and clapping above their heads. To teach discipline and respect I believe. Some mornings too the students uniforms and fingernails are inspected to make sure that they're clean and respectable. They then sing their national anthem, which I believe that I almost have memorized, and one student from each row comes to the front to ask a question of their fellow students and await a response. The questions are different each day, I should find out more about them. The role of the teachers here is so important to these students. I was talking to my teacher friend about it and it makes my heart melt about the compassion and caring that these people have for their students. I'm sure teachers at home do too! But there is a need here to educate the children of parents that may not be educated themselves. Apparently a lot of children don't receive much attention from their parents at home because of the busy lifestyle here. So it's the school's job to teach the children about things like basic hygiene - changing socks everyday, brushing teeth, washing, etc - among other things. They're fighting very hard to break a cycle here in Nepal and I have a lot of respect for it. They want to see the children educated so that the country can be brought to a better place as a whole...

    Anyway, back to the arrival of the group at school. The students were called to stand in a line at the side of the school and each Japanese volunteer introduced themselves. Afterwards the group split up and took the older kids up the the cistern to teach them about hygiene. I stayed down at the school with the younger kids and participated with the activities the group had planned for them. There was lots of singing and dancing! At first the children weren't really into it but by the end of it they sure were. My favourite part was when they tried to get everyone signing "if you're happy and you know it" haha reminded me so much of my childhood! I loaned them my speaker to play the music and of course sang along. Some teachers watched and others participated. I did a bit of both taking some pictures as well.

    At some point I was called down to the office because the computer keyboard wasn't working. So we searched and found the keys for the computer lab finally! And were able to get a new keyboard plugged in. I made my way back to the computer lab to try and finish setting everything up. During that time a class came in and I got them playing on the 5 computers that turn on at once, we need another powerbar for the 6th one. Boy is it crazy when they all come in at once screaming asking questions, constantly saying ma'am ma'am here here help me! But eventually they settled down and managed to play nicely. No typing lessons today! But, even playing games I see their improvement in using the computers. I've been showing them a bit of what I do when I'm trying to get them working, how the keyboards plug in, proper ways to make short cuts, copy files, etc and they're starting to be more self sufficient which is great. There was this game that they all used to fight over too, a dirt biking game, that was only on one computer and now it's on all of them. Less fighting thankfully... Anyway, at some point the Japanese group came in to observe and talk with the children. That helped with the chaos! Becuase 5 computes and 15 children is difficult to manage. The Japanese and the students played and at some point they all started dancing together.

    When lunch time rolled around I forced the children to abandon the room and we went to eat. We had a very special lunch of chicken instead of lentils! An honour for the group, I wonder if they know that it was a special lunch? In any case it was delicious. It was also really funny watching each person in the group try a Chile, they all had the same reaction, utter horror and needed water immediately. They're funny! A good group of people for sure, they have good hearts :)

    After lunch the group went up to the upper room and engaged some of the children in a writing exercise. Before they left Japan, they had local Japanese children write messages to the children here. So the students were responding! It looked like they were having a ton of fun :) I stood outside with some of the other teachers and we were talking. I feel very included these days and I love it here. We were talking mostly about visiting Canada and how things work there. I didn't know that the nearest Canadian visa office is actually in Delhi, India. So it's a big deal to get out there and get a visa.. Which sucks because I was really hoping that I could help my friend a bit more in terms of coming to Canada, with the paperwork etc online but we'll see.

    At some point I was called away to help the next class with the computers. This class was actually less interested in the computers and really wanted me to get the DVD player working. I don't think we have the proper cables though.

    After school we had tea at home and the group went back to the cistern to wash up again. Sudarsan and I went to watch the sun go down again and caught the tail end of it. On our way back he picked up some dried Bamboo pieces and brought them back home. At home we turned them into a these little pinwheel fans called Firfire in Nepali and Taketonbo in Japanese. There's a picture included, but it's two strips of Bamboo crossed over one another put onto a small stick. The small stick then goes into a small tube and children run with the toy making the blades spin. Simple yet effective entertainment!

    We then had dinner and I helped Satya with the dishes. And so many dishes! It's incredible haha. But as a team we managed quite quickly. I've become pretty good at it as I've made it my job to help with that at the very least ;) After dinner the "boys" and I played cards again in our room. I really like this rummy game, I'll be sure to teach you guys at home how to play! I really feel like part of the family here. I was worried at first that I'd feel a bit left out because there would be a Japanese group and a Nepali group but I've been adopted by the Nepali's and I love it. Warm and fuzzy feelings ;)
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  • Japanese Group Arrives, Sirubari, Lamjun

    7 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 22 °C

    What a jam packed day.

    I woke up fairly early and started packing my stuff up, preparing to move rooms. When the Japanese group arrives I'll be sleeping in the master room, with who will be a mystery until bed time. I'm learning to just trust that everything will work itself out in the end, a good mentality to have I think!

    Bed and I went to school breifly before walking down to Bhotewodar to meet up with the group. While we waited for the bus to arrive Bed did some shopping, bought some food for the Buffalos, we looked at some scarves in a fabric shop. I still don't really know how transactions work here. There seems to be a lot of chatting before making a purchase.. The fabric shop was pretty interesting though! There were bolts of fabrics lining the walls and mostly women would come in and feel the different ones and barter about prices (I assume). There were also gorgeous scarves that I would love to own. But of course I didn't think to bring much cash because I thought we'd be quick. I forgot about how unreliable the timing of buses is here in Nepal :p

    When the group finally arrived there was much excitement in the town. They arrived about the same time that the nearby school was finished and there were children crowding around staring, for once not at me! Well, not as much. The group was very receptive to it and are super friendly with everyone. Their leader speaks Japanese, Nepali, and English! And English very well, it will be nice to spend some time talking with him. Especially since he's going to school for the same thing I did.

    Instead of walking back to Sirubari we hired a Jeep. The group has lots of luggage! The ride was intense. The roads are bad enough to walk and the Jeep had a very hard time in some areas even with 4x4.. It was very sketchy. One mistake and game over. The drops are so sheer in some areas that the jeep could fall a very long way. The driver has a helper who gets out occasionally to direct tell him how far he has to the edge of the cliff.. I am not eager to do that ride ever again.. Not to mention how dusty it was! Luckily I had a scarf that I used to cover my mouth and nose with to keep the worst of it out. But I guess overall it was a good experience to have! In the cab of the jeep we squished 7 people and sitting in the bed, on top of the luggage, were 9 people. I sat inside next to Satya but could hear those in the back laughing and screaming! A new experience for them. For me, I think I prefer the walk ;)

    The group is made of 9 Japanese students and 3 Nepali's including Satya! Which means that there will be 16 people sleeping here tonight. It'll be crowded, glad I have the privilege of sleeping in the bigger room! Turns out I'll be sharing the room with Bed and Sudarsan, the Volunteer Coordinator who arranged my placement here. Yogendra, the other Nepali guide will sleep outside the room while Satya, Bobita, and Grandma will share the TV room. The 9 Japanese will share the two rooms that previously Satya and I each had to ourselves. Not a bad deal for me at least!

    When we finally made it to the house the Japanese group went to the cistern to wash their hair and faces. Satya and I went with them and she showed them how to do things properly. No soap anywhere near the water storage and nothing goes in that might be soapy. I left before they finished and went back to the house, I had the intention of writing a bit but instead went to see the sunset! Sudarsan showed me a secret spot, one that I think I'll be back to. It's up past the cistern a bit and has a clear view of the valley below. Very pretty and peaceful! We sat for a bit and chatted before heading down to the school where we could hear the Japanese group talking. I showed them around a bit, they're very excited to see the school tomorrow!

    With so many people we ate dinner outside and I think they were a bit surprised at first to see me eating with my hands, but I'm proud of my accomplishments ;)

    Immediately after dinner Bed, Sudarsan, Yogendra and myself went up to our bedroom to play cards and share some wine. It was a very nice feeling to be included with that! I guess I fit in decently or something ;) Both Sudarsan and Yogendra are funny guys and speak English quite well. It was a treat to be teased and to be able to understand the jokes being said. I think it'll be a great few days!

    Oh, and at some point we finalized my plans for my remaining time in Nepal. I'm going to skip Chitwan and stay in Sirubari until the 14th. Then I'll go to Kathmandu and stay at Sudarsan's house until I leave for Singapore. While in Kathmandu I'll help him with some photo and logo editing and try to help him start building a website for his Eco tourism company. Something that I'm very interested in! I would love to get a group together from home to come to Nepal one day. It would be similar to what the Japanese group is doing, seeing the major sites over just less than 2 weeks (or longer if possible). I'd get to see the places I missed and reconnect with my new family! I will have to look into making that possible. I'm not sad at all that I'm missing seeing Pokhara and Chitwan because there is so much to do here at the school before I leave. More now because the Japanese group brought a laptop with them and I want to help my teacher friend learn the great operating system that is Windows 8.. Too bad it couldn't have been Windows 10, but I know that they are incredibly excited to have the laptop at the school!! It'll be a great learning tool for the students if I can share some of my knowledge with Ganesh before I leave. Internet searching, video calling, Microsoft Office, that kind of thing. He's smart so I know that he'll make the best use of it :)
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    6 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 20 °C

    I'm starting to be able to tell time by when I get hungry! Meals are much more consistent here than at home, intriguing to me how my body has come to expect food at certain times. At home I rarely ever eat at the same time each day..

    Anyway, I started the day out by "showering" as tomorrow a group of Japanese will be arriving and I won't have any privacy I imagine. 12 people are coming to stay here! I don't even know where they will sleep, or where I will sleep. Maybe I'll volunteer to sleep outside so I'm not crowded in a small space with a group of strangers...

    School today was fun and busy. I spent the morning helping my friend with some internet stuffs and just chatting. I also had a good conversation with the English teacher about home and how we do things there. That's why the thought about the regular meals, because while talking to him is when I had that realization that I don't eat consistently at home. I'll have to rectify that on my return! Strangley enough discussing what kind of foods we eat didn't give me any cravings. Even writing about it now I can't think of anything I'd rather have than dal baht. I really need to find a Nepalese Cookbook before I leave because I can't remember all the variations that Bobita makes here!

    I also spent some time explaining how someone might come to visit Canada, how the visa process works etc. There were a few people very interested in that information. I think it would be great to have visitors in Canada! Very expensive for them though as our dollar is worth much more than the NPR. Maybe one day. If all else fails I will have to come back because I definitely love this group of people!

    I did a lot of teaching of English today too. For class 5, 6, and 7. (No computers today because the keys have been misplaced...) The levels of comprehension vary so much in each class it's quite difficult to make sure everyone understands. I understand my previous teacher's perspectives now... I think I definitely prefer one on one instruction, or when everyone is interested in the subject. There's a lot of copying of answers that goes on and a lot of the time the students don't want to think about the answers they just want me to give them the answers. Some students are so bright and eager to learn though it makes a big difference! Wish I could help more.

    After school I went with Bed to a tree somewhere in a field so he could cut branches for the goats to eat. I sat and enjoyed the view and the peace and quiet of the mountains while he did his work. It's amazing how much sound echoes and travels though! I could almost hear a conversation from across the valley clearly. It reminds me of how sound travels across the lake... Gotta remember that for future phone calls home. Also watching him climb the tree and cut those branches was impressive! I don't think that I'd even make it to the first branch lol. But maybe I should try, it's been many many years since I've climbed a tree ;) Again, I kind of wish I could stay longer and really learn to live this lifestyle instead of mostly observing. There are some things that I help with but there is still so much I don't know!

    After dinner we watched some tv and I managed to copy some videos from my phone to a flash drive that we connected to the tv. So nice to hear english being spoken! We didn't finish the movie though because it was late, maybe tomorrow. I gave the Maple syrup that I brought from home to Bed and Bobita and they were very excited about it. I hadn't thought of it, but the bottle is really pretty too! They were excited about that as much as the syrup itself. I explained how we use it and maybe I'll try making pancakes before I go.

    On the note of leaving, I cancelled my 3 day trip to Pokhara because I don't want to miss any time here. Plus it will be interesting to see the Japanese group and what role they'll be playing here. The group is only staying for three nights and then they head to Chitwan. I might go with them for a few days and then head back to Kathmandu before continuing my journey. Really, everything is up in the air and I'm just going with the flow. It's such a nice change from the rigid, structure of home! I really love just seeing where things take me and not having a plan :) I've had some feedback from people telling me I should see as much as I can while I'm here, but that's not what the purpose of my travels are. I'm here to experience the culture, learn about the people and myself, not to see a different city every few days. I'm making connections and building relationships, and to me that's more important that checking off must see's from a list. Plus, the next phase of my trip will have enough moving around I'm happy to stay put for now!
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    5 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 19 °C

    School again today! And before school, the neighbour boy came over looking for help with his English homework so we worked on that before breakfast. When I got to school I managed to talk to Kris, Grandpa, and Barb for a bit! I then spent the rest of the day working on the computers. It's so frustrating with these random power outages. In the middle of installing Microsoft Office the power went out and corrupted the installation... Now the programs won't open, I can't repair the installation, or uninstall the programs.. At a loss of what to do! And, all the other computers are working mostly fine now but there aren't enough working keyboards and mice to use them all! Or enough power outlets for that matter. In the afternoon Class 8 came into the computer room and oh boy was it a zoo! They were all so eager to use the computers that I had a hard time keeping track of everyone yelling my name asking for help etc. They were all very excited though, so that was good. At the very end of the day the number of people dwindled to 4, the number of working mice and keyboards and I was able to actually teach a few things about computer use instead of having almost 15 kids asking questions at once with only 4 computers working.

    I was so exhausted after school that I was fighting sleep before dinner. I read a bit and could barely keep my eyes open. Hope I'm not going to get the cold that's going around as bad as the other's have it! Called it an early night and hoping to sleep well.
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  • Free Day, Sirubari, Lamjung

    4 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 18 °C

    Day off today! Spent it by doing not a whole heck of a lot. I impressed myself with how easily I can still read French when I was reading medicine pamphlets. Grandma has a bad cough :(

    After breakfast, Beda showed me the fields that they own and work. They're maybe a 5 or 10 minute walk from the house and to me it looks like a lot of land! But he was saying that it's not very much. On the way there we saw a bunch of monkeys!! Finally I was able to really observe them as Beda was cutting food for the animals. They're kind of eerie, monkeys are. Clearly somewhat intelligent, they just look devious to me. They're pretty fun to watch though, swinging from various tree to tree, and sometimes landing on a branch that can't support their weight. Anyway, right now the fields aren't growing too much because it's the dry and cold season but you can see where rice has grown before and where it will again. The fields are staggered down the mountain side in various patches and each area has a lip or curb maybe 4-6" high. I assume that's to keep the water in, apparently during monsoon season the fields fill with water, which makes sense as I've also thought that's how rice is grown.. It's a lot of work though to grow and maintain the crops! I hear that a lot of young people don't want to do it anymore and are moving away, to the city etc. Too bad really.

    After spending some time in the fields we returned home and then I went off in search of a strong enough signal and some privacy to call home. The fields would have been the perfect place! But too far away, and I managed to escape without a twisted ankle once, wouldn't want to risk that again. How these people navigate the treacherous footing here without incident will never cease to amaze me. Anyway, I found a spot along the route to school that had a decent signal and a nice rock to sit on in the sun. I ended up getting a hold of Kevin, I'm glad he answered! At almost 10pm on a Friday night for him. As corny as it sounds my brother really is one of my best friends :p We had a good chat and I could hear some familiar voices in the background too! Was nice to hear, I look forward to seeing everyone when I'm home again but am also very very content where I am right now.

    When I eventually wandered back to the house I spent the afternoon just lounging. Watched a movie that I had on my phone while cleaning up my room a bit, organizing things, repainting my nails, etc. I really do like my alone time apparently... But I also like to be social, selectively lol. This trip has shown me just how happy I am to be on my own, more than I ever suspected as at home I'm usually so busy I hardly have a moment to myself. That will have to be adjusted when I return! Nothing wrong with taking the time to eat by myself or read my book or just not talk to people at all. But as I said, I do also really enjoy talking to people when I can't handle reading a book any longer. Doesn't happen as often as I thought it would though ;)

    We had a late dinner and I went to bed very early. Feels like I've also caught the cold that's going around, hoping sleep will help fight it!
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    3 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 18 °C

    Today was a half day at school and I spent the day with the computers. There are two that are stumping me! One runs but the graphics are so ridiculously off that I'm sure there's a hardware issue somewhere. I think that the proper drivers etc are all there... The second computer just sometimes decides not to turn on. But, I'll keep fiddling with them and see if I can't get them to work. But I'm afraid that time is starting to run out! I had a good chat with my teacher friend as we tried to get the computers working together. He's a very intelligent person, self taught and passed his Master's exams as he was working at the school full time and running a household. True dedication. Makes me realize that I can probably do my next level of education and work at the same time if I really want to ;) And I think that I've decided I do! While I've been here I've been missing work go figure... I definitely enjoy what I do and have decided that I do want to go back to school in September. One day get my professional registration. I've also decided I want to get back into teaching/tutoring. Guess that was what I wanted to figure out while I was travelling, if more school is something I want to do. Check one. Also been re-examining my views on religion and spirituality but no update on that topic yet.

    After school we returned home and were invited to the neighbour's for lunch. They definitely fed us well! The neighbours are becoming quite familiar to me now. Thier daughter fell and cut her foot quite badly a while ago and I gave her the Polysporin I had. The man is the same one we played cards with once before and walked home from town with. Anyway, when we went over there he gave us tikka and gave me a small amount of money as well.. Apparently you do that for daughters or sisters. Guess I've been accepted! That acceptance makes me want to leave even less. Anyway, we ate and socialized for a while before heading back home.

    I decided to take a walk to the market that's about 15 minutes away. It took me almost 3 hours to get there and back! Along the way I was 'accosted' by 3 students and spent some time with them. Their parents were out working the fields, but I did see them briefly. Their mother is a teacher at the school and is always very friendly. The little boy is my BFF at the school as I've been describing him to some friends. He's just so adorable! The cutest 5 year old you've ever seen I swear. I have lots of pictures, he's not camera shy, but for obvious reasons I'm not going to post pictures of other people's children on the internet.. You'll have to ask me to send them haha. Although I just learned I can make semi-private posts on this website so maybe I'll do that.. So there are three children in this family, two older girls and the one young boy. They were very eager to have me visit their home and we're showing off their buffalo and goats and all the fruit trees they have at their home. They invited me to stay for dinner and seemed genuinely disappointed when I told them I couldn't. Maybe another time.. Their mother also told me that when/if I come back my future husband and I are more than welcome to eat and sleep at her house! I was very warmed by her invitation. Funny how it always comes back to finding a husband regardless of who I talk to. I had another teacher ask me if I planned on finding one when I returned to Canada. My response to him was "sure, but I'm not going to be looking very hard" that made him laugh and change the subject. Back to the visit, the children insisted that I eat a papaya with them! And proceeded to knock one out of a tree. Reminded me of Dad telling us stories about throwing rocks at mangoes to get them to fall when he was living in Brazil. It was a pretty good papaya too! Not really ripe yet but delicious. I really do enjoy all this fresh, local food. I think I've been inspired to try and start growing things at home.. Small things though because I have a hard time keeping plants alive ;)

    When I finally made it to the market they didn't have what I was looking for so instead I bought some small candies for the three kids I had just left and brought them to them on my way home. They were very appreciative!

    When I returned home I learned that we wouldn't be having an official dinner which I was quite okay with. Lunch was so big and so late that I wasn't really hungry anyway! So Bobita made us some small snacks and Beda and I played cards. We were joined by the neighbour at some point and the three of us played. I like the game that we were playing, though as the night wore on I stopped paying as close attention and started to lose :p The game is similar to Rummy I think? Each player is dealt 10 cards and the first person to make either sequences or similar numbers in groups of 4, 3, and 3 won the hand. The game is played using the jokers, and before play starts the deck is cut to reveal what another wild card is. The wild card is one number higher than the card displayed at the cut. At least one of the groups has to be a sequence, and sequences are important to build first. The game is played to 100 and If someone were to get their 3 groups before you built a sequence, you would earn all the points in your entire hand. If you have a sequence when someone goes out then you don't count those cards in your score, or any other pairs or sequences you might have. Kind of fun!

    The other thing that I've noticed in addition to a different sense of personal space, is that people here can be very curious. I've now been asked my weight at least 5 times by random people... Good thing that I'm not self concious! Because it's not seen as rude to ask these sorts of questions like it is at home. Part of it probably is because I'm so tall. I've been told by two people that I look slimmer now than when I first arrived and I've also been told that I look very athletic and am very strong. Apparently I look more muscular than most women here? I dunno, but I'm okay with it! In any case, I kind of enjoy how direct people are here as I get used to it. Maybe I'll start asking my own questions that I've been avoiding in case they're considered impolite ;)
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  • Besisahar, Lamjung

    2 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 19 °C

    Today I went with Beda to Besisahar, a nearby town for the afternoon. He had business to attend to and I wanted to see a bit of the area, see a bigger town. Besisahar is about an hour away by bus from Bhotewodar. We first went to school for a bit so Beda could collect some things and then we made our way down. All I can say about the bus ride is thank God I don't get car sick! The poor people sitting next to me were groaning and looked absolutely miserable. Just imagine a vehicle the size of a minivan with about 15 people piled in racing down a road no better than the East Harrison FSR. I'm not surprised that accidents are so common here. What an adventure. With everything that I love about Nepal, I do not love the roads and don't think I will ever get used to them. No thank you! But of course, because I have a driver's liscense at home, I've been asked why I don't rent a car. Ha. It's worse than Mexico. Narrow and winding roads, drivers honking around blind corners to alert other drivers to your presence, no guards on the steep cliff edges, broken down vehicles, random cattle/goats on the side of the road, etc etc. It's utter chaos. But, on the plus side I now feel confident that I will find the correct bus to Pokhara when I do go, and know how to pay and how much it will cost :P

    Once we arrived in Besisahar, our first stop was the school district office. I waited outside talking to someone about the differences between Canada and Nepal. Though really, the man - an English teacher - only wanted to talk about Trump. I swear, people know more about American politics half way around the world than most Americans do. And I learned a lot about how America is currently seen, from an outsiders perspective, to be the next Hitler or the next failing nation with Trump as President. Of course he wanted my opinion, which I don't really have. People here find it hard to believe that I would intentionally avoid forming an opinion about politics of a country that I'm not a citizen of. Or, maybe the truth is just that I don't want to share my opinion. As long as Canada doesn' t suffer I'm happy! And that's enough about that.

    We made a few more stops and ended at the post office. Beda had received a package from a volunteer in Canada! Though it was sent from Bellevue. Made me think of home! I'm very curious about what's in the package... And about who sent it, tempted to see if we could arrange a meeting when I'm home haha. Anywho, guess we'll see what's in it later! Maybe after dinner.

    Besisahar is definitely much larger than Bhotewodar, and has far more buildings, large stores, and I received less stares, guess foreigners are more common. I saw signs for trekking route nearby so there must be a few people that pass through from out of town. Overall, it was worth a visit! The drive there especially was fascinating once I just decided to ignore the bouncing and the sharp corners and looked at the view. The road follows a big river and was beautiful. We passes a pretty big dam too that produces a good amount of Nepal's electricity. The terrain is so rocky, so steep, and so wild. The Jungle just creeps in everywhere, I love it!

    When we got back to Bhotewodar we stopped for a bite to eat at the same place as yesterday. Again the chicken was very spicy but very delicious! We then made our way back up to Sirubari taking a route I haven't gone before. The views were even better along this way! Although the pathway was even less of a path and involved clamouring up some very narrow rock chutes. Could hardly be considered a trail really, except that clearly it's used by people fairly regularly. I am getting in better shape though, the walk is becoming easier! We stopped a few times to rest and chatted a bit, was a good walk home. I showed Beda pictures of my home and we compared culture and stories of our respective countries.

    For those who are wondering, my knee is actually feeling better than ever! For the most part... I've discovered how to walk so that it isn't irritated and how to avoid triggering the pain. My right knee, my trouble knee, only twinges occasionally now, when I'm walking down particularly steep stairs. My left knee has been bothering me more than the right actually. I think it's probably over compensating. But it's a dull burning pain, not a sharp stabbing pain that makes me feel like I'm going to collapse. In general, both knees feel more stable and less inclined to twist about like they had been at home! Muscles must be getting stronger. My hips on the other hand are absolutely killing me.. They ache so badly, but only when I'm sitting cross legged. At every other time they feel fine... I've been stretching and trying to get them feeling better but who knows if it's actually doing anything or not. Hopefully they start feeling better soon though because I need to be able to continue sitting cross legged! Actually, it's really only first thing in the morning or after standing long periods that they hurt, when they're stiff. After moving about during the day they seem to be fine. Just old and achy ;)

    Update: in the package were some useful items for the house! Some food containers, a backpack, some lanterns and batteries, small samples of alcohol from home. Gives me ideas of what I could send! Will have to think on what's going to be most useful.. Time to start a list ;)
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  • Worship Day, Sirubari, Lamjung

    1 februari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 36 °C

    Welp. Let me preface this post by saying that the Nepalese wine is starting to taste like water and I wish I hadn't left my headlamp at the house, walking back in the dark from town is no joke!

    So today was not technically a school day, it was a day of prayer at the school which some teachers showed up to and some didn't. Some students were there and some weren't. Because I'm not of their religion they had me take pictures of those who did show up, a very neat experience! The whole process was called Puja. They set up a poster of one of their Gods, and made offerings of water, flowers, a branch in excrement, fire, etc. Beda led the prayers and the students were all attentive. There was tikka involved as well, and everyone was excited! At one point the flame caught the poster on fire but a quick student put it out. Not before it caught a portion of the hill on fire though... The staff were largely unconcerned, and there was no panic by anyone while the situation was assessed. When it started spreading up towards the playing field a few students broke branches off a bush and wacked the flames out. I was very surprised by the lack of concern, but I guess this is a common thing in the dry season and usually the fires burn themselves out... Very impressed with the lack of panic too! Definitely pays to be calm ;)

    After worship we returned home to eat as we hadn't yet today. Then Beda and I walked into town together. Didn't really know why we were going when we went but it was something to do instead of sitting at home, so I kept him company. He showed me the bus stop where I'll catch the bus to Pokhara next week and explained that it will be very easy for me to find the bus. Apparently because I'm a tourist the drivers will be very vocal about their destination because they think they can over charge me. Which I was expecting, but I now know that the price should be about 250-300 NPR so I won't be scammed ;) We walked around the town for a bit and I saw so many things I want to bring home but don't have the space for :( the woven stools for example that everyone here has and the water "jugs" everyone uses. They just take up so much space but are so practical and useful! Maybe I'll check to see if I can get them at home.. Or just suck it up and pay the shipping fees.

    Anyway, in town we stopped by the English Teacher's home where he lives with his wife and children. I think that he stays in Sirubari during the week though because I see him most mornings coming from the village not from Bhotewodar. From the calendar on his wall it would appear that his children go to an English Boarding school? Anyway, he made us a pancake like pastry and tea before we went out. He and Beda had some business to discuss in town, sounds like they're trying to buy some land and build a house in town instead of living in the village but it's expensive and there are tight regulations about where you can build. While they discussed, I read my book and observed the people. It's definitely beautiful there! I wish that it could be captured on camera properly, the extensive fields, some cultivated some wild and overrun with flowers. A house here and there, cows and goats randomly grazing, the occasional person harvesting vegetables. All with the mountains in the background and the sound of the river overriding the traffic noise. It was very peaceful and serene, definitely not a bad place to spend an hour!

    On our way back to Sirubari we ran into one of Beda's friends from the village, the same one we played cards with the other day, and the three of us had a bite to eat. It was incredibly spicy chicken! Thank goodness I can handle spice because it was hot! Delicious, but hot. I think I surprised the locals there by being able to handle it because they all watched my first bite haha. While we were eating, the girl working there brought glasses of what I thought was water. Thankfully I didn't take a big sip right away like I wanted to! Becuase it was wine. That was a surprise haha. I feel like I'm adapting pretty well to the local culture here, but there is still one thing I struggle with: when chicken is served, it's diced without being deboned first, and you're expected to eat everything aside form the bone, including the cartilage etc. I just can't figure it out, nor want to risk my stomach rebelling. So I leave far more behind on my plate than the others but oh well. Anyway, after finishing our two glasses of wine and our meal we proceeded onwards.

    We ran into another person returning to the village on the way and he joined our crew walking back. We made a pit stop at a house along the way to purchase some more wine. We stayed there and had a glass or two before continuing back home. As a result of our frequent stops we watched the sun go down and then the daylight fade (it stays light for much longer here after the sun goes behind the mountains that it does at home) We ended up making the final walk in the dark! It wasn't so bad by moonlight until we got into the steep steps in the trees where there's hardly any light. Thankfully I had a bit of a charge left of my phone and was able to use my flashlight. Next time I go to town I'm bringing my headlamp!! So one light for 4 people, but I think they're all used to it, just me who's a pansy and worried about breaking an ankle ;)

    When we finally made it home we ate, I did the dishes, and we watched some TV. Sounds like tomorrow Beda is going to a nearby town to pick something up for the school, about an hour from Bhotewodar by bus. I might go with him and see some more of the area! Though honestly that means one less day at the school and that breaks my heart a little bit. There are still things I want to do with the computers before I go!! And friendships to continue building. Definitely wish I could stay longer! It'll be sad when I leave, but maybe I'll come back one day :)
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    31 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 17 °C

    This morning started out somewhat differently, there were two engineers (presumably from the government) who came by the house this morning to inspect the damage from the 2015 earthquake. Apparently this is the first time that they've been up to the village, almost 2 years later! They took a number of photos and for the first time I looked closely at the house I'm staying at while walking through with them. Because, why not. There's a fair amount of shear damage at the corners of the buildings and one portion of the building separated a bit, but to my eye it doesn't look too too bad. But, of course, I'm not an expert and have zero experience with this type of construction. Have I mentioned before that the construction is a clay-concrete type for the main walls? There are some wood posts as well and the floors and food are timber as well. Corrugated metal roofs and of course no insulation, but the mass walls do a good job of regulating the temperature. It's dark now but I'll see if I've taken any photos I can post!

    At school today I felt very productive but also experienced some of the frustration I imagine the locals must feel somewhat regularly. I spent the entire day in the computer lab, getting things working smoothly. Originally there were 3 working computers and now there are 5 maybe 6! We'll test the 6th one tomorrow if the power has come back on... That's the frustrating part. The power went off before lunch and didn't come back on all day, still isn't on in fact and it's almost dinner time. Apparently sometimes the power will be out for weeks without warning.. I expected the outage when the storm came a few days ago but today has been perfectly calm and clear! No indication of what caused it. So anyway, with the help of Kevin and Jason I was able to figure out how to install programs on various computers by copying files from one computer without internet or install disks. I was also able to adjust a few settings that until previously they had just dealt with, things like resolution, incorrect drivers, etc. The two computers that we for sure fixed had corrupted memory so we swapped things around until they worked. One of them still requires a registry edit before it works perfectly and the other insists it needs a windows service pack installed, which we don't have, but otherwise success. The 6th computer which we think will work was just a matter of switching out the power supply boxes. I have to say I've learned a lot about hardware today that I didn't know before. Surprised at how well things went... I also went through and tested a number of different mice, keyboards, speakers, power cords etc, to see if they're still working. Though that became tough to do as the power was out. Still lots left to do to get things running smoothly including more software installations and finding mice and keyboards for two of the computers that are working. There are so many broken accessories here it makes me a bit sad. They definitely need all the help they can get when it comes to getting hardware. It's good that they have such a great computer teacher! He doesn't give himself enough credit, but he's quite skilled with computers and ingenious in getting things to work. I was just lucky to be raised on computers...

    As I write this the power is still out and it's getting dark. For the first time I can't see lights across the valley, and there's no radio playing from down in the village below. I have a power bank to keep my phone charged, but I haven't a clue how full it is lol. I'm perfectly content if the phone does die though! The only thing I really need it for is writing these posts, taking pictures, reading my book, calling home.... You know ;) But, there are worse things than being disconnected I'm finding. Partly thinking it might be a good thing to completely disconnect for the evening.. Might just go put it away right now :)
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    30 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 18 °C

    Not much to tell from today! Today was another school day, report card day actually. I taught some English and helped some students with Science and had an amazing phone call with Alanna! We finally had a chance to talk for more than a few minutes and had a strong signal. I'm not feeling all that great today and I can't be sure why. Only had a glass and a half of the wine last night and didn't really feel it, so can't be a hangover? I dunno, it does seem to be cold and flu season here.

    Kayla just for you I've included a photo of the mushrooms that one of the classes is growing! Pretty impressive for only a few days
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  • Holiday, Sirubari, Lamjung

    29 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 18 °C

    Today was great.

    It started out in confusion because I had no idea it was a holiday until breakfast time came and went and we hadn't eaten and I was dressed for school and no one else was. Then I learned about the holiday. I was kind of down at first thinking that I could have used these two days off from school to visit Pokhara. But, I'm glad that I was here for this today!!

    Today was a religious celebration, all about worshipping God and also about young boys who have now "come of age". The name of the holiday sounds like "ekka" but of course I can't find the actual spelling online. The boys are around 7 years old and receive a holy string tied around their neck that they will wear as long as it stays on. My teacher friend showed me his from when he was a boy as he was explaining this to me. It also means that the boy is old enough to take on the families responsibilities should something happen to his parents. Seems a but young to me, but it makes sense!

    At first when I arrived I was sitting alone, unsure of what was going on, thinking that if I snuck out no one would even notice. But then I got into it. I started just watching people before things got underway and I was surprised how easy it was for me to pick out the locals from those who had come from the city. There's a different attitude or way about them perhaps. Their mannerisms and way of dressing are slightly different. But in any case, everyone was wearing their best clothing! I felt a bit scrubbish considering all I brought are travel clothes, but I already stand out so eh. The number of people packed into the place was insane. Hardly any personal space, which isn't a thing here anyway. I'm beginning to get used to being crowded, leaned on, used as a handrail, etc.

    As the celebrations started there was a mad rush of people to the "offering" area and I felt crowded out, clearly not entirely sure what was happening. Then an older gentleman, seeing my confusion, gave me a leaf that others were clamouring for, blessed it with a rice water mixture and explained that it means "God Bless You". We held the leaves hands in prayer position for a moment of silence and then the leaves were collected by someone in the crowd. A few people also gave monetary offerings when returning their leaves.

    Next, the two boys who were receiving their holy strings today walked around the crowd accepting offerings of rice and money. They were dressed in formal clothing and had their heads shaved aside from one small area, almost like a tail? During this time I started chatting with someone from Kathmandu, an English teacher who did his Master's in English Literature so we were able to talk easily! In part why the day was so great, it was very nice to have an in depth conversation :) During that time Bobita called me away to eat with her and some friends hidden away from the party. We ate a lentil curry out of banana leaf bowls with naan type bread. And we had some bananas, pears, oranges, and sel roti as well. The fruit is so refreshing, grown without chemicals and tastes nicer than at home. The carrots do too.

    Next, a boy and a girl both dressed traditionally, sat on a bench and folk came up to them, gave them tikka until their entire foreheads were covered, and gave them money as well. Some of the women left with clothing, the tops that the women wear. Not sure exactly how the system works but was interesting to watch.

    At some point, my new friend returned and we began chatting again. He explained the next part of the ceremony to me which began with a woman ringing a bell, everyone sitting and chanting/clapping for a few moments before the Preist began talking. From what my friend explained it sounds like sermon and was about meat and Krishna and a few other things. This friend isn't all that religious apparently so we talked about spiritually, cultural differences, more volunteer opportunities, struggles of the political system here, etc etc. We exchanged emails so that we might stay in touch. He is in need of English speaking teachers at their school if anyone is interested ;) At this point, if I didn't already have plans to move on to Singapore next I probably would have accepted. I really do love it here.

    At some point the "sermon" ended and I was invited to eat. I went up and found two other teachers also eating, including my teacher friend as I've been calling him. In case anyone is wondering, yes I do know their names, but not how to spell them properly. I'll have to find that out before I leave. They took me under their wing from that point on, almost protectively, and helped me get some food, wash the dishes, hands etc. Interesting how the eating system works. While we were eating there was a group of people holding back, seemingly waiting for us to finish before they moved to the eating area. One woman took a photo of me... Random. Someone said to me that I looked very "sweetie" today as well, and I'm still not sure if they meant sweaty or sweet lol. But since I wasn't sweating, I assume that they meant sweet and I take it as a compliment! I was also called a very nice girl and very sporty looking. Must be the lack of stress making me just look happy, no more resting bitch face? Haha <3

    After eating the three of us walked back down to the celebration area and waited for the next event. I felt included at that moment, not the solitary stranger looking in on someone else's event. That feeling of inclusion was furthered when my new Kathmandu friend sought me out again to continue our conversation. He explained the next event to me, the burning of 100,000 holy threads! Apparently a whole group of women helped to make these threads from cotton and it explains what grandma has been making since I've been here but haven't been able to ask. The threads were lit on fire and people clamoured to get a bit of the warmth from the fire, or the warmth of God entering them. Of course the group was packed so tight around that we really couldn't see much, so my local teacher friends snuck me around the back to the other side with less people. Here I was able to get a glimpse of the holy threads through the people dancing and singing around them. I took a short video, but of course my timing was off and I seemed to catch the ends of songs only. I felt comfortable taking the video because my teacher friend encouraged it, no longer the out cast but accepted. The other side of the property I discovered was not hard clay, but Bamboo poles embedded into the clay and covered in straw and mats. I almost fell through once and had to be very careful with my steps. Amazing how strong Bamboo is! Wish we could use more of it at home.

    I was actually sad when it was time to leave.. I suppose I could have stayed, but I think that Beda and Bobita were worried I wouldn't find my way back. And, I'm happy I did go when I did because they needed to get back quickly so I stayed behind with Grandma and we walked slowly back up. She's incredible that she can manage those steps so easily at her age! In general, I'm impressed with the mobility of people here that we just lack at home. Even the man with an amputated leg who uses crutches gets around efficiently and quickly. Mad respect.

    When we were home I started to write this entry and got distracted, feelings of inclusion continuing. Beda and I finished the wine that we started earlier in the week and talked about various things from travel to past volunteers, to family relations, to relationships, future plans, etc. It was quite a nice way to spend the evening. We did also play another card game which I lost, but not horribly at.

    I am definitely loving my time here more than ever now that I've become accustomed to the change in pace, am making friends, and understanding how things work. I honestly am already sad that I'm going to have to leave pretty soon. I could see myself living here I think. But don't worry Mom, I'm still coming home ;) I'll just be back to visit in the future I'm sure! It'll be interesting to see how the next segment of my trip goes, it'll be very fast paced in comparison to this relaxed, stress free life I've been living recently. All part of the journey!
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  • Free Day, Sirubari, Lamjung

    28 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 13 °C

    Today started off easily enough, read my book for a bit, "showered", breakfast. I then walked to the next village to one of the teacher's homes because Beda and Bobita had other things to do. I wasn't entirely sure why I was going, and the directions I was given to get there were "follow the road until you see someone to show you his house" lol. Thankfully I did find it no problem! There was someone leaving who showed me where to go. When I arrived, I picked up what I had been sent for, mutton. I guess today was slaughter day.. Must have something to do with some party I heard is going on today. Pretty sure that I don't like mutton but I guess we'll see. Along the walk there I was able to talk breifly with Mom before the signal faded!

    When I returned home I decided I needed to do some laundry. Finding the cistern was a challenge, apparently I just don't understand directions very well.. Or I don't understand the difference between a big tree and a medium sized tree, but hey. But once I did find it I started washing my clothes. And didn't have enough laundry soap of course. So I used a bar of soap meant for the body and it worked well enough! After I figured out how the heck to wash clothes properly without a sink... Pretty sure I didn't do a very good job on some items. I also understand now why a lot of people don't bother with socks here (they all wear sandals 90% of the time) even when it's cold. Because they're impossible to clean! I will be following suit now and dealing with cold feet instead of the struggle of washing socks that just don't get clean. Thankfully, I only brought black socks so you can't really tell that they're still covered in dirt. They smell fine though :p Once the clothes dry we'll see how successful I was with washing them.. While I was doing my laundry a goat tried to eat some socks! It was kind of comical but frustrating at the same time haha.

    When I was back from washing clothing, there was no one at the house and I took the opportunity to just relax. Wishing I had some beers to drink, but not enough to walk down to town for them! So instead I read my book, did some stretching and other exercises. I can feel myself getting more flexible in some ways, like the hips even though they ache, and in some ways I feel tighter, my calves in particular. And my back aches, but pretty sure that's just muscles getting stronger..

    At some point in the afternoon Bobita came back to the house to make some tea and I went with her down to the celebration. I'm not entirely sure what this one was all about... Some girls tried to explain it and I think it's something to do with honouring women. Grandma was there and received a blessing of some sort in front of the... Blessing area? One pro of letting the girls use my phone for photos meant they took one of the area I'm talking about so I didn't have to be the offensive stranger taking pictures of everything ;) This one was more elaborate than the one at the wedding party, but the same idea. Offerings of food, money, flowers, in bowls made of banana leaves all placed under a knit cloth draped from 4 poles decorated with leaves and flowers. I'm starting to notice a clear separation between men and women in al public events. There is very little mixing of the sexes, the women all sit together and the men sit together. The children drift between the two groups but tend to stay with the women. Or, like today, with me. They're fascinated by me and honestly I'm okay with their company because it's so easy to talk to children. All they want to do is learn and have fun, if the conversation isn't all that intelligent well that's okay. There is one brother and sister in particular that just melt my heart, children of one of the teachers. The little boy always comes and sits with me and the girl is always explaining what's happening and showing me around. Makes me think of having my own one day ;) oh! And the children gave me these little fruits that were super sour and delicious and I wish that we had them at home! Called lapsi I believe.

    For dinner we had the mutton.. Definitely not a fan. But I tried!
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    27 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ 🌬 25 °C

    Today it rained! And I loved it. It cooled down to what I considered a very comfortable temperature, but the rest were complaining about how cold it is. Cold enough that we were brought tea partway through the day by one of the ladies at the school :) Turns out Friday's are half days, so school ended about 1pm. I spent the day helping one of the teachers with some custom formatting in word/excel for report cards. New stuff for me too actually, but figured it out quickly enough!

    At home we had a quick lunch before the real rain started. In the time before the downpour, the sky was so clear that you could actually see across the valley to the other mountains! I hadn't realized how hazy it is here at other times. Pretty amazing. Then there was thunder, lightening, wind driven rain, and power outages. Pretty awesome actually. I love storm watching! After some time of watching the storm, Beda and I played a game of chess while he waited for the rain to clear so that he could go and cut some grass for the animals. I lost. But not horribly.. Just badly.. I think that it's been about 10+ years since I last played with Dad. But, oh well, it was good anyway, strategies will come back to me I'm sure.

    When the storm broke I was feeling restless and decided to go for a bit of a walk. I didn't go far but really wanted to just get out and move around. Starting to feel a little bit cooped up, not enough to do. But then at the same time, when I'm truly truly alone I absolutely love it. Like when I was walking and there weren't other people around or now when I'm writing just sitting alone. I really am happy with my own company. Good thing too else I'd be completely bored I think. With my luck, the rain started again while I was still walking. So when I got back home I curled up on my bed and got warm again, reading my book until dinner. After dinner I chatted outside with Bobita about random things for a while before heading to bed. Was good bonding time, she invited Mom and Dad to come visit as well!
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  • Senior School Festival, Sirubari, Lamjun

    26 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 14 °C

    Today started as normal, breakfast, walk to school. Go to classes, sneak away for a phone chat with Kris and Anita, then as I was on the phone one of the teachers walked by me and invited me to go to a festival at the senior school. So I went, and acheived one of my goals of walking up to the top our our mountain peak! The walk was 1km in distance with 250m elevation gain. All stairs really, and hot!

    And, I cannot even begin to describe how amazing the mountains are. It's just not possible to capture them on camera either though I did try.. I thought that because we grew up with the Rockies in the background I'd be hard pressed to be awed by another mountain range, I wasn't really by the Alps when we were in Switzerland. But the Himalayan mountains are something else. In part I think it's because of how dynamic they are, there are peaks and valleys everywhere rather than a more consistent line. Or maybe it only seems that way because I'm right in the middle of them, but I don't think so, it's completely different than our mountains at home. Another thing is how the mountains have been tamed. There are settlements and farms carved into every hillside that you can see. I think that's what amazes me the most: the sheer durability and resilience of the people who have made these mountains their own.

    The senior School is much larger than the basic school I've been at. It has two levels and probably 30 classes? There were a ton of people there. There's also a couple small markets carrying the basics that people might need such as soap, notebooks, snacks, shoes, etc. The festival itself was very similar to the one our school had to celebrate it's anniversary. There were 3 different groups that danced: one traditional with two girls, one more modern with four boys, and a lovers dance with two boys and two girls. The students doing the traditional dancing were older than our students and a bit more fluid and synchronized with their movements. Both were lovely though! I really enjoyed the dance by the boys, they just had so much energy and creativity. I can't think of what to compare the dancing to, but it was like something you'd see in a music video but to Nepali music. The lovers dance was super cute, and it looked like the couples preforming it were slightly nervous which made it even better. It was a slower dance and was more similar to dancing we know at home with partners moving together as one rather than two separate people doing the same dance. The dancing is definitely a highlight of these festivals for me considering that I can't understand anything else. I am starting to differentiate between words now and can pick out words and recognize sentence structure but I don't know what any of the words mean! Which means I still haven't a clue about what they're speaking about.

    During the festival there was a man dancing in the background to all the student performances who appeared a bit... Off his rocker. He later approached me and starting talking to me about things and then said that he likes me, loves me, wants to marry me. I would have been uncomfortable had Bobita not been sitting right next to me laughing. She later explained that he's just "mad" and not to pay any attention to him. It was entertaining at least I suppose! On the walk home I received a second offer from a different gentleman (who was also joking as he's married and has grandchildren) to marry. I'm beginning to think it's a common theme because of our limited language skills; every woman I meet also asks if I am married. I didn't walk home with Bobita, but with another woman from the village and when we reached her home she offered me tea and water. Her children are students at the school so we tried to talk a bit but my Nepali sucks! From her house I somehow made it home... It was a new route for me and by some miracle, or a better sense of direction than I thought I had, I made it home first try, picking all the correct paths at forks. That was kind of fun though! Maybe I'll start exploring a bit more around here. The only worry I have is accidentally ending up in someone's yard. When I was walking with the locals we wandered through so many random people's properties, and I do see random people pass through our property too, but alone I wouldn't be comfortable doing it.

    I made it back from the festival later than normal, and Beda and Bobita followed shortly afterwards. Bobita from the festival and Beda from town. Bobita had a couple friends over for dinner and she made rice pudding again yum! Beda had gone to town and bought some chicken and some Nepalese wine. After dinner Bobita went down to the village to a friends house and Beda, one of his friends, and myself shared some of the wine. And for anyone considering trying Nepalese wine in the future, it is not wine as we know it! Oh boy that has a kick. He bought it direct from the person who makes it and it came in a big plastic bottle with no label. It was fresh so it was warm when we were first drinking it and I think I actually prefer it that way strangely.. To drink Nepalese wine you must also have some snacks that you eat along with it, "slowly slowly" so that the wine doesn't hit you as hard I presume. We had some carrots, spinach, and chicken as our snacks. And while snacking you talk. The card games came after the eating and drinking was done. Apparently, they usually play for money but because I'm learning we skipped it. Thankfully.

    Anyway, back to the wine. It's not wine as we know it, it's made from millet and the percentage is somewhere between 20 and 30 I think. The taste is different. Reminded me of a cross between Grappa and Sake. Maybe with some hints of Port in there... For those of you who know me, none of those drinks are something I enjoy the taste of, but I preservered and began to enjoy the taste after the first cup was finished ;) Thankful for those afternoons of Scotch tasting right now! Didn't enjoy that either at first and now love it soooo maybe this will be the same. But, because you have to walk over an hour one way to get the wine and then carry it up, I can't imagine that it'll be a common occurrence. But, the evening was quite nice and relaxing! Definitely much needed. Reminded me of home and hanging out at the kitchen table just having a good time..
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    25 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ☀️ 29 °C

    Doing more and more teaching at school it seems. Today was math and computers! There is actually a computer lab here with 3 working computers. Students are supposed to be practicing typing but are more interested in drawing pictures on Paint. Getting them to focus on a task with the language barrier is difficult, but I suppose we manage to get things done. I should add though, that both Math and Computer classes are taught entirely in English.

    Instead of eating lunch at the school the female teachers and myself went into the Village to a Wedding Party. The ceremony itself was yesterday from what I understand, and today was the party where the entire village was invited to participate. The couple was seated in front of a circle of offerings, bowls made of leaves filled with money, food, and flowers. Above the offerings was a very pretty knit cloth suspended by four Bamboo poles also covered in leaves and flowers. Seating with the couple were two older gentlemen, who were reading something from a book. For obvious reasons I couldn't take pictures and no one I was with spoke English well enough to explain what was going on. It was pretty though! At some cue that I missed we were invited to eat. And oh man was there a lot of food! The Nepali sure know how to eat... It's too much for me to be honest. But of course to refuse or not finish everything on your plate is offensive. I've eaten more each day here than I typically do in two days at home.. At least it's all healthy foods. Hoping that I don't gain a bunch of weight as a result.. I'm not really worried though, all the people here are so thin and they eat like this all the time! After school, some of the male teachers went down to the celebration. I was invited to go again but I declined. Oh! On our way back from eating at the party, myself and one other woman were walking back along the stairs in the picture, and were nearly attacked by monkeys! She grabbed a stick and started waving it at them and they backed off.. If I had been alone I don't even know how I would have reacted because I didn't know they would have approached us! Wish I had been able to get a photo, yes apparently I'm one of those people ;)

    In the evening, one of Beda's relatives, cousin I think, came over to talk to Grandma. She speaks no English and I speak no Nepali but we were trying to communicate. Eventually I pulled out a book for those learning Nepali and she showed me the pronunciation of a few words so I now know a whole 10 words, better than the 1 I did before ;) Actually, in writing the language is starting to make sense but I still can't translate what's said orally. Probably the day I leave is the day I'll make progress :P
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    24 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ 🌙 18 °C

    Another day at school! Special food notes: Babita made this donut type thing called "sel roti" it was a nice treat first thing in the morning with tea! Spoiled again in the afternoon after school, she made popcorn from the kernels that were a result of the work we did yesterday. (Beda took the whole kernels to the mill first thing this morning) oh, and apparently I can handle more spice than I thought! I think I impressed the staff at lunch by eating two chillies without even thinking about it. I guess they're not used to us volunteers liking hot foods!

    A highlight of today was having the chance to talk to Alanna and also to Karolina! Short as the conversations were it was nice to hear from home, I'm going to have to find a way to sneak away from school longer so I can talk more!

    I definitely am enjoying school much more these last couple days, teaching English and helping with computers is exactly what I love doing. The computer part especially ;) Word + Excel + good company? Why not. It's fun! Mom sent me some photos of home yesterday so that I could show some students who were asking to see where I lived. They all say that it's a beautiful home, which I suppose it is! Sure does look nice in photos, though I thought I left my room cleaner than I did...

    Something that bothered me today was 4 girls saying that they were ugly because of their skin colour. That they wanted whiter skin to be prettier. I can't believe that that's still a thing. Four young, beautiful girls with self esteem issues because of their colour?! It makes me angry that they think that... I made sure to tell them they were beautiful of course but if I remember being their age, what I say won't change their minds.

    I had a chance to talk to Beda today about how long I'll be here for and I think I finally have a plan sorted unless things change again of course, which I'm totally open to, flexibility is key this trip ;) I'm going to Chitwan to see Satya from February 11-15 which gives me 2 days in Kathmandu before I leave for Singapore. I need those 2 days to do some shopping I've been putting off, to find a post office to mail some things home, to do some laundry, and to maybe maybe do a flight to see Everest and maybe maybe a downhill bike tour! I know I said I wasn't going to because of my knee, but... If it's holding up okay I really can't pass up the opportunity!!! Who knows when I'll get the chance to get back to Nepal, though I can tell you already that I would love to come back. The people are so peaceful and the life so healing that I would definitely come back. I also think that I will try to visit Pokhara in the next few weeks before I leave for Chitwan. Apparently only a day is needed to visit, though it is about 5 hours away (walking + bus). It's another city in Nepal that hosts the 2nd largest lake in the country and apparently is quite beautiful. I'll try to time it over a Saturday so that I can only miss 2 days of school instead of 3. Getting there will be interesting... The bus system seems chaotic. I'll have to ask for help! The time seems to be slipping by, with one Saturday dedicated to Pokhara (hopefully) I only have one free day to fill! And that will probably be filled with doing laundry... I do hope to be able to hike up to the top of the mountain range here as well though and take in the views. Maybe I'll see if one of the teachers would be interested in showing me, if I can communicate my request of course.

    Anyway, I've already said far more than I thought I had to say! Oh but a fun fact for you Gary, no I haven't found any of your herbs, but I did hear a rumour about mushrooms growing around here...
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    23 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ 🌙 18 °C

    Today I learned exactly how inflexible I am. I've always had issues with flexibility but I didn't think I was bad as I am until trying to squat-sit for 3 hours... My back is killing me, my hips are sore, I need to stretch stat. It's just unusual positioning for us I suppose! At least I've accepted my limitations and can laugh with the locals ;)

    Today before school was corn husking.. The corn was from last season's harvest and has been sitting in storage so is dried out. It will be used to feed the Buffalo and make some flour and popcorn as well. Between grandma and I it took about an hour to get down to the cobs. Then after school we proceeded to take all the kernels off the cobs. That took 3 of us almost an hour and a half! Next step is to brig it to the mill but I think that'll have to wait until tomorrow as it's dark now. Like I said, I've really started to appreciate how much work goes into processing the food we eat on a daily basis.. In a way it's therapeutic to do it all yourself though I can't imagine ever having the time at home with our busy lifestyles. Especially when I decide to go back to school and work... Won't that be fun. ;) Another useful tool that they use here is... Not a clue of the name, but you can see it in the picture. It's a curved blade that you hold between your feet to cut things instead of using a knife. It is so much easier and works so well! Except of course that I can't see anyone at home using it in that manner. But, definitely works better than knives, in fact I don't think I've even seen a knife in their kitchen now that I think about it, I'll have to look at dinner.

    School today was a bit more productive and back to a normal routine it seems. I can't be certain, but it seems as though there are more classes than there are teachers. The teachers were in a staff meeting for the majority of the morning so I was off with Class 4&5 going over some English (and a few math) things. When there isn't a teacher for a blocked out lesson students self teach themselves from workbooks. Which personally I would have loved at school, but some of the students of course take advantage and just copy their classmates homework. Remind you of your own school days? It's challenging teaching the younger kids English I will say that! At the beginning there were some communication issues but I think I've figured out their level now and we had smiles going by the end of the class because they were mostly understanding the material. I was also able to put my computer skills to good use again today! And I was told that I need to stay longer so I can continue to help, felt like quite a compliment considering I don't think I really did all that much :)

    One of the highlights of today was finding a spot at the school that was private and also had a great data signal! Typically, I only get E for internet and it takes a good minute to load a simple Google search. And about 5-10 minutes for these posts to upload. But now I know the sweet spot so maybe I'll be able to call home more often! I talked to Mom for a bit and it was great to hear a familiar voice and to have a conversation in fluent English <3 Because of the time change it was about 9:00pm for her, if anyone else is ever available at that time let me know ;) Over WhatsApp or Messenger! Actually I think I can call regular numbers too using Hangouts.. I'll look into it
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  • Sirubari, Lamjung

    22 januari 2017, Nepal ⋅ ⛅ 17 °C

    School again today! And I felt somewhat useful this time around ;) Now that the celebrations are over at school, classes are back to normal. Classes run in 40 minute sessions from 10am to 4pm. Much more logical time for classes to run than we had in school. I suppose it's partly because those are the middle of the daylight hours and apparently some of the teachers walk from town to school everyday.. That's dedication.

    I was given an English class and a Math class to teach; though I ended up being needed for something more urgent so didn't really get to finish either. Perhaps tomorrow I'll get to finish a class ;) Today I was needed for photo taking & editing for the "Class 8" passport photos. Then I was needed for internet research on a college website that was only in English and couldn't be translated. Honestly seems to be that my greatest skills to offer are those with computers and technology. I think mostly because the operating systems and instruction manuals for everything are in English so I'm able to navigate things easily. But, it's nice to be able to help! I struggle with the English lessons though and communication I'm general, I'm reminded of how I was taught French and how it wasn't really all that successful. Learning from books and learning to read text is all good but conversations need to be had as well! I try to engage students in conversation outside of classes and some respond very well and are eager to try and understand and others have no interest. Guess that's to be expected. Anyway! My own learning of the Nepali language is not going so well. I've been studying the basics but have such a hard time picking out words during conversations, most of what I get out of conversations is from body language. I do really like it here though! The teachers are lovely and I always seem to keep occupied somehow, even if it is just in deep thought ;)

    I'm starting to miss home a bit, mostly because I haven't had an in depth conversation with anyone since the random stranger on the flight to Kathmandu. Otherwise, being here is fantastic. I could see myself living this way to be honest. Maybe some principles will come home with me. I really haven't had any digestive issues or anything since arriving in Sirubari until today, some familiar pain returning. Must be either the alcohol or the meat that I had yesterday! I'm learning towards the meat though... Or the oil that it was cooked in. In any case, it's clear that I've managed to mostly eliminate my triggers and will have to keep it up at home! Randomly, writing about my day and what's going on here with me makes me miss home less. Knowing that there are a few people reading what I'm writing helps keep my sanity and English skills up to date ;)
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