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- Oct 14, 2023, 7:00pm
- ☁️ 19 °C
- Altitude: 15 m
- SpainGaliciaFinisterra42°54’25” N 9°15’47” W
A day in Finisterre
October 14, 2023 in Spain ⋅ ☁️ 19 °C
What a wonderful ending to the camino, dipping my feet in the ocean during the sunset in Finisterre. Finisterre is named and known to be the end of the world. When people believed the world was flat, this was the furthest point they could go. If they sailed out here to the edge, they would fall off.
The day started by meeting Christina at 9:15 to catch the bus at 10:00 for the 3 hour bus ride. We arrived at 1:00pm but our hotel didn’t open until 4pm, so we grabbed lunch and then made the trek to the Faro (lighthouse). It is between 3-4km from the town center. I was wearing jeans, but it was way too hot, so I stopped on the edge of the road to change into shorts. The one thing the camino taught me is that doing this is no big deal. Really, so someone sees my underwear, people see the same on a beach, but much less cloth.
We made it to the lighthouse, the 000km marker and the point where the clothes used to be burned. They have filled in the hole now and forbid it, but the stones are still there.
I left Christina and went and climbed our special hill, Jörg’s and mine. So before I explain what I did today, it is time to go back in time and explain about the hill.
In 2008, I had decided to do the camino in the fall of 2009 before meeting Jörg. He thought that it was interesting but didn’t have any desire to do it. He said he would just meet me at the start and the finish to celebrate. About a month before I was to start, he had decided to walk with me. He was in Portugal at the time and drove home to Germany, did a little training weekend and then left on a bus for Saint Jean Pied de Port to meet me for an August 30th start.
You all know our journey now through the “throwbacks” I have been including. Our first kiss, our first “I love you”, our first fight etc. Well, after the camino was complete, we had rented a car and stopped in Muxia and Finisterre.
After visiting the lighthouse and sitting at the point for awhile, Jörg suggested we take a little hike up the hill. So off we went and then we sat on some rocks at the top. He then said, “go look under that rock”. A little confused, I went and looked and there was nothing. Then he had a worried look on his face and said, “hold on”, then came back and said, “ok, over there under that rock”. So just a little distance away, I went and lifted the rock and underneath it was a plastic bag. Inside the plastic bag was the letter I had sent him during the summer with some photos I had taken on the beach of Tofino. The photos were of the message written in the sand with stones “I miss you Jörg”. In the letter I wrote, it also included two of the stones and they were in this bag as well.
So all this time, during the summer and during the start of the camino I was wondering if he even really liked me, and he had already buried this stuff a month before we started the camino. So the answer was obviously yes. He stopped here when driving from Portugal back to Germany and buried it. How incredible and romantic is that?
So today, I had decided I would visit that spot again. I found it by the pictures I had taken. I decided I would like to bury something here under a rock as well. The item I decided on was Jörg’s Yellow Arrow name tag that he used when we were hospitaleros. I had carried it with me along the camino the whole time in my waist pack. Every so often, the pin would open up and stab me through the bag. I would just laugh and imagine Jörg wanted my attention at that moment.
So, Jörg’s pin is now safely buried under a rock on a hill, overlooking the ocean at Finisterre. He would love the spot. It is quiet and you only hear the ocean waves breaking against the rocks and shore.
Christina and I walked back to town, relaxed in the room a bit and then headed out to see the sunset on the beach. It was a bit clouded so we didn’t get to see the sun setting, but the clouds did turn a pretty colour. I dipped my feet in the ocean and I felt it was actually quite warm. At one point, I turned around and Christina was taking pictures so I posed, and just at that time, a wave hit me from behind and splashed completely up my backside getting my jeans soaking wet. I just laughed. We eventually left the beach, I went back and changed, we went out for dinner at 8:30 and then are now quietly relaxing before bed. It is Christina’s last day in Spain and last day for the camino. She is leaving tomorrow for Porto and then flying home. I will see her again soon when I go to visit Denmark.
Jörg walked 500 miles and went to the ends of the Earth for me. I have now walked 500 miles and went to the ends of the Earth for him. It is the very least I could do for the 14 incredible years of complete joy he had given me. I recognize that the love we shared was very special and doesn’t come around very often in life. I was completely blessed to have met him and I will cherish our short time together forever.
I have one last thing I want to do. I need to finish the book that we both wanted to write about our camino journey. It may be something just for myself, or it may be for publishing, but I want to finish it. I will finish it.
Thank you for sharing in my journey and for all your encouraging comments along the way. It was such a blessing to share our story with you.
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Traveler Julie thank you for opening your heart up to all of us with your honest, heartbreaking and hopeful blog. Huge hugs!
Traveler Thank you for sharing all you have experienced on your Camino Journey. It is a treasure.
Thank you for sharing your memories [Marvin]