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- Nov 3, 2024, 3:53 PM
- ☁️ 9 °C
- Altitude: 28 m
- JapanHokkaidoChūō KuKita-ichijōKenshin Ji43°3’44” N 141°18’58” E
Where Maple Meets Memory
November 3 in Japan ⋅ ☁️ 9 °C
In the crisp autumn air of Hokkaido, our hearts were heavy as we bid farewell to the serene shores of Lake Toya. The two-hour drive to Sapporo was filled with anticipation - not for what we were leaving behind, but for who we were about to meet. The skyline of Sapporo emerged as we drew closer, our excitement building with each passing kilometer.
After dropping our bags at the Airbnb, the second reunion we'd been waiting for finally happened over steaming plates at a cozy pancake restaurant. Watching Anth embrace Sophie and Shea after nearly a year apart made time seem to stand still. The way their eyes lit up, the laughter that followed - it was as if no time had passed at all.
The following days unfolded like pages from a storybook we never wanted to end. Torrin's thoughtful decision to upgrade his K-car to something larger to accommodate our growing group spoke volumes about his generous spirit - a trait that had only grown stronger during his time in Japan. The streets of Sapporo became our playground as we helped the kids prepare for the dropping temperatures, their shopping bags growing heavier with warm clothes and treasured finds.
Mount Maruyama became our sanctuary, its 5km loop revealing autumn's full splendor. The sight of Buddha statues wearing their handmade winter garments, carefully crafted by dedicated attendants, touched our hearts deeply. Our group of six felt complete as we wandered through this tapestry of red and gold, sharing stories and creating memories. The discovery of a squirrel at Hokkaido Jingu - Torrin's first sighting in his year in Japan - brought childlike joy to his face.
Celebrating Torrin's 25th birthday in Japan felt surreal. The morning began with homemade pancakes, but the true gift was yet to come. The outdoor onsen experience he'd chosen for us became magical when snowflakes began to fall. As Sal joined Sophie in the women's section, the rest of us followed Torrin's lead through the ancient bathing rituals. Watching Shea experience snow for the first time while we soaked in the therapeutic waters was a moment we'll forever cherish.
The following days brought more gifts: a blanket of fresh snow transforming Sapporo into a winter wonderland, impromptu snowball fights, and even helping a stranded police car - a moment that reminded us how unexpected adventures often become the most memorable. While Sal focused on university work one day, the rest of us discovered the joys of Round One's indoor sports complex, our competitive spirits and laughter echoing through the halls.
Our exploration of Hokkaido's coast through Otaru and Yoichi revealed hidden shrines and wild landscapes. Watching Torrin converse fluently with local bakery owners in Japanese filled us with pride - he had truly found his place in this culture he'd grown to love.
Our final days were spent soaking in the panoramic views from Sapporo Tower and wandering through the autumn splendor of Nakajima Park one last time. But as we stood there, gazing over the sprawling cityscape of Sapporo, it wasn't just the view that took our breath away - it was the profound realization of what this moment truly meant.
Watching our children navigate their way through this foreign land with such confidence and grace stirred something deep within us. Here was Torrin, no longer just our son but a bridge between two cultures, speaking Japanese with an ease that made our hearts swell with pride. In just a year, he had carved out a life here, finding purpose and belonging in a way that reminded us that sometimes the best parenting means simply letting go.
And now, Sophie and Shea stood at the threshold of their own Japanese adventure. Their eyes sparkled with the same excitement we'd seen in Torrin's when he first left, that beautiful mix of nervousness and unbridled possibility. As parents, we often dream of our children finding their place in the world, but witnessing it unfold in real-time was something altogether different - a bittersweet symphony of pride, joy, and that gentle ache that comes with watching your children spread their wings.
This journey, though brief, had given us something precious: the chance to see our children not just as we remembered them, but as they were becoming. In the way they navigated the subway systems, in their fearless approach to new experiences, in their easy laughter and confident steps, we saw the adults they had grown into. It was a gift beyond measure, this chance to be present as they stepped into their own stories, while still being able to share in their wonder and excitement.
As parents, we couldn't have scripted a more perfect way to usher in this new chapter. Here, amid the falling maple leaves and gentle snowflakes of Hokkaido, we weren't just saying goodbye - we were witnessing the beautiful unfolding of three unique journeys, each one a testament to the courage we had hoped to instill in them. In these precious days together, we found the rarest of gifts: the absolute certainty that while our children were ready to soar on their own, the bonds of family would always bring them back home, no matter how far their adventures might take them.Read more
Traveler Hard to read while I am crying. Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥲🥲🥲
Sal and Anth ❤️❤️
Traveler Just read your adventures to you Dad Anth and he had tears in his eyes too. Xx
Sal and Anth ❤️❤️